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Topic: Would U go back to your EX?
Big_Boi79's photo
Sat 08/02/08 10:59 PM
look shes not living anymore so that would be difficult



**** now im crying thnx for those horrifying memories god blushing

buttons's photo
Sat 08/02/08 11:00 PM
Edited by buttons on Sat 08/02/08 11:02 PM

Would U allow your EX to come back, if she is asking to get married again. and she is sorry for cheating on you... would you give her a second chance?
heck no not if he cheated.... but im with my ex who is not a cheatlaugh and petty stuff doesnt bother me anymore.. long as they listen and do show that they careflowerforyou

sparkleplenty424's photo
Sun 08/03/08 05:29 AM


I have never seen such an unforgiving bunch in my life. Apparently everyone here has led a perfect life and never made a mistake.

Amazing how we have so many perfect people assembled in one place! What are the odds?flowerforyou
well.. speaking for myself alone..
i HAVE forgiven him.. dozens of times.. and ended up in the hospital or with my life threatened, or having to get tested for std's cuz he slept with 29 people at last count while we were together...

so i would say that i was MORE than forgiving..
that time is over now..

it ended when he raped me, and got me preg just to come over 2 days after i found out i was preg and tried to cut the baby out of my stomach....

hhhmmmm.. maybe i should try just ONE more time!! maybe this one will be the time he SUCCEDES in his plan to eliminate me..
no thank you!
flowerforyou flowerforyou
Well sometimes - often - the best thing is to get away from the person. Your ex is clearly a psycho. I was talking about how unforgiving people are of non-psychotics who have made poor choices.

Your ex is way beyond that. I am sorry that you went through that.flowerforyou

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Sun 08/03/08 05:31 AM


I have never seen such an unforgiving bunch in my life. Apparently everyone here has led a perfect life and never made a mistake.

Amazing how we have so many perfect people assembled in one place! What are the odds?flowerforyou

You have NO idea what any of our situations are for leaving when/why we did. Who are you to tell me how unforgiving I am in my own past realtionships. You have no right to sit there and JUDGE any of us!!!!

rantrant frustrated rantrant
sorry, I didn't mean to sound like I was judging you. It's just that some people - not all- act like if you make one mistake in a relationship then you are worthless. Everyone makes mistakes.

Some people are just plain evil, for sure. I am sorry for what you went through.

lnghntr's photo
Sun 08/03/08 08:33 PM
not only no,but hell no...once the trust is gone ya never get it back

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 08/03/08 08:58 PM
she didnt cheat..

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 08/03/08 08:59 PM



I have never seen such an unforgiving bunch in my life. Apparently everyone here has led a perfect life and never made a mistake.

Amazing how we have so many perfect people assembled in one place! What are the odds?flowerforyou

You have NO idea what any of our situations are for leaving when/why we did. Who are you to tell me how unforgiving I am in my own past realtionships. You have no right to sit there and JUDGE any of us!!!!

rantrant frustrated rantrant
sorry, I didn't mean to sound like I was judging you. It's just that some people - not all- act like if you make one mistake in a relationship then you are worthless. Everyone makes mistakes.

Some people are just plain evil, for sure. I am sorry for what you went through.


i agree

missy51970's photo
Sun 08/03/08 08:59 PM
HELL NO ! ! ! !

There isnt enough money on this planet to make me go back...Id rather live under a bridge eating garbage not bathing for weeks on end then go back to my ex....sick sick sick

SVImager's photo
Mon 08/04/08 08:00 AM
How you know if the next person you meet isn't the cheat?

It is a 50/50 chance.
Or actually 60% chance of meeting a guy that was the cheat.
or 40% chance of meeting a girl that was the cheat.
And they will lie or say a justifible reason for the cheating.. (All cheater do that).
He was horrible to me. We always argue.
We let love slipped away. The kids was our focus.
We weren't communicating.
He didn't make enough money.
She spend too much money.
He made too much money... and was never home.
We didn't have God in our life.
He was a Pastor in the church and he cheated with someone in church.
I want to be a stay at home mom, but he didn't make enough money.
I was a stay at home mom, he was never home.

100% women say they hate cheaters, but 40% of the women cheat.
Everyone thinks they are GOOD people... even Hitler thinks he was doing GOOD for the German People.

Do you think cheating and divorces is the product of our "American Me-ism" (selfishness)?


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