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Topic: What if....
Lily0923's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:55 PM
I broke up with an ex because he was too nice, he was nice to his neighbor and when we had dinner plans still helped him level his yard.

too nice because when his sister called and wanted him to come over and help her, he broke plans with me to do it.

too nice because when his buddy said some raunchy things to me, he didn't want to "hurt his feelings" so he said nothing to him.

too nice because everyboday and everything was important to him, and he didn't want anyone to think he wasn't a "nice guy" so instead he thought I should understand that....

I wasn't all too nice to him when I left him for being too nice, and then I saw how NOT NICE he really was by not paying me back money he owed me, by telling all of his friends that I was "high maintenance" by all of a sudden being a victim to his "niceness"

I'll take a straight shooter anyday to a "nice guy"

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Thu 08/07/08 12:57 PM
It's happened to me. She said she couldn't be with someone who respected her so much. Looking back... she was a whore.

Tromette's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:58 PM
I would assume that it was a cop out.

You don't leave someone who is too nice JUST because they're too nice. There would be other hidden reasons that they probably aren't telling you because you are actually nice and they would rather not hurt your feelings.

bad_girl's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:58 PM
{{{jeff}}} stop being so nice, no better yet don't I love you like you areflowers :heart:

BayouMafia's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:59 PM

Your ex broke up with you becuase he/she said you were to nice....that's why they couldn't be with you anymore....yes, this happened to me too....what would you do in this situation...


Sleep with her best friend, sister or mom...devil

Tromette's photo
Thu 08/07/08 01:03 PM

I broke up with an ex because he was too nice, he was nice to his neighbor and when we had dinner plans still helped him level his yard.

too nice because when his sister called and wanted him to come over and help her, he broke plans with me to do it.

too nice because when his buddy said some raunchy things to me, he didn't want to "hurt his feelings" so he said nothing to him.

too nice because everyboday and everything was important to him, and he didn't want anyone to think he wasn't a "nice guy" so instead he thought I should understand that....

I wasn't all too nice to him when I left him for being too nice, and then I saw how NOT NICE he really was by not paying me back money he owed me, by telling all of his friends that I was "high maintenance" by all of a sudden being a victim to his "niceness"

I'll take a straight shooter anyday to a "nice guy"


He definitely sounds less than nice. He needs to grow some balls and get his priorities straight.

cflbikedog's photo
Thu 08/07/08 04:35 PM
What she said,.....:thumbsup:

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