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all in all "happiness is seein yur future mother n law on the back of a milk carton."!!!  Haaaaawk!!!!!!! Behave you   Chris ... Just a hunch... which may be way off... but it sounds as though this girl has been pretty sheltered. Is it possible that her mom is fearful about your chosen profession...and the potential danger of it ... and is just wanting to protect her? you seem to have hit the perverbial nail on the head here maybe ill go with my secondary choice of jobs then i may be able to make everyone happy.... yea that may work so insurence sales here i come. You have to make YOU happy...this is your life to live ... selling insurence will make me happy as well. It sounds like you're not really asking for advice at all, but looking for reassurance that you sticking to your guns and pursuing a relationship with this young girl, is the right thing to do. p.s. If you're going to try to sell insurance, you should probably spell the word correctly. |
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all in all "happiness is seein yur future mother n law on the back of a milk carton."!!! Haaaaawk!!!!!!! Behave you Chris ... Just a hunch... which may be way off... but it sounds as though this girl has been pretty sheltered. Is it possible that her mom is fearful about your chosen profession...and the potential danger of it ... and is just wanting to protect her? you seem to have hit the perverbial nail on the head here maybe ill go with my secondary choice of jobs then i may be able to make everyone happy.... yea that may work so insurence sales here i come. You have to make YOU happy...this is your life to live ... selling insurence will make me happy as well. It sounds like you're not really asking for advice at all, but looking for reassurance that you sticking to your guns and pursuing a relationship with this young girl, is the right thing to do. p.s. If you're going to try to sell insurance, you should probably spell the word correctly. lol yea should probably spell better but ill work on that later. maybe i am just looking for reassurance that sticking this out will work but is that a bad thing? |
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Well, it's just that you're asking for advice, but not really even listening to it unless it's exactly what you want to hear.
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 If she's really close to her mom and lives at home, then YOU need to aplease her mom as well as her. So try and find out why her mom doesn't like you by talking to her mother about it. Be humble and polite and ALLOW her to know you and trust that YOUR a good man and will treat her daughter with respect and love...and if YOU can't get this done,,then you suffer the actions of turning mother and daughter against each other,,even for awhile. And YOU don't want to do that if possible. BUT,,some MOM'S have a VERY hard time letting go of their babies,wink,,walk soft my friend..GOOD LUCK.. 
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If she's really close to her mom and lives at home, then YOU need to aplease her mom as well as her. So try and find out why her mom doesn't like you by talking to her mother about it. Be humble and polite and ALLOW her to know you and trust that YOUR a good man and will treat her daughter with respect and love...and if YOU can't get this done,,then you suffer the actions of turning mother and daughter against each other,,even for awhile. And YOU don't want to do that if possible. BUT,,some MOM'S have a VERY hard time letting go of their babies,wink,,walk soft my friend..GOOD LUCK.. This guy knows! Ive been there dude, had this same thing happen . . . its ok to try to get to know the mom. One way or the other it will become clear. Thats not to say it wont cause drama, but if you do it right and it still causes drama . . . that tells you as much as a direct answer. |
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If she's really close to her mom and lives at home, then YOU need to aplease her mom as well as her. So try and find out why her mom doesn't like you by talking to her mother about it. Be humble and polite and ALLOW her to know you and trust that YOUR a good man and will treat her daughter with respect and love...and if YOU can't get this done,,then you suffer the actions of turning mother and daughter against each other,,even for awhile. And YOU don't want to do that if possible. BUT,,some MOM'S have a VERY hard time letting go of their babies,wink,,walk soft my friend..GOOD LUCK.. This guy knows! Ive been there dude, had this same thing happen . . . its ok to try to get to know the mom. One way or the other it will become clear. Thats not to say it wont cause drama, but if you do it right and it still causes drama . . . that tells you as much as a direct answer. that sounds like a good idea guys but she asked me not to talk to her mom... i have a rather bad temper when im being treated badly.... so whats the best way to approach her mom without causing problems and do you have any advice on how to controle my temper? |
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I would either, a) be cautious of dating a woman who still has to do what her mother tells her, or b) assume she's giving me an excuse because she doesn't want to see me anymore. yes this is something to think about here...I agree she has to do what her mom says because she still lives with her mom and i still live with my parents.... i miss her Living with your parents means, coming home when they say, and doing around the house what they want, and paying rent (if any) not who you can or cannot see...Does her mother pick her friends also? Does her mother pick out her clothes when she leaves the house? You're better off without someone who is controlled by her parents, think about when you are older and on your own, how much interference will "mommy dearest" have then... How much will she let "mommy" have? |
