Topic: Am I on the wrong site?
Racing18's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:24 PM
WHY WOULDNT YOU BE WELCOME HERE , THIS SITE IS ABOUT MEETING NEW PEOPLE , NOT JUST DATING AND HOOKING UP , ENJOYflowerforyou

No1sLove's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:25 PM


There are other people here for just friends. I was only here for friendships because I travel with work all the time and got tired of the only options being the bars with my coworkers or the tv in a lonely hotel room. I gained mobile friends and accidentally found a boyfriend.

I would worry for you that your husband would see you on a dating site and not accept the idea of you just wanting friendships. He could easily get the wrong idea and throw your trust out the window.

I will stay here in a lesser capacity if I got married for the friends I've made already...but my husband would know about it and share the site with me.


Watcha doing to that bird, ((Love))?:tongue:
I didn't do it...I swear. I don't even know this birdie...found him on the internet. He's playing peekaboo in a cabinet. Aint him cute...or her..him...her...???? laugh

radiance's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:25 PM
I'm in a relationship and I'm just here for friends. I met my BF here and he has no problem me still hanging here with friends.

Jules0565's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:25 PM
I personally would be livid if I found my husband on a dating site..even if his friend invited him here, I'd be mad at that friend too for even suggesting it.. when my husband could IM with that friend or pick up the phone... just me though JMHO

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:26 PM
Edited by becca777 on Wed 08/06/08 04:28 PM
wow...so many diverse opinions
but do you see what i mean?
i came here for the forums and friends yes...
and i'm very up front about my marital status....
been married 13 years and faithful just as long.
thank you all for the feedback....


and for all of you that believe i'm 'dissing' my husband by being here....rest assured...i'm a good girl.

Winx's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:28 PM



There are other people here for just friends. I was only here for friendships because I travel with work all the time and got tired of the only options being the bars with my coworkers or the tv in a lonely hotel room. I gained mobile friends and accidentally found a boyfriend.

I would worry for you that your husband would see you on a dating site and not accept the idea of you just wanting friendships. He could easily get the wrong idea and throw your trust out the window.

I will stay here in a lesser capacity if I got married for the friends I've made already...but my husband would know about it and share the site with me.


Watcha doing to that bird, ((Love))?:tongue:
I didn't do it...I swear. I don't even know this birdie...found him on the internet. He's playing peekaboo in a cabinet. Aint him cute...or her..him...her...???? laugh


laugh laugh

Yes, the bird is cute.laugh flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:32 PM

wow...so many diverse opinions
but do you see what i mean?
i came here for the forums and friends yes...
and i'm very up front about my marital status....
been married 13 years and faithful just as long.
thank you all for the feedback....


and for all of you that believe i'm 'dissing' my husband by being here....rest assured...i'm a good girl.


Be forewarned, this place is addicting. I'm serious.laugh flowerforyou

Jules0565's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:32 PM
I am not here to judge you OR your marriage.. I just gave MY opinion on a relationship that included ME.

You do what you feel is best, that's between you and your husband.

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:35 PM
*smiles* thank you jules
and i appreciate your opinion as much as the others.....really.

winx ... if it's as addicting as other sites i've been on...i'm in so much trouble...*laughs*

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:36 PM
married is cool as long as your honest...welcome

Winx's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:39 PM

*smiles* thank you jules
and i appreciate your opinion as much as the others.....really.

winx ... if it's as addicting as other sites i've been on...i'm in so much trouble...*laughs*


It's more addicting here. sad

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:40 PM
hey...maybe we can go to AA or ...um...MA meetings together...hehe

Winx's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:43 PM

hey...maybe we can go to AA or ...um...MA meetings together...hehe


We've had JSH/Mingle2 12 step meetings here.laugh

Winx's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:43 PM
Edited by Winx on Wed 08/06/08 04:44 PM
Doublepost.glasses

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:43 PM
i think it depends on ones intentions ...

izzie's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:44 PM
we used to have a jsh anonamoyus thead...

but as the meetings were here.. and we all had ADD so we never stayed on topic... well...

it didnt work out so well..
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:45 PM
uh oh....winx is having side effects
she's double posting!!!!

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:48 PM
I hate to sound like the green eyed monster has gotten ahold of me...lol, but I really truely LOATHE seeing married and attached people on here. If you're not single, myspace has forums too. I know I'm going to get a lot of flack for that, but seeing someone on a singles' site so happily married or attached just makes me want to scream. Seeing the things I want in my life be given so abundantly to others just makes me feel more single.... something that doesn't even bother me usually on a daily basis...

ndragon's photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:52 PM

I hate to sound like the green eyed monster has gotten ahold of me...lol, but I really truely LOATHE seeing married and attached people on here. If you're not single, myspace has forums too. I know I'm going to get a lot of flack for that, but seeing someone on a singles' site so happily married or attached just makes me want to scream. Seeing the things I want in my life be given so abundantly to others just makes me feel more single.... something that doesn't even bother me usually on a daily basis...

unless your happy with where your at now...you will never be happy in the future. JMO

no photo
Wed 08/06/08 04:53 PM
it doesnt bother me if someone is married on here or single tis a free country that already has too many rules ..so be free enjoy and realize you cant please every body ..and if you enjoy being here than thats all that really matters now isnt it ....