Why is it that you men will pursue a female and as soon as they let you
know that they are interested you will start ignore?

i dont do that

i would never do that.

they may because the mystery is gone.
to conquer is over-
the chase has stopped.

the pursuit is quite fun, but then again so is wrestling under the
sheets

interesting........... for a second......... DUH, obvious

Because they are just not that into you

Krowraven, we're women; we're not prey.

Why stop ? Not I. Thinks you maybe attracting wrong type of guy.

Kojack,that much is apparent, that it is the "wrong type of guy." But I
would personally take offense to the "maybe you're attracting" part.
(Primarily because I've heard that before.)

Which leads me to the question, how is it a woman could "attract" the
wrong type of guy, particularly if the types of guy's she's "attracting"
are polar opposites of the type of guy she wants in her life?

To say that somehow suggests that it's the woman's fault that those guys
are attracted to her.

I think the answer is more along the lines of perhaps there are a lot of
guys out there who, like Krow said, are in it just for the "thrill of
the chase, the hunt, etc." The sad truth is lots of men don't think of
women as human beings but, rather, as something for them to "bag," so to
speak.

Krowraven, we're women; we're not prey.

yea..?

did I {say} you were prey?
you don't "feel" like your prey do you?

maybe from a bad experience you had?


hmm

what I meant was people attract certain types of people, depending where
they go to meet them. I also believe that some women like Bad guys, some
like nice guys, and some are in a relationship that isn t right but stay
out of fear or retaliation.

When i was younger, i attracted women that are totally different then
what i am looking for now, so it does happen.

IMHO

jeanc....you hit that one in the bullseye.

someone playing hard to get with you?

just an idea here... maybe their intent wasnt to "chase" and you just
took it the wrong way... therefore when u told them u had interest in
them they backed off.. not realizing that is the way u had felt and they
only liked you for a friend in the first place?

yea....

Krowraven, I made my comments based on what you said in your previous
post. I'd appreciate it if you'd keep your rude comments as to
second-guessing what has happened in my personal life to yourself. I'm
sure you're aware that I reported you for your exceedingly rude emails
to me, and now I have for your harassing me in the forums. If you can't
comment without taking personal digs, then please keep your opinions to
yourself.

****

Kojack, I understand what you're saying. I went to places that could be
construed as having the "wrong kind" of people (like bars) but the truth
is, bars have patrons that attract all types of people.

I think men and women attract people of the opposite sex. There's
nothing specific about a person that would attract the "wrong type" of
person (except perhaps dressing and acting in a way that's contrary to
their beliefs and personality characteristics, perhaps) but most of the
time if one finds themselves with the "wrong type of person" that's a
matter of hindsight. So, in that respect, one cannot be "chided" (for
lack of a better word) for "attracting" the wrong type of person.

once again she needs an audience.I thought you were over criticising
people in front of others virtually..kojack doesnt care..niether do I
.ahahahahahahaha

what don t I care about ?

once again she needs an audience.I thought you were over criticising
people in front of others virtually..kojack doesnt care..niether do I
.ahahahahahahaha

I haven't criticized anyone; I was adding my viewpoint to a discussion.
So now, not only are you making assumptions about my personal life, but
touting yourself as spokesman for Kojack as well?

I believe Kojack can speak for himself. He doesn't have a problem with
me, nor do I with him. See, he realizes that, in a discussion,
oftentimes there are going to be opposing points of view. Not everyone
HAS to agree with everyone else all the time. Viva la difference, yanno?