There have been postings on women being too independent and I'm just wondering - guys do independent women make you feel less - I dunno "manly"?

I consider myself an independent girly girl. I pay my own bills, I can and do change my own tire when needed. I like to watch car races and can discuss the race intelligently. I play a decent game of pool. I love to fish, I bait my own hook.

I also dress sexy when I go out, I like the guy to get the door for me and I don't like bugs.

It just seems that guys I date are very excited when we first start dating, then when all the independent stuff comes out - they just. . . drift away. So I was wondering if being independent makes guys feel like they're less?

Honestly?... It's a turn-on for me personally.

evidently...yes

love a girl who can take care of herself,shows she doesnt need to rely on someone to get by,or needs to be pampered like a princess

Lol independant women scare men!!!

I get that from guys, but then when it all actually happens and I'm not a vapid, squealing "girl" about it. They seem to lose interest.

<----independant pampered princess!!! Now go make me a sandwich!!!!

don't change...the right strong,secure man will come ur way....

I think alot of men go for the "damsel in distress" as well......even though they will never admit it!!!

t-thats a princess?! oh boy

have you tried throwing down your hankie????

You hold your own, that's awesome!!

bite me dough girl !

Dont make me punch your dog!!!

shuttup heart attack on a stick!!!

does not scare me at all not enough of you out thier or they say they are but not really

THIS does not mean a meal ticket.........

The problem is not you... the problem is there are too many chicken**** men.

anything is possible