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This week my son has spring break and has no school, so i took half the
week off of work so we could enjoy it. Well, we went bowling this afternoon and at the place we were having fun and being alittle goofy and maybe loud. My son is autistic and has his ways about him at times and there were these guys about 3 lanes down. I could here them talking about my son and his ways but I am use to it and try to ignore them. At one point I hear one say Well if her kids that way there must be something wrong with her too, I know she looks f***ing ugly to me. Good thing our game was about over cause I needed to leave we ended our game and left and when we got home I locked myself in the bathroom and cried so hard. I had come on here about a month ago and you guys had givin me some of my confidence back and today they just riped it out and stomped on it. Sorry but I just needed to talk it out |
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I am so sorry that happened to you. There are some horrible people out
there and they don't care who they hurt. If people would look more on the inside and not physical apperance this world would be a much better place. |
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Sweetie,, They are just Ignorant People,,, Dont let this get you down
you are beautiful inside and out,,,and an Incredible Mom, I have read you on Post and have come to learn the Love you share with your children glows inside you and out,,, You are an Incredible Women... |
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People like that are a**holes. The reason people act like that is
because they have no respect for them selves or others. Plus their self-esteem is so low the only way to make themselves feel better about their pathectic little lives is to act like that. You should always hold your head up high, because you a bigger &better person than them. |
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Thanks guys I always prided myself for respecting others just wish they
would me. |
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((((((((((((((((wanna chat ))))))))))))))))))))))
aw ,,hun ,,jerks like that should be shot and pooped on !! |
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want, gf....hold your head up high....you don't need those type of
people bringing you down. But when they do, and there are always some that seem to get off on hurting others....come right here & we'll bring you right back up where you belong!!! I'm here if you want/need to talk! |
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Your a child of God and your son is a gift..the world is ignorant and
lost.. and you just brush them right off your shoulder and go ON LIVING..NEVER MIND THEM..Every single person in history who was ever different or unique was ridiculed,rejected..Look what they did to the lord when he was here.. peace to you. |
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Don't let people like ruin you time with your friends and family. They
are not the type of people that understand what you go through and their shallow minds with never grasp with you do. You are a beauitful woman and a wonderful parent. Never let antbody tell you different. |
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Speaking as someone who is picked on on a constant basis..You have to
just ignore the ignorant people of the world and surround yourself with as many of the good people that you possibly can..which is why I live online..lol..all my friends online in my chatrooms know all about my disabilities and dont care..they dont treat me any differently than they treat eachother. |
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Hello Want,,and FIRST let me just tell ya something,,, IF IN PUBLIC, someone says something about your boy or you,,DON'T HOLD BACK,,,SNAP THAT SH1T RIGHT BACK AT THEM,,, THEY ARE JERK OFF ASSS HOLES AND "THEY" NEED TO BE PUT IN "THERE" PLACE!!!!!! SORRY, I HATE ASSS HOLES!! NOW as to coming here and meeting some good people or guys,,I think THAT is COOL, to,, AS I came here and got my self esten lifted also..COOL 2...lol I hope this place will be your home and if ya ever need a friend,, just call,lol or email..lol Im glad you BOTH had some fun anyway,,and PEOPLE IN GENERAL,, ARE ALOT OF GOODY GOODY ASSSHOLES WHO THINK THEY ARE BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE!!!! "NOT",,,, They are the loser's,, they have problems in and with life just like the rest of us,,,THEY just like to use there words and views to there friends to cover up their insecurities.... |
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Wantta, people like that really are not wasting your tears on. People
like that, people who need to belittle others in order to feel good about themselves, are nothing more than pathetic and immature. I know it hurts; that's their whole intention. To empower themselves (or so they believe) by making someone else feel miserable. But think about it -- should the opinions of people who are so heartless, matter to you at all? Please understand that, in the end, you're a better person than they will ever be, by virtue of the fact that you have feelings and empathy for others -- something those losers will probably never have. What makes it even worse is that they were saying things about your son. Again, I ask -- what kind of person would do that? Is it someone whose opinion should matter to you? See, there are a LOT of cruel and heartless people in the world. You're better than they are. You don't hurt people the way they do, you would never even consider behaving like that, and that is just ONE reason you are better then they are. Don't let idiots tear you down. They can't rise to your level; they're totally incapable of it. All they want to do is tear you down to THEIR level. And you don't have to allow it. |
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I knew when I wrote this you guys would make me feel better. Thank you
for being here, I have come to value all of your wisdoms and I know you are right I know they were just a** holes Thank you all (((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))) I feel better I feel loved |
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People are cruel and just down right mean .. Wanttachat,
you are a very beautiful women inside and out. People like that are nothing but assholes, dont let them get to you. You just keep being yourself and love it |
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Some people are just so friggin rude! Almost just plain hateful when
they act like that!! Sad part is, for those kids to even make those types of comments shows you how miserable they really are. Not to mention jealous that none of their parents are spending time with them. Count your blessings Lady, don't let that type of bullsh#t steal your joy!! |
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wantachat......you've got a great smile...winning
personality...smart.....cute....you've got it all girl. Don't let the dirtbags out there ever make you feel down on yourself. |
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Sad thing Sadie they were adults not kids.
I wish I had had the guts to stand up to them, never really had that in me. |
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Never let your chin lower to you chest, Never let your eyes not look
into theirs because God gave you your wonderful son because he knew you were a woman of STRENGTH, WISDOM, COURAGE AND COULD TAKE ON THE WORLD IF YOU HAD TO. Never feel lowered or down because some insecure cowardly so called man who doesnt know that even through your son is different their the ones with the problem because they dont have THE LOVE HE HAS FROM YOU. Words do hurt and some hurt more than others but when you hear these hateful words from the sorry people who say them, just look into your heart and know they are only talking about themselves. |
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What a way to start a happy week, I truly hope that you are over this
now and know that there are better people out there/here there is a saying what goes around comes around and the **** heads you came across today should remember this, take care and have a magic week with your son. |
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Hi Wantachat,Listen sweetie, people sometimes just dont care who they
hurt. I myself have to deal with it everyday of my life. I was born with spina-bifida so everytime I go somewhere I hear hey mom look at that little man or look mom a midget. i've learned either to just ignore there or if they feel like asking me i'll tell them about it. like they say when life gives you a mastercard go shopping or something like that |
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