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If she's really close to her mom and lives at home, then YOU need to aplease her mom as well as her. So try and find out why her mom doesn't like you by talking to her mother about it. Be humble and polite and ALLOW her to know you and trust that YOUR a good man and will treat her daughter with respect and love...and if YOU can't get this done,,then you suffer the actions of turning mother and daughter against each other,,even for awhile. And YOU don't want to do that if possible. BUT,,some MOM'S have a VERY hard time letting go of their babies,wink,,walk soft my friend..GOOD LUCK.. This guy knows! Ive been there dude, had this same thing happen . . . its ok to try to get to know the mom. One way or the other it will become clear. Thats not to say it wont cause drama, but if you do it right and it still causes drama . . . that tells you as much as a direct answer. that sounds like a good idea guys but she asked me not to talk to her mom... i have a rather bad temper when im being treated badly.... so whats the best way to approach her mom without causing problems and do you have any advice on how to controle my temper? I WISH I would have read your answer before posting my previous one.... LEAVE HER ALONE... MOMMY DIDN'T TELL HER TO BREAK UP...She chose that route all on her own... |
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 If there's drama already........ Whats the point.......... |
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If she's really close to her mom and lives at home, then YOU need to aplease her mom as well as her. So try and find out why her mom doesn't like you by talking to her mother about it. Be humble and polite and ALLOW her to know you and trust that YOUR a good man and will treat her daughter with respect and love...and if YOU can't get this done,,then you suffer the actions of turning mother and daughter against each other,,even for awhile. And YOU don't want to do that if possible. BUT,,some MOM'S have a VERY hard time letting go of their babies,wink,,walk soft my friend..GOOD LUCK.. This guy knows! Ive been there dude, had this same thing happen . . . its ok to try to get to know the mom. One way or the other it will become clear. Thats not to say it wont cause drama, but if you do it right and it still causes drama . . . that tells you as much as a direct answer. that sounds like a good idea guys but she asked me not to talk to her mom... i have a rather bad temper when im being treated badly.... so whats the best way to approach her mom without causing problems and do you have any advice on how to controle my temper? write a letter. If it never gets read then thats your answer. There are soo many people that cant be reached. But if you never try you never know. Lily is probably right, its best to steel your emotions against that probability, easier said then done, but if you accept that then it makes it easier. If she doesnt want you to talk to her mom then that kinda reinforces lily's argument. If it where me, id write the letter, and write her off (emotionally) before I even sent it. |
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If she's really close to her mom and lives at home, then YOU need to aplease her mom as well as her. So try and find out why her mom doesn't like you by talking to her mother about it. Be humble and polite and ALLOW her to know you and trust that YOUR a good man and will treat her daughter with respect and love...and if YOU can't get this done,,then you suffer the actions of turning mother and daughter against each other,,even for awhile. And YOU don't want to do that if possible. BUT,,some MOM'S have a VERY hard time letting go of their babies,wink,,walk soft my friend..GOOD LUCK.. This guy knows! Ive been there dude, had this same thing happen . . . its ok to try to get to know the mom. One way or the other it will become clear. Thats not to say it wont cause drama, but if you do it right and it still causes drama . . . that tells you as much as a direct answer. that sounds like a good idea guys but she asked me not to talk to her mom... i have a rather bad temper when im being treated badly.... so whats the best way to approach her mom without causing problems and do you have any advice on how to controle my temper? write a letter. If it never gets read then thats your answer. There are soo many people that cant be reached. But if you never try you never know. Lily is probably right, its best to steel your emotions against that probability, easier said then done, but if you accept that then it makes it easier. If she doesnt want you to talk to her mom then that kinda reinforces lily's argument. If it where me, id write the letter, and write her off (emotionally) before I even sent it. He's 21, and has a "bad temper" when he doesn't get his way.... That's either a childish man, or a spousal abuser...either one, she's better off without him. |
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If she's really close to her mom and lives at home, then YOU need to aplease her mom as well as her. So try and find out why her mom doesn't like you by talking to her mother about it. Be humble and polite and ALLOW her to know you and trust that YOUR a good man and will treat her daughter with respect and love...and if YOU can't get this done,,then you suffer the actions of turning mother and daughter against each other,,even for awhile. And YOU don't want to do that if possible. BUT,,some MOM'S have a VERY hard time letting go of their babies,wink,,walk soft my friend..GOOD LUCK.. This guy knows! Ive been there dude, had this same thing happen . . . its ok to try to get to know the mom. One way or the other it will become clear. Thats not to say it wont cause drama, but if you do it right and it still causes drama . . . that tells you as much as a direct answer. that sounds like a good idea guys but she asked me not to talk to her mom... i have a rather bad temper when im being treated badly.... so whats the best way to approach her mom without causing problems and do you have any advice on how to controle my temper? write a letter. If it never gets read then thats your answer. There are soo many people that cant be reached. But if you never try you never know. Lily is probably right, its best to steel your emotions against that probability, easier said then done, but if you accept that then it makes it easier. If she doesnt want you to talk to her mom then that kinda reinforces lily's argument. If it where me, id write the letter, and write her off (emotionally) before I even sent it. He's 21, and has a "bad temper" when he doesn't get his way.... That's either a childish man, or a spousal abuser...either one, she's better off without him. mAY i SUGGEST aNGER MANAGEMENT...... sorry, for my caps being on... PLEASE, don't get UP-SET at me...... 
