You go on a couple dates with a guy then things progress to the next step then you find out he has started seeing someone else even though he's still saying that he likes you and wants to go out on another date... What is the deal?? guys explain to me what is going on in your minds!!

Theres nothing going on in my mind

theres score cards?????

I guess that guy isn't too sure of him self so he is being a player and trying to see how many women he can go out with and which one he likes the most etc.

Sorry to hear you just getting played.

unless its not a serious date or no "rules" have been set him or you can see who ever you please\

you can like two people at once
it sucks though when you fall for both

what i've learned is guys are always looking for the next best thing

if its only a couple of dates, i dont see it as a "relationship" he may truly be interested in you, but may not be ready for a commitment at this point. jmo, dont know the whole story

im guess you 2 wasnt having sex thats why?

Key word is "Dates." I don't know what progress is? Sounds like you need to set some ground rules or move on.

Forget HIM! You can get a man who deserves you & only you!

Not on my mind... But I'm guessing on his?... He probably likes you both. His problem is that he probably has confidence issues. So if he dates more than one... His odds are better if one of you leaves him. he has probably been left in the dust alot. The funny thing is, that he also probably loses them due to this exact behavior. Most guys have noo idea that they're a player. That's the honest truth. If You have a way to prove that you're not going anywhere... He'll probably lose the other girl. Then again... He could just be a total pig.

no that wasnt the problem

Oh please like chicks aren't too!

Its a numbers game the more we got the more we get and if one turns us down we got the next.



Don't shot the messenger I'm just telling you like it is and don't tell any one I told you......

The truth? Most guys are just that way my friend. I'm gonna guess that he wanted to leave his options open, so therefore he reasoned that he was only dating, and nothing was exclusive with you or this other girl. He reasoned that he would see both of you and then decide what to do. That is why he can say he wants another date. He sees nothing wrong with what he did, and if it was discussed between you and he that you two weren't exclusive, then he does have that right. But if he was "saying" he was only seeing you, then you know that he will lie to you. In a way, tis good to find this out now rather than later.

Nothing is going on in his mind...It's in his PANTS!

If you gave it up after a couple of dates, he had no reason to keep you around

I agree with you , so do girls

Interesting observation.

...Do you not think that is true?

I know both male and female might do this but females tend to be more of an emotional creature. I think it's harder for women to provide "handouts".

If it hadn't been established that they were in a "relationship" and she was "giving it up" then why wouldn't he move on to what may be a girl that has the potential to be more than just a "good F*C%"..........?

Am I far off Goofball?

It is not just the guys! That very thing happened to me on JSH!!! Going to meet and then found out she was dating someone for 3 weeks prior! I say WTF!!!