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| Topic: Why do I fall for the girls that are train wrecks? | |
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Ignore her.......makes women crazy!!! But then again if you do it too long it will make her mad!!!  that's why I only talk to you about every 3-6 months..   Whats your name again??? 
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Ignore her.......makes women crazy!!! But then again if you do it too long it will make her mad!!! that's why I only talk to you about every 3-6 months.. Whats your name again??? Justs call...my name...and I'll bee...there..LOLOL |
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STEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVVVVVVVVVVVE!!!!
YOURE TOO EASY!!!
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STEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVVVVVVVVVVVE!!!! YOURE TOO EASY!!! That's why you luv me!!!!!
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Run baby she's using you or she has someone else in the picture and she's hiding it... You can do better and you deserve better
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Here is my take on it.......She is afraid of her feelings towards you and is very confused. Give her space...time....and see what happens
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You won't know what's going on in her head unless you ask her. If you can try not to be too reactionary if she's not saying exactly what you want to hear, then she will probably continue to open up to you.
IMO, friends can tell each other anything and feelings are never wrong, only individual. The best relationships are built from a strong friendship foundation.
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Did you say "I love you and I want to marry you for the rest of my life" to her???
Cause thats the deal breaker right there... in the shadow of your impending divorce. What kind of msg are you not verbally sending out? |
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Edited by
jtitol
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Sat 08/02/08 03:02 PM
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Here is my take on it.......She is afraid of her feelings towards you and is very confused. Give her space...time....and see what happens |
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Yeah, sounds like perfect rebound material there.
Cool your jets for a while, slow way down. People told me the same thing, but I didn't listen and I got burnt. Hell, I lit the match |
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So I'm going through my divorce and I meet a girl at work who is a lot younger than me but is very adult as she lives on her own, works two jobs so she can live in a house with her two dogs and generally has her sh*t together. We connected at a level where I have never been before and I love being with her. Since my divorce is only filed, I have not had sex with her, I'm kind of old fashioned that way  When we are on, it is like a drug! We have had so many good times and from what she has said, I'm what she is looking for but she then pushes me away. She has been hurt in her life so I treat her with a lot of respect and let things move at her pace. We have had a lot of talks but she still acts like she doesn't know what she is looking for. Monday she wants to be with me, Tuesday she ignores me. I don't know what to do, she has told me she is the closest with me than any other guy she has had in her life, yet she pushes me away out of the blue and I have no idea what I did wrong. Should I just move on to more mature women? It will be hard, but I can't take this in my life right now On her side she may think that all you want her for is a rebound thing and those never go very far and lead to heart break. Rebound relationships are based on revenge like flaunting a little young lady infront of your ex "lookie what I got now" so maybe she just needs time and she does not think you are seriouse. |
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Well I went out with her last night, more like bombing around in the country side. We had some good talks and I think most of you are right. It's early yet and she is liking what she sees but wonders if it's going to last. Last thing I want is a re-bound, the last rebound was my ten year marriage! No I have not told her I love her and want to be with her forever, that would be too soon. We are good friends, I think I'll keep it that way and let time do it's thing. If it's meant to be, then it will happen, until then I plan to make as many friends as I can and see what happens. Thanks for some solid advice everyone!
Jim |
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I think you should take care of you and have some fun!
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my man dont worry looks likes ur doing alrite whats bombing around and dont stay in the friend s zone 4 2 that s asking 4 trouble
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my man dont worry looks likes ur doing alrite whats bombing around and dont stay in the friend s zone 4 2 that s asking 4 trouble
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jtitol, bombing around is what her and I call taking our Jeeps and going off road. She let me drive her Liberty for the first time off road and we had a lot of fun. Confession: I have a soft spot for a girl that drives a Jeep or 4X4 Truck.
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So I'm going through my divorce and I meet a girl at work who is a lot younger than me but is very adult as she lives on her own, works two jobs so she can live in a house with her two dogs and generally has her sh*t together. We connected at a level where I have never been before and I love being with her. Since my divorce is only filed, I have not had sex with her, I'm kind of old fashioned that way When we are on, it is like a drug! We have had so many good times and from what she has said, I'm what she is looking for but she then pushes me away. She has been hurt in her life so I treat her with a lot of respect and let things move at her pace. We have had a lot of talks but she still acts like she doesn't know what she is looking for. Monday she wants to be with me, Tuesday she ignores me. I don't know what to do, she has told me she is the closest with me than any other guy she has had in her life, yet she pushes me away out of the blue and I have no idea what I did wrong. Should I just move on to more mature women? It will be hard, but I can't take this in my life right now Have you talked to her about this? Also, it's kind of understandable for someone not to want to get too close to someone who isn't even divorced yet. |
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Edited by
jtitol
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Sun 08/03/08 08:57 AM
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jtitol, bombing around is what her and I call taking our Jeeps and going off road. She let me drive her Liberty for the first time off road and we had a lot of fun. Confession: I have a soft spot for a girl that drives a Jeep or 4X4 Truck.  u r on ur way to success   
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jtitol, bombing around is what her and I call taking our Jeeps and going off road. She let me drive her Liberty for the first time off road and we had a lot of fun. Confession: I have a soft spot for a girl that drives a Jeep or 4X4 Truck. u r on ur way to success That's good to hear! We both have the trust thing down cause not only do we trade Jeeps now and then but she trusts me with her house and her doggies! |
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jtitol, bombing around is what her and I call taking our Jeeps and going off road. She let me drive her Liberty for the first time off road and we had a lot of fun. Confession: I have a soft spot for a girl that drives a Jeep or 4X4 Truck. u r on ur way to success That's good to hear! We both have the trust thing down cause not only do we trade Jeeps now and then but she trusts me with her house and her doggies!
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