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Take out the Mom
Show her a few good times Then plead and say: "If I'm this good to you just imagine how good I'd be for your daughter" 
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Take out the Mom Show her a few good times Then plead and say: "If I'm this good to you just imagine how good I'd be for your daughter" good one bro,!!!!!
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We all have anger. The true judge of character is how you manage your anger, and if you are mature enough to get past it peacefully.
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Why so picky about words???????? Let it go. No one is perfect ...Right. Is that picture of you or brittnayyyy? Smoken hot!!!
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If she's really close to her mom and lives at home, then YOU need to aplease her mom as well as her. So try and find out why her mom doesn't like you by talking to her mother about it. Be humble and polite and ALLOW her to know you and trust that YOUR a good man and will treat her daughter with respect and love...and if YOU can't get this done,,then you suffer the actions of turning mother and daughter against each other,,even for awhile. And YOU don't want to do that if possible. BUT,,some MOM'S have a VERY hard time letting go of their babies,wink,,walk soft my friend..GOOD LUCK.. This guy knows! Ive been there dude, had this same thing happen . . . its ok to try to get to know the mom. One way or the other it will become clear. Thats not to say it wont cause drama, but if you do it right and it still causes drama . . . that tells you as much as a direct answer. that sounds like a good idea guys but she asked me not to talk to her mom... i have a rather bad temper when im being treated badly.... so whats the best way to approach her mom without causing problems and do you have any advice on how to controle my temper? write a letter. If it never gets read then thats your answer. There are soo many people that cant be reached. But if you never try you never know. Lily is probably right, its best to steel your emotions against that probability, easier said then done, but if you accept that then it makes it easier. If she doesnt want you to talk to her mom then that kinda reinforces lily's argument. If it where me, id write the letter, and write her off (emotionally) before I even sent it. He's 21, and has a "bad temper" when he doesn't get his way.... That's either a childish man, or a spousal abuser...either one, she's better off without him. mAY i SUGGEST aNGER MANAGEMENT...... sorry, for my caps being on... PLEASE, don't get UP-SET at me...... i went against her wishes last night and called her mom and her mom said that she didnt want her daughter makeing the same mistake as her and being with some one who was "safe and boring" it confused the hell out of me. what am i supposed to do drive up on a motorcycle without a helmet or something? oah and my bad temper is that when i get yelled at i tend to leave and fume about it for a good amount of time and i dont forget who hurts me i consider it bad but i never hit people when im angry i just tend to go outside and chop oranges with swords. well im open for sugestions on how not to be boring and safe. any ideas? |
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Take out the Mom Show her a few good times Then plead and say: "If I'm this good to you just imagine how good I'd be for your daughter" thats..... kinda disturbing but worth a laugh |
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Honestly, it sounds like she is just using her mom as an excuse. She is 18 and actually an adult...just because she lives with her mom doesn't mean her mom controls her every move. Is she still in High School or something? If she is..you really do need to move on.
Honestly, my son dated someone that was that much younger...so let me save you a lot of grief~~~when you are this young and you start dating someone that much younger and the parents don't like you right off, you have lots of problems. Your best bet is to move on BEFORE you fall IN love with her!!! Good luck
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Honestly, it sounds like she is just using her mom as an excuse. She is 18 and actually an adult...just because she lives with her mom doesn't mean her mom controls her every move. Is she still in High School or something? If she is..you really do need to move on. Honestly, my son dated someone that was that much younger...so let me save you a lot of grief~~~when you are this young and you start dating someone that much younger and the parents don't like you right off, you have lots of problems. Your best bet is to move on BEFORE you fall IN love with her!!! Good luck thanks for the advice but it really is her mom not letting her date me. i caled and apparently im "safe and boring" but i always thought thats what parents wanted fr their kids... safe... oah well |
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