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Topic: Datings sites are 4 ppl with LOW SELF ESTEEM
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Fri 08/01/08 12:05 AM

my point is that.. see,someone expresses there opinion and the entire bandwagon jumps on him rather than thinking he may have a point,not fair in my opinion...arent we here to learn to behave or have better relationships,or try and understand why a guy is trying to make a point.A person tells u how he feels and u take offense and start breaking out the torches,instead of getting hyped up jus ask the dude how he feels and why ,geeze place should be called bitter anger .com


Socrates would be proud of you.

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Fri 08/01/08 12:05 AM

Like I said, the community on the forums isn't half bad, but thats because you all are from across the globe. Try narrowing that band down to a set of zipcodes in a 15 mile radius and you have 1...maybe 2 people who aren't complete attention e-whores.

Then stop narrowing and become more open to people further from you. And really this isnt the place for you if you are complaining about E-whores. Your being an e-whore just posting this topic. Really if your serious about getting someone dont use the internet....Thought you would know that. And get out in life more and obviously you have a self esteem since we dont....Your just not cool like us cool kids on Mingle2. So your not going to get any good advice with the way you stated your post. Id go back and reask in a nicer way. But sh** why am I talking I dont care. Im going to bed.

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Fri 08/01/08 12:06 AM


Oh buddy you posted this at the WRONG time. I am NOT in the mood for the ignorance of people. You ever thought that maybe it is YOU? I mean come on. You come on the board posting this pile of crap. And complain that women do not message you and have low self esteem? I do not see how self esteem has ANYTHING to do with it. Maybe JUST MAYBE they do not want to talk to a jerk. I think those 98% are smart and I applaud them for it.

Step back, take a look and GET A F*CKING CLUE!:angry: grumble


Contrary to my perceived emotion on this post, I do a pretty neat job at coming up with polite and light-hearted openers to the people I message. You honestly think I tried by messaging girls with offensive and insincere statements/inqueries? Because that is not the case.


You must have seemed fake.

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Fri 08/01/08 12:06 AM

my point is that.. see,someone expresses there opinion and the entire bandwagon jumps on him rather than thinking he may have a point,not fair in my opinion...arent we here to learn to behave or have better relationships,or try and understand why a guy is trying to make a point.A person tells u how he feels and u take offense and start breaking out the torches,instead of getting hyped up jus ask the dude how he feels and why ,geeze place should be called bitter anger .com


I am sorry, but when you start a topic with a title like "Dating sites are for people with low self esteem". Then you are already pretty much pissing people off. He did not start this topic to express his feelings, he started it to place judgment on people.

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Fri 08/01/08 12:07 AM

my point is that.. see,someone expresses there opinion and the entire bandwagon jumps on him rather than thinking he may have a point,not fair in my opinion...arent we here to learn to behave or have better relationships,or try and understand why a guy is trying to make a point.A person tells u how he feels and u take offense and start breaking out the torches,instead of getting hyped up jus ask the dude how he feels and why ,geeze place should be called bitter anger .com


Maybe it's the way he's presenting himself?? Just a thought....

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Fri 08/01/08 12:07 AM

Like I said, the community on the forums isn't half bad, but thats because you all are from across the globe. Try narrowing that band down to a set of zipcodes in a 15 mile radius and you have 1...maybe 2 people who aren't complete attention e-whores.


So say on average your town of 15 miles population wise is around 10,000 now we have 1 maybe 2 people that are not attention whores...I think your percentages are off...

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Fri 08/01/08 12:07 AM
explode explode Hey...I'm a complete attention e-whoreexplode explode

msmyka's photo
Fri 08/01/08 12:07 AM
Why is this thread still here?

wraithme66's photo
Fri 08/01/08 12:08 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Why is this thread still here?
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 08/01/08 12:09 AM


my point is that.. see,someone expresses there opinion and the entire bandwagon jumps on him rather than thinking he may have a point,not fair in my opinion...arent we here to learn to behave or have better relationships,or try and understand why a guy is trying to make a point.A person tells u how he feels and u take offense and start breaking out the torches,instead of getting hyped up jus ask the dude how he feels and why ,geeze place should be called bitter anger .com


Dude... He trashed everyone here, and all that they're about. Cmon... You wouldn't take that personal? It takes time to really know someone. Patience lacking thereof tonight.


maybe he is just a little distraught and feeling bad,dont mean u jus lash out..u understand the problem than ask whats wrong and deal with it,he maybe had a bad day and is frustrated...most here have been hurt by a bad relation so u can at least sympathize with hurt and bitterness,

