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WHY WOULDNT YOU BE WELCOME HERE , THIS SITE IS ABOUT MEETING NEW PEOPLE , NOT JUST DATING AND HOOKING UP , ENJOY
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There are other people here for just friends. I was only here for friendships because I travel with work all the time and got tired of the only options being the bars with my coworkers or the tv in a lonely hotel room. I gained mobile friends and accidentally found a boyfriend. I would worry for you that your husband would see you on a dating site and not accept the idea of you just wanting friendships. He could easily get the wrong idea and throw your trust out the window. I will stay here in a lesser capacity if I got married for the friends I've made already...but my husband would know about it and share the site with me. Watcha doing to that bird, ((Love))? |
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I'm in a relationship and I'm just here for friends. I met my BF here and he has no problem me still hanging here with friends.
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I personally would be livid if I found my husband on a dating site..even if his friend invited him here, I'd be mad at that friend too for even suggesting it.. when my husband could IM with that friend or pick up the phone... just me though JMHO
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Edited by
becca777
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Wed 08/06/08 04:28 PM
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wow...so many diverse opinions
but do you see what i mean? i came here for the forums and friends yes... and i'm very up front about my marital status.... been married 13 years and faithful just as long. thank you all for the feedback.... and for all of you that believe i'm 'dissing' my husband by being here....rest assured...i'm a good girl. |
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There are other people here for just friends. I was only here for friendships because I travel with work all the time and got tired of the only options being the bars with my coworkers or the tv in a lonely hotel room. I gained mobile friends and accidentally found a boyfriend. I would worry for you that your husband would see you on a dating site and not accept the idea of you just wanting friendships. He could easily get the wrong idea and throw your trust out the window. I will stay here in a lesser capacity if I got married for the friends I've made already...but my husband would know about it and share the site with me. Watcha doing to that bird, ((Love))? Yes, the bird is cute. |
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wow...so many diverse opinions but do you see what i mean? i came here for the forums and friends yes... and i'm very up front about my marital status.... been married 13 years and faithful just as long. thank you all for the feedback.... and for all of you that believe i'm 'dissing' my husband by being here....rest assured...i'm a good girl. Be forewarned, this place is addicting. I'm serious. |
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I am not here to judge you OR your marriage.. I just gave MY opinion on a relationship that included ME.
You do what you feel is best, that's between you and your husband. |
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*smiles* thank you jules
and i appreciate your opinion as much as the others.....really. winx ... if it's as addicting as other sites i've been on...i'm in so much trouble...*laughs* |
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married is cool as long as your honest...welcome
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*smiles* thank you jules and i appreciate your opinion as much as the others.....really. winx ... if it's as addicting as other sites i've been on...i'm in so much trouble...*laughs* It's more addicting here. |
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hey...maybe we can go to AA or ...um...MA meetings together...hehe
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hey...maybe we can go to AA or ...um...MA meetings together...hehe We've had JSH/Mingle2 12 step meetings here. |
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Edited by
Winx
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Wed 08/06/08 04:44 PM
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Doublepost.
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i think it depends on ones intentions ...
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we used to have a jsh anonamoyus thead...
but as the meetings were here.. and we all had ADD so we never stayed on topic... well... it didnt work out so well.. |
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uh oh....winx is having side effects
she's double posting!!!! |
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I hate to sound like the green eyed monster has gotten ahold of me...lol, but I really truely LOATHE seeing married and attached people on here. If you're not single, myspace has forums too. I know I'm going to get a lot of flack for that, but seeing someone on a singles' site so happily married or attached just makes me want to scream. Seeing the things I want in my life be given so abundantly to others just makes me feel more single.... something that doesn't even bother me usually on a daily basis...
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I hate to sound like the green eyed monster has gotten ahold of me...lol, but I really truely LOATHE seeing married and attached people on here. If you're not single, myspace has forums too. I know I'm going to get a lot of flack for that, but seeing someone on a singles' site so happily married or attached just makes me want to scream. Seeing the things I want in my life be given so abundantly to others just makes me feel more single.... something that doesn't even bother me usually on a daily basis... unless your happy with where your at now...you will never be happy in the future. JMO |
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it doesnt bother me if someone is married on here or single tis a free country that already has too many rules ..so be free enjoy and realize you cant please every body ..and if you enjoy being here than thats all that really matters now isnt it ....
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