If your approach to these ladies you email is in likeness to your entrance here, what do you suppose the problem is?

If your approach to these ladies you email is in likeness to your entrance here, what do you suppose the problem is?

Dating sites are for people with low self-esteem. That's too funny.

You obviously don't know many of the great people on here.

Many of us are on here because we don't do the bar scene. It has nothing to do with self esteem.

If your approach to these ladies you email is in likeness to your entrance here, what do you suppose the problem is?

Thank you! This is what I wanted to say but couldn't do so as eloquently as you!

Would like to disagree,but only been here 2 days and can already tell its a club..i think i need to be here for 2 months before i join it,its weird,either they are attention seeker or bitter,no offence...but then wonder why they cant find a good person.Because the good ones leave so quick by either being taken or just realizing its a ball not to be caught in.Its a good site though..and i like its attractions,im here for thought not dating,which is the opposite of joining.

Seriously. I'm on this shiz because I am away from my social network and don't really have the time to hang around in the town squares to desperately meet people.

Now I go on this site when I have the chance to check out the profiles of women in my area. I message quite a few and instant match basically all of them, and I get like 1 response (out of the 50 initiatives I made).

I am sorry to say, and I don't believe this holds true for all of you (especially those who frequent the forum part of this site), but it seems people (especially women) are here for their own egos to develop.

They get a host of guys swarming and leaving messages and base their self esteem on what guys can infer from a select few pixelated and disproportionate representations of themselves (they call them self portraits).

Its really a lose lose situation for guys who aren't cocky enough to post their most prized material possessions in their pictures. Guess it weeds out the gold digger response (which seems to be 98% of the female population here).

/rant

Wow! This guy really struck a nerve... Lol! I can see why he doesn't have a social network.

WOW. Normally I would ignore this but I just cant tonight...I have already had to deal with idiotic guys who know nothing about what they speak of once tonight...

You really should get to know people before you speak ill of them. Just because a women(or anyone for that matter) is on a dating site does not mean they have low self esteem or they are a gold digger. You said you are on here because you are away from your social network? Well maybe, just maybe, that is why others are on here as well. Or maybe there are a few who are a little shy and work better online. Or maybe they are here to meet people from different parts of the world whom they have something in common with. There are some GREAT people on here and I can assure you, they are NOT gold diggers, nor do they have low self essteem.



I have a feeling this topic is getting deleted soon...

good job winx.

Like I said, the community on the forums isn't half bad, but thats because you all are from across the globe. Try narrowing that band down to a set of zipcodes in a 15 mile radius and you have 1...maybe 2 people who aren't complete attention e-whores.

Oh buddy you posted this at the WRONG time. I am NOT in the mood for the ignorance of people. You ever thought that maybe it is YOU? I mean come on. You come on the board posting this pile of crap. And complain that women do not message you and have low self esteem? I do not see how self esteem has ANYTHING to do with it. Maybe JUST MAYBE they do not want to talk to a jerk. I think those 98% are smart and I applaud them for it.

Step back, take a look and GET A F*CKING CLUE!

my point is that.. see,someone expresses there opinion and the entire bandwagon jumps on him rather than thinking he may have a point,not fair in my opinion...arent we here to learn to behave or have better relationships,or try and understand why a guy is trying to make a point.A person tells u how he feels and u take offense and start breaking out the torches,instead of getting hyped up jus ask the dude how he feels and why ,geeze place should be called bitter anger .com