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Topic: Never getting married.
prettylady4 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 239	Tue 08/05/08 04:56 PM
i think if they were trully in love while dating they would change there mind.

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Tue 08/05/08 04:57 PM
i don't need or want to be married on paper or by law, just want to be married by spirit.

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Tue 08/05/08 04:57 PM
Yes

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 08/05/08 04:59 PM
i think if they were trully in love while dating they would change there mind. Wow, that's optomistic....

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/05/08 05:01 PM
yea I would..never know they might change their mind Very wise ((Mirrormirror)) redhead

EricDiddle Joined Mon 08/04/08 Posts: 1	Tue 08/05/08 05:03 PM
To me it wouldn't make sense. But then again, maybe they just want companionship. I think saying they aren't interested in getting married indicates they either don't like you or don't like themselves.

Cinderella75 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 10049	Tue 08/05/08 05:04 PM
Mhh well what someone says in the beginning of a relationship, and someone says in the middle of it..is most of the time completly different. I usually don't date a man thinking about marriage..but hey if we click, I may change my mind

RJR1 Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 548	Tue 08/05/08 05:05 PM
i don't need or want to be married on paper or by law, just want to be married by spirit. and have that person to come home to every night or vice versa.

iamherefornow Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 293	Tue 08/05/08 05:05 PM
To me it wouldn't make sense. But then again, maybe they just want companionship. I think saying they aren't interested in getting married indicates they either don't like you or don't like themselves. very wise

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Tue 08/05/08 05:05 PM
Can't say 'never'...but it is extreeeeeeeemely unlikely that I will ever marry again. I hope to one day have a life-partner, but don't see the need for all of that pesky paperwork.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 08/05/08 05:07 PM
I don't want the government in my life anymore that it has to be, next marriage by spirit only!

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Tue 08/05/08 05:08 PM
after the 3rd time being told " I am not ever going to get married" whats the point when thats what I want. So nope I wouldnt.

brenlee1965 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 529	Tue 08/05/08 05:10 PM
Sure......Not many people start a relationship/friendship knowing that it definitely leads to marriage. They may find that you are be that special person for them and they change their mind down the road.

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Tue 08/05/08 05:10 PM
just a ceramony out in the desert, with some indians, and spirits around a fire would be nice.

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Tue 08/05/08 05:12 PM
probably not. Because I would see that as negativity with no hope for a future with them. Because If I am going to be in a long term relationship somewhere down the road I would want the paperwork. If only to take care of the legalities as we aged together.

forman562 Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 78	Tue 08/05/08 05:15 PM
it is just a piece of paper and a ring

ReconParty19 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 461	Tue 08/05/08 05:15 PM
Would you date someone if they told you upfront they never wanted to get married? Heck yes rather live in sin!

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Tue 08/05/08 05:25 PM
That would be the perfect relationship...............since I dont think I want to ever take the trip to courthouse again where some mere stranger tells me what they should think we should do after we are done..................im so over that garbage (been there done that once).........

Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Tue 08/05/08 06:01 PM
Of course I would. But given my situation, it wouldn't matter either way.

Marley Joined Mon 10/02/06 Posts: 3922	Tue 08/05/08 06:03 PM
Would you date someone if they told you upfront they never wanted to get married? No question, as long as I could boink them. Love is out security is in.