i know every one knows what im talking about on this topic so if any one has answers for the people that do not please leave your thoughts

Hello & Welcome

ummmmmmmm.....unfortunately I have no cllue what your question is about.. so I'm not gonna be any help

hmm.. you have me stumped too!

I think we need more details.

ummm...what???...let me have another beer and I'll get back to you

do you mean why is the right thing to do not always the thing you want to do ?

Yeah, and you mean........what???

Because unfortunately, society has almost completely reached the point where they'd rather do messed up ****, cheat, lie, steal, kill, than live a good life trying to do right.

A lot of people will fake like they're good and live good lives, but in reality they're just as evil as the next person.

Peace, man. I hope you make the right decision, or at least repent to whatever god you worship for bad decisions made.

Peace,
J

just because the inital thought seems to be the "right way" doesn't necessarily turn out to be such.... just take a second look a the full situation before making a determination as what your initial thought was about what the right way is.

U KNOW INSIDE THAT THE SITUATION AT HAND IS TO ACT ON THE INFO THAT IS GIVEN TO YOU FROM WHAT YOU HEAR AND SAY BECAUSE SOME ONE IS GANA GET HURT BUT YOU TELL THEN WHATS GOING ON THEN EVERY THING BLOWS UP IN YOUR FACE AND YOU ARE STUCK WITH LOSING EVERY THING

ok that sentence totally spaced me out

I think I just had a brain annnnuerism over that statement too....lol

whatever I tell you to do is the right thing!!!

YES DEAR!!!!!

The right thing to do is always the right thing to do,,,NOW it doesn't make IT the BEST thing to do or the RIGHT WAY to show it...

I just lost a friend awhile back because I FELT I had to be REAL with her and NOT just be as MOST her friends and "NOT TELL HER HOW SHE ACTS"
It cost me her friendship and, even though THAT ACT depressed me ALOT, I knew "FOR HER" it was the RIGHT THING TO DO..
I lost her friendship,,,but I HOPE and PRAY that SHE grew through my actions,,as to allow her to TRY and show her Beauty
to everyone and not just her pain.

So YES,,,life sometimes has us playing,,with our tears and the RIGHT direction to proceed...

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The right thing to do is almost never the kindest thing to do, it almost never gives the desired results and alot of times it will not make you friends but if you know in your heart and soul it is the right thing to do then you have to be true to yourself first.

A person who does the right thing is not necessarily doing what society, religion, family, etc... say is the right thing. They are doing the right thing according to their own mind, heart and soul. So will they always be understood? No. Will they always be accepted? No.

What it comes down to is, that we all have to live with ourselves each day. If we do the right things, we can tolerate and even like ourselves at an inner level. If we do dishonest, decietful things our inner selves do not like us much and we will be out of synch with ourselves which causes us problems in our lives.

JMO of course.