so yea.
as a younge adult, there has been many events in my life that have shaped my sexuality and who i am as a person.

there have been quite a few people in my life that disaprove of my life desisions and prefer to ignore them completely or try to convince me to change my ways.

im feeling lost again and i was wondering if anyone would like to share their experiances with me so that i may be able to find myself again.

please and thank you,

KazKazBear

Well I consider myself a heterosexual female yet my very first kiss was with a girlfriend. I guess that is not terribly uncommon. I think if you feel like you are gay and want to pursue a relationship, go ahead. If you are kind of in that between stage now then you just need to stay in the experimental phase so no one's feeling are really hurt. The worst thing you can do is mislead someone for a long period of time or be deceptive in regards to your sexuality. You are only 18 so you have plenty of time to experiment.

My grandfathers National Geographic magazines, with the pics of tribal droopy , Empty Boobs!!

If you are young dont rush in too quickly.
Here is a few pointers. Not from me being gay cos I am not, it just comes from common sense:

If you masturbate to both boys and girls at different times then you are just confused to your sexuality.
If you masturbate to males all the time and enjoy being around males then it is likely you are gay.
If you feel guilty after you finish masturbating to guys then you will most likely end up straight!!

well see the thing is i fell for my bestfriend and we didnt work out. so being a total guy i rebounded with another guy. he was my first kiss and he was the only person who ever did anything sexual to me.

the other day my rebound came back into my life and we did it. it felt kinda off. so i started to question myself again.

like did i make a mistake? am i really that into guys? why did it do it?

i felt like a jerk because my rebound and i arent even going out and it was only a one time thing.

everyone of my friends that i talked to about it said that it only felt weird because it was my first time and that i will enjoy it more and more as i do keep doing it.

i wasnt brought up to be a jerk guy who goes off and has sex with anyone that will take me. i wanted to lose my verginity while i was in a real relatioship.

it's in my blood

My first kiss was with a female also. I also consider myself heterosexual, but don't do what others want you to do just because they think they're right. Who's to say what's right and what's wrong? If you change to please them you'll just be miserable.

I would say if you have had 2 boyfriends, yeah you are into guys. What is making you question it? are you atrracted to girls or are you feeling pressure from outside to change?

i dont think that blood has anything to do with it.

its the outside pressure. and when i was with a guy i felt weird. it felt right but it also felt wronge.

Mr nekred, you have a problem? Yes?
Please tell!!