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Topic: Bad day
wanttachat's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:41 PM
This week my son has spring break and has no school, so i took half the
week off of work so we could enjoy it. Well, we went bowling this
afternoon and at the place we were having fun and being alittle goofy
and maybe loud. My son is autistic and has his ways about him at times
and there were these guys about 3 lanes down. I could here them talking
about my son and his ways but I am use to it and try to ignore them. At
one point I hear one say Well if her kids that way there must be
something wrong with her too, I know she looks f***ing ugly to me. Good
thing our game was about over cause I needed to leave we ended our game
and left and when we got home I locked myself in the bathroom and cried
so hard.
I had come on here about a month ago and you guys had givin me some of
my confidence back and today they just riped it out and stomped on it.
Sorry but I just needed to talk it out

no photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:44 PM
I am so sorry that happened to you. There are some horrible people out
there and they don't care who they hurt. If people would look more on
the inside and not physical apperance this world would be a much better
place.

LAMom's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:45 PM
Sweetie,, They are just Ignorant People,,, Dont let this get you down
you are beautiful inside and out,,,and an Incredible Mom, I have read
you on Post and have come to learn the Love you share with your children
glows inside you and out,,, You are an Incredible Women... :heart:
:heart: flowerforyou

ScottyBravo's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:45 PM
People like that are a**holes. The reason people act like that is
because they have no respect for them selves or others. Plus their
self-esteem is so low the only way to make themselves feel better about
their pathectic little lives is to act like that. You should always hold
your head up high, because you a bigger &better person than them.

wanttachat's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:48 PM
Thanks guys I always prided myself for respecting others just wish they
would me.

purplecat's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:48 PM
((((((((((((((((wanna chat ))))))))))))))))))))))

aw ,,hun ,,jerks like that should be shot and pooped on !!

flowerforyou

Thndrghost's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:49 PM
want, gf....hold your head up high....you don't need those type of
people bringing you down. But when they do, and there are always some
that seem to get off on hurting others....come right here & we'll bring
you right back up where you belong!!! I'm here if you want/need to talk!

krowraven7's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:50 PM
Your a child of God and your son is a gift..the world is ignorant and
lost.. and you just brush them right off your shoulder and go ON
LIVING..NEVER MIND THEM..Every single person in history who was ever
different or unique was ridiculed,rejected..Look what they did to the
lord when he was here..

peace to you.

don2610's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:51 PM
Don't let people like ruin you time with your friends and family. They
are not the type of people that understand what you go through and their
shallow minds with never grasp with you do. You are a beauitful woman
and a wonderful parent. Never let antbody tell you
different.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:51 PM
Speaking as someone who is picked on on a constant basis..You have to
just ignore the ignorant people of the world and surround yourself with
as many of the good people that you possibly can..which is why I live
online..lol..all my friends online in my chatrooms know all about my
disabilities and dont care..they dont treat me any differently than they
treat eachother.

no photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:52 PM
:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:
Hello Want,,and FIRST let me just tell ya something,,,
IF IN PUBLIC, someone says something about your boy or you,,DON'T HOLD
BACK,,,SNAP THAT SH1T RIGHT BACK AT THEM,,,
THEY ARE JERK OFF ASSS HOLES AND "THEY" NEED TO BE PUT IN "THERE"
PLACE!!!!!!:heart: SORRY, I HATE ASSS HOLES!!

NOW as to coming here and meeting some good people or guys,,I think THAT
is COOL, to,,
AS I came here and got my self esten lifted also..COOL 2...lol
I hope this place will be your home and if ya ever need a friend,, just
call,lol or email..lol
Im glad you BOTH had some fun anyway,,and PEOPLE IN GENERAL,,
ARE ALOT OF GOODY GOODY ASSSHOLES WHO THINK THEY ARE BETTER THAN
EVERYONE ELSE!!!! "NOT",,,, They are the loser's,, they have problems
in and with life just like the rest of us,,,THEY just like to use there
words and views to there friends to cover up their
insecurities....drinker :heart: flowerforyou smokin :wink: :smile:
flowerforyou :heart: smokin

no photo
Mon 03/12/07 08:54 PM
Wantta, people like that really are not wasting your tears on. People
like that, people who need to belittle others in order to feel good
about themselves, are nothing more than pathetic and immature.

I know it hurts; that's their whole intention. To empower themselves
(or so they believe) by making someone else feel miserable. But think
about it -- should the opinions of people who are so heartless, matter
to you at all? Please understand that, in the end, you're a better
person than they will ever be, by virtue of the fact that you have
feelings and empathy for others -- something those losers will probably
never have.

What makes it even worse is that they were saying things about your son.
Again, I ask -- what kind of person would do that? Is it someone whose
opinion should matter to you?

See, there are a LOT of cruel and heartless people in the world. You're
better than they are. You don't hurt people the way they do, you would
never even consider behaving like that, and that is just ONE reason you
are better then they are.

Don't let idiots tear you down. They can't rise to your level; they're
totally incapable of it. All they want to do is tear you down to THEIR
level. And you don't have to allow it.

wanttachat's photo
Mon 03/12/07 09:00 PM
I knew when I wrote this you guys would make me feel better. Thank you
for being here, I have come to value all of your wisdoms and I know you
are right I know they were just a** holes
Thank you all
(((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))
I feel better
I feel loved :smile:

AutumnLee21's photo
Mon 03/12/07 09:00 PM
People are cruel and just down right mean :angry: :angry: .. Wanttachat,
you are a very beautiful women inside and out. People like that are
nothing but assholes, dont let them get to you. You just keep being
yourself and love it :smile:

SadieJ's photo
Mon 03/12/07 09:02 PM
Some people are just so friggin rude! Almost just plain hateful when
they act like that!! Sad part is, for those kids to even make those
types of comments shows you how miserable they really are. Not to
mention jealous that none of their parents are spending time with them.
Count your blessings Lady, don't let that type of bullsh#t steal your
joy!!

newguy's photo
Mon 03/12/07 09:05 PM
wantachat......you've got a great smile...winning
personality...smart.....cute....you've got it all girl. Don't let the
dirtbags out there ever make you feel down on yourself.

wanttachat's photo
Mon 03/12/07 09:05 PM
Sad thing Sadie they were adults not kids.
I wish I had had the guts to stand up to them, never really had that in
me.

psprettysmile's photo
Mon 03/12/07 09:05 PM
Never let your chin lower to you chest, Never let your eyes not look
into theirs because God gave you your wonderful son because he knew you
were a woman of STRENGTH, WISDOM, COURAGE AND COULD TAKE ON THE WORLD IF
YOU HAD TO. Never feel lowered or down because some insecure cowardly
so called man who doesnt know that even through your son is different
their the ones with the problem because they dont have THE LOVE HE HAS
FROM YOU. Words do hurt and some hurt more than others but when you
hear these hateful words from the sorry people who say them, just look
into your heart and know they are only talking about themselves.

johnyb's photo
Mon 03/12/07 09:09 PM
What a way to start a happy week, I truly hope that you are over this
now and know that there are better people out there/here there is a
saying what goes around comes around and the **** heads you came across
today should remember this, take care and have a magic week with your
son.

jp4023's photo
Mon 03/12/07 09:19 PM
Hi Wantachat,Listen sweetie, people sometimes just dont care who they
hurt. I myself have to deal with it everyday of my life. I was born with
spina-bifida so everytime I go somewhere I hear hey mom look at that
little man or look mom a midget. i've learned either to just ignore
there or if they feel like asking me i'll tell them about it. like they
say when life gives you a mastercard go shopping or something like that

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