Have you noticed that Fineporcelin has deactivated her JSH?
It seems we have some folks out there who can't just enjoy this site for
what it is.
It seems we have some cyber-predators out there who feel that stalking
online is fun. If you find that someone is pushing things too far, You
have to report them and also E-mail your friends and make them aware.
It's up to the decent people on this site to maintain the integrity that
Mike and V.C. have so successfully striven for. We can't let these
"CANCERS" take control.
We all know Fine is a tough chick and it had to be pretty bad to chase
her away. Let's not lose anymore good people.

E PLURIBUS UNIM

She will be back BIGun.She was the last one I talked to when I
logged off lastnight.Told her when someone piszed me of to bad,I just
step back till I cool off.Then get back in and deal with it.Your
right,some ppl seem to push,push,push.I normaly say my piece and move
on.Dose take the fun out,thats forsure.The friends stick togather.Shell
be back.

Trust me my sis will be back, she just needs sometime to step away and
cool off, we all do from time to time.

G'morning folks, have a coffee

Mornin all. I'll take a coffee Greyhound before I head out the
door.
Sorry to hear about Fineand her dilemma, but I'm sure she'll be
back...she just needs time to cool off.

Coffee coming right up CATBW 'Enjoy' Have a great
day

Thankx Greyhound...UMMM good. Can't start the day without a cup of java.
Gotta run, but you all have a great day too! See ya later. ((((Hugs))))
to all.

that stinks..i liked her and i was justt talkin to her yesterday..shes
done this b4, i think she'll be back

BIG,

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!! SOME PEOPLE JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO BEHAVE
THEMSELVES. IT'S ASHAME THAT ADULTS CAN'T ACT LIKE ADULTS. I HOPE THAT
FINE COMES BACK. I LIKE HER, SHE WAS VERY NICE TO TALK TO, AND SHE
ALWAYS HAD NICE THINGS TO SAY TO ME.

Read my post under "rude e mails" Opinions

YUP, SOME PEOPLE JUST NEED TO GROW UP..WHENEVER I GET A SEXUAL OR RUDE
EMAIL I JUST PUT THEM ON IGNORE..BUT U R GOING TO GET THAT ON ANY DATING
SITE, NOT JUST HERE

u will get that anywhere in life but it doesnt make it right i guess its
one of those be the bigger person kinda things

LOL..TRUE COUNTRY..I HAVE LIKE 35 GUYS ON MY BLOCK LIST ON HERE..I DONT
PUT UP WITH IT..I LIKE MAKING FRIENDS AND I'D LIKE TO FIND THAT "SPECIAL
SOMEONE" AS WELL, SO I DONT HAVE TIME FOR THE BULL

Awwwww she will be back she has left for a few days before and came back

she will be back, she does not like to leave her friends,
is like CCP stated, she needs some time off...

Man o man!! Some people

Just got to take it for what it's worth. Fine, I hope she will be back.
Almost sure she will. We all go through problems and get throught them,
sometimes together right here! I myself take breaks from the computer,
not so much as here, but internet in general, it's too dam addicting!!!


Fine, this is for you!!

OMG. I know EXACTLY how she feels as that just, in the past few months
happened to me at another site. I did quit going there, finally. It
was a different place though, they did not pay attention to the members
reports and when they did, they were as rude as the stalker! It was
quite terrible, plus my stalker followed me all over the internet,
putting comments into other sites just for MOI. I think it is over now
as that stalker just wanted me OFF that site more than anything else.
He/She got their way. I go back to look every now and then and wonder
how I tolerated all the abusive behavior there for so long. It was
stupid of me and worse yet, it is still happening there.

Mike and VC have a different type of management rules here so that makes
all the difference in the world! I am thrilled to BE HERE and have made
many new friends. A lot of my friends from that (stinker) site have
come here with me, 5 so far and and I think two more are on their way
here. WooHoo!

I am sure she will be back and if she has reported the abuse, Mike and
VC will take care of it!

Verb

Just a heads up, that relates to this topic -- someone I know from this
site has informed me that she got a very disgusting and inappropriate
e-mail from one of the long-time, well-respected regulars here. She was
upset enough that she briefly deactivated her account; I was able to
convince her that she hadn't done anything wrong, so there was no reason
to punish herself by leaving a site she truly enjoys.

I have seen the offending e-mail, and it was nothing sort of shocking.
I advised her to report it, but she is reluctant to do so because she
had thought of this person as a friend up until receiving the note.
Some friend!

For now, she says she will simply try to ignore this person -- which may
not be easy because he continues to try to talk to her in threads in
which she participates.

Fine and others left because of the way people communicated with them.
We almost lost another one because someone who SHOULD know better, hides
behind a facade of friendship in order to facilitate some really sick
ideas.

Personally, I'm disgusted that this person hasn't been outed, but it's
not my place to do it, so no names here. But I know who you are, and
I'm watching.

Lex, there has to be a way to POLITELY out these people. Look at my
post on rude emails. As long as we DO NOT attack, call names, state
opinion, I think we are allowed to say what ever we want. Pick proper
catagory also.

Sage, I would be glad to do so, but the person who received the e-mail
has not yet decided what she wants to do about in in the long run. I
don't want to push one way or the other. I told her what I thought she
should do (since she asked), but the decision has to be hers.

If it was me, I would have spilled the beans a couple days ago, if only
to provide a warning to others who may be targeted later....or to elicit
information about past events involving this person.