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Topic: Hystorectomy
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Thu 07/31/08 07:10 AM
What is your wife had a complete hysteroctomy and then went on hormone therapy at 34......then she came off hormones after about a year......Then she started changing....no interest in sex......turned into an argumentative, judgemental person that was never happy about ANYTHING!!! Constantly complained about every day life in general and neglected husband and kids at every opportunity.....

How could you make life better??????

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Thu 07/31/08 07:11 AM
Just like my life was when my ex was 28, and had all her parts.. no diff.. :cry:

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Thu 07/31/08 07:13 AM
buy louder woodworking equipment to cut down on the yelling.........bigsmile bigsmile drinker

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Thu 07/31/08 07:14 AM
laugh Time to fix up the garagelaugh

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Thu 07/31/08 07:15 AM

buy louder woodworking equipment to cut down on the yelling.........bigsmile bigsmile drinker


LOL.....I keep the Impact wrench and the skill saw going as much as I can!!!! LMAO

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Thu 07/31/08 07:19 AM
wow looking for marriage and you arent even divorced yet? thats what i call moving fast!laugh

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Thu 07/31/08 07:19 AM
Edited by JenAnn on Thu 07/31/08 07:23 AM
Have you spoke to her about going back on hormone therapy or maybe seeing a therapist? Not all people are open to seeing a therapist but it's worth a shot to make your lives a little better.

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Thu 07/31/08 07:20 AM
Edited by a12bewilliam on Thu 07/31/08 07:20 AM

wow looking for marriage and you arent even divorced yet? thats what i call moving fast!laugh


Separated......here in Louisiana it takes a YEAR!!!! It's bull, but these lawmakers are REAL strange here!!!


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Thu 07/31/08 07:21 AM

What is your wife had a complete hysteroctomy and then went on hormone therapy at 34......then she came off hormones after about a year......Then she started changing....no interest in sex......turned into an argumentative, judgemental person that was never happy about ANYTHING!!! Constantly complained about every day life in general and neglected husband and kids at every opportunity.....

How could you make life better??????


Have you tried marriage counseling?

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Thu 07/31/08 07:22 AM


wow looking for marriage and you arent even divorced yet? thats what i call moving fast!laugh


Separated......here in Louisiana it takes a YEAR!!!! It's bull, but these lawmakers are REAL strange here!!!



they are future politicians, they enjoy keeping the corruption alive...........drinker drinker drinker

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Thu 07/31/08 07:22 AM
Edited by buttons on Thu 07/31/08 07:23 AM


buy louder woodworking equipment to cut down on the yelling.........bigsmile bigsmile drinker


LOL.....I keep the Impact wrench and the skill saw going as much as I can!!!! LMAO
doesnt sound past tense to melaugh although does give a whole new meaning to useing your toolslaugh laugh

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Thu 07/31/08 07:23 AM

What is your wife had a complete hysteroctomy and then went on hormone therapy at 34......then she came off hormones after about a year......Then she started changing....no interest in sex......turned into an argumentative, judgemental person that was never happy about ANYTHING!!! Constantly complained about every day life in general and neglected husband and kids at every opportunity.....

How could you make life better??????


Well, you do live close enough to the gators to make it a one day roundtrip.. j/k

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Thu 07/31/08 07:23 AM

Have you spoke to her about going back on hormone therapy or maybe seeing a therapist? Not all people are open to seeing a therapist but it's worth a short to make your lives a little better.


She refuses to go back on the hormones...I've even gotten her natural stuff that they advertise works. I'm STILL going to a therapist to have someone to talk to other than myself. I originally went there to see if I was the SOB that she said I was!!! Turns out I'm not......she walked out on the therapist after the 2nd time and won't go back....

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Thu 07/31/08 07:25 AM


Have you spoke to her about going back on hormone therapy or maybe seeing a therapist? Not all people are open to seeing a therapist but it's worth a short to make your lives a little better.


She refuses to go back on the hormones...I've even gotten her natural stuff that they advertise works. I'm STILL going to a therapist to have someone to talk to other than myself. I originally went there to see if I was the SOB that she said I was!!! Turns out I'm not......she walked out on the therapist after the 2nd time and won't go back....
obviously hormones arent the only issues..

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Thu 07/31/08 07:26 AM



buy louder woodworking equipment to cut down on the yelling.........bigsmile bigsmile drinker


LOL.....I keep the Impact wrench and the skill saw going as much as I can!!!! LMAO
doesnt sound past tense to melaugh although does give a whole new meaning to useing your toolslaugh laugh


Well....I didn't say she doesn't still keep coming around.....she does.....I think she still wants me but on her terms...and I can't live like that. I want to be around positive people and those that have gratitude for even just the "little" things. She has neither.....

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Thu 07/31/08 07:27 AM
She needs to go back to her doctor or gyn asap, nurse J

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Thu 07/31/08 07:27 AM
I know how this is going to sound.......but have you prayed about it???

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Thu 07/31/08 07:28 AM


Have you spoke to her about going back on hormone therapy or maybe seeing a therapist? Not all people are open to seeing a therapist but it's worth a short to make your lives a little better.


She refuses to go back on the hormones...I've even gotten her natural stuff that they advertise works. I'm STILL going to a therapist to have someone to talk to other than myself. I originally went there to see if I was the SOB that she said I was!!! Turns out I'm not......she walked out on the therapist after the 2nd time and won't go back....


Definitely sounds like a quandry. I think that a marriage is a partnership and full of compromise. Why not let her pick a therapist and seriously discuss your feelings there, with her. That would be nuetral ground on her part and she would not feel defensive. But by all means, tell her how you feel and grant her the opportunity for things to change.

If not? Maybe mediation would be a better way to go.

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Thu 07/31/08 07:29 AM

I know how this is going to sound.......but have you prayed about it???


Obviously not enough........I hate to ask for things in prayer though......He works in mysterious ways.....

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Thu 07/31/08 07:32 AM



Have you spoke to her about going back on hormone therapy or maybe seeing a therapist? Not all people are open to seeing a therapist but it's worth a short to make your lives a little better.


She refuses to go back on the hormones...I've even gotten her natural stuff that they advertise works. I'm STILL going to a therapist to have someone to talk to other than myself. I originally went there to see if I was the SOB that she said I was!!! Turns out I'm not......she walked out on the therapist after the 2nd time and won't go back....


Definitely sounds like a quandry. I think that a marriage is a partnership and full of compromise. Why not let her pick a therapist and seriously discuss your feelings there, with her. That would be nuetral ground on her part and she would not feel defensive. But by all means, tell her how you feel and grant her the opportunity for things to change.

If not? Maybe mediation would be a better way to go.


We tried that before she walked out on the therapist....She said everything I said was a lie...I mean EVERYTHING!!! But I think the therapist saw through that....When she was asked about a little comprimise....and was told she could possibly be being unreasonable, that's when she had a fit, got mad, and walked out...

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