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Edited by
Kat40s
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Sat 08/02/08 05:02 PM
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So here's the deal. I have talked to met a couple ok guys. I get a message from someone I think is so compatible. Now I love to cook - it's a passion. I get a message from him saying we have a lot in common. His profile says he loves to cook and is damn good at it. Now keep in mind HE contacted me. we get to IM and I start talking about cooking. He starts asking me what I look like, even though my pics and stats are already on my profile. He starts bragging about a spaghetti sauce, and I ask him how he makes it. Well dude freaks saying he wants to get to know me. I say cooking is my passion and a common ground so what better way to do that? long story short he says he needs to change his profile and take the cooking thing out. Says I only want to know about how he cooks... but all I was trying to do was find a common ground for conversation. He called me several disgusting things and said I was a psycho. I know I am not. My feelings are so hurt. I was just trying to be nice. Why do people have to be so stupid and hurtful? I just want someone decent I can talk to. Why does it need to be so complicated?
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You're better off with him gone if he's gonna act like that!
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Oh dear. I need a drink.
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What a fruit cake...
Not worth it anyways 
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anything is possible..
dont give up. |
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chalk it up to expierence and move on. you deserve better anyway.
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I know he is nuts - whats frustrating is this is the norm when it comes to meeting someone, and not the exception. That sucks
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don't leave...get rid of the creepy ones one at a time and soon the one for you will be the good man standing...in the meantime...make friends and have a blast
 
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I know he is nuts - whats frustrating is this is the norm when it comes to meeting someone, and not the exception. That sucks The thing about online dating and stuff is that it excludes those "gut" feelings you get when you meet someone and can truly know what they are about... A simple statement can have a completely different meaning/tone for someone else than it does for you There are good people on here... Don't worry you will find someone who isn't....a fruit cake
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I know he is nuts - whats frustrating is this is the norm when it comes to meeting someone, and not the exception. That sucks Ummm...if there is one thing this place is....it's the perfect example of " process of elimination ". You have to be patient enough to weed out the total as*holes. Narrow down the field to only the " sorta " as*holes...then continue weeding through until you find the one that ISN'T an as*hole. |
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GIIRRL I have been online for way too long. I really am a good person. I just don't get where some of these fools are coming from. I would love to find someone to be with but if this is what is out there - I would rather be alone
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I just wish everyone could be upfront and honest. No games. I have been single 6 years now. I am tired of weeding - they just keep growing back
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The cooking thing in his profile was a lure to get an unsuspecting female to land in im's. He thought he could then get his foot in the door. I would venture to say he knows zilch about cooking. When you stood your ground by asking about how he makes his sauce, that put a stop to his attack. He was forced to go on the defensive instead of his usual offense. You have nothing to feel bad about. By him calling you names just shows that he picked on the wrong female to try and pull his crap on. Yes he was stupid and hurtful and you will always find people like that on any site you go on. Just be yourself, that's what will attract the one you are seeking.
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GIIRRL I have been online for way too long. I really am a good person. I just don't get where some of these fools are coming from. I would love to find someone to be with but if this is what is out there - I would rather be alone You may have been online for a long time, but you have only been here for a short time. There really are good guys out there. It just takes time to find them because we are completely surrounded by the idiots who do everything they can to make us seem like a waste of time. |
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you know somewhere I know that. I guess it pisses me off I still get pulled in by the BS... I so want something awesome...I am always myself, and don't back dowm from that. I know I called him out. I just wishe people could be more real and not try and fake me out
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I believe there are good guys out there or else I would not keep trying. But I am no spring chicken and an running out of time
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WOW whatta bozo!
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welllll the little padded rooom is over there >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
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seriously I know what an ass he is..... it's more the fact that there are so many more asses out there than good guys
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seriously I know what an ass he is..... it's more the fact that there are so many more asses out there than good guys But that makes finding us all that much more worthwhile.
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