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Fri 08/01/08 12:09 AM

Why is this thread still here?

another union coffee breakdrinker drinker drinker

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Fri 08/01/08 12:09 AM
Edited by brooke007 on Fri 08/01/08 12:12 AM


delete please

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 08/01/08 12:10 AM



Oh buddy you posted this at the WRONG time. I am NOT in the mood for the ignorance of people. You ever thought that maybe it is YOU? I mean come on. You come on the board posting this pile of crap. And complain that women do not message you and have low self esteem? I do not see how self esteem has ANYTHING to do with it. Maybe JUST MAYBE they do not want to talk to a jerk. I think those 98% are smart and I applaud them for it.

Step back, take a look and GET A F*CKING CLUE!:angry: grumble


Contrary to my perceived emotion on this post, I do a pretty neat job at coming up with polite and light-hearted openers to the people I message. You honestly think I tried by messaging girls with offensive and insincere statements/inqueries? Because that is not the case.


You must have seemed fake.


Fake? FAKE? OH buddy, I am the most real person that you will EVER find here! I speak the truth and I speak it loud. I have been on here for a year and a half. If I was fake do you think I would have the friends that I do? I do not think so. mad

brooke007's photo
Fri 08/01/08 12:12 AM
i am fake...im so fake u jsut dont even begin to now..


BUT

what is an attention E whore????

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Fri 08/01/08 12:13 AM

my point is that.. see,someone expresses there opinion and the entire bandwagon jumps on him rather than thinking he may have a point,not fair in my opinion...arent we here to learn to behave or have better relationships,or try and understand why a guy is trying to make a point.A person tells u how he feels and u take offense and start breaking out the torches,instead of getting hyped up jus ask the dude how he feels and why ,geeze place should be called bitter anger .com



He didnt tell us how he feels, he insulted every person on here. If somebody came up to you and said 'you are an attention seeking whore who only dates women with money' are you just gonna sit there and take it? I think not.

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Fri 08/01/08 12:14 AM
Wait! Don't delete it!
I have low self-esteem! I'm just an ordinary pickle!!! It all started when I was a little gherkin...

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Fri 08/01/08 12:15 AM



my point is that.. see,someone expresses there opinion and the entire bandwagon jumps on him rather than thinking he may have a point,not fair in my opinion...arent we here to learn to behave or have better relationships,or try and understand why a guy is trying to make a point.A person tells u how he feels and u take offense and start breaking out the torches,instead of getting hyped up jus ask the dude how he feels and why ,geeze place should be called bitter anger .com


Dude... He trashed everyone here, and all that they're about. Cmon... You wouldn't take that personal? It takes time to really know someone. Patience lacking thereof tonight.


maybe he is just a little distraught and feeling bad,dont mean u jus lash out..u understand the problem than ask whats wrong and deal with it,he maybe had a bad day and is frustrated...most here have been hurt by a bad relation so u can at least sympathize with hurt and bitterness,


I don't sympathize...really can't be bothered to most of the time.smokin

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Fri 08/01/08 12:15 AM




Oh buddy you posted this at the WRONG time. I am NOT in the mood for the ignorance of people. You ever thought that maybe it is YOU? I mean come on. You come on the board posting this pile of crap. And complain that women do not message you and have low self esteem? I do not see how self esteem has ANYTHING to do with it. Maybe JUST MAYBE they do not want to talk to a jerk. I think those 98% are smart and I applaud them for it.

Step back, take a look and GET A F*CKING CLUE!:angry: grumble


Contrary to my perceived emotion on this post, I do a pretty neat job at coming up with polite and light-hearted openers to the people I message. You honestly think I tried by messaging girls with offensive and insincere statements/inqueries? Because that is not the case.


You must have seemed fake.


Fake? FAKE? OH buddy, I am the most real person that you will EVER find here! I speak the truth and I speak it loud. I have been on here for a year and a half. If I was fake do you think I would have the friends that I do? I do not think so. mad


Then why the anguished post. I only said that you must have seemed fake based on your reported outcome. All in all I'm trying to help. Anyway... Kudos on starting a hugely contraversal posting.

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Fri 08/01/08 12:15 AM

I really do not see this thread holding any positive outcome, It is my best determination to lock this up, please do not create another in this vein.

Thanks,

Mark

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 08/01/08 12:15 AM

Wait! Don't delete it!
I have low self-esteem! I'm just an ordinary pickle!!! It all started when I was a little gherkin...


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