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health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. depends on what and why... if you approach endometriosis too early, explaining pregnancy complications, he may get concerned you are rushing him, or planning the old ball and chain bit. Personally NOTHING scares me, so I would be ok knowing, but some people only need to know what/when they need to know. If it is getting serious, maybe an explanation of the issue with a side order of not telling him because you did not want to rush him might be an order |
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health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. Define a "health problem", because I've been ADD my whole life and recently have been battling acute depression. I've been taking a knock-off form of Ritalin for the ADD since grade school and Lexapro for the depression. Neither one's a really big deal though, and it's not like I put effort into hiding the fact. HIV/AIDS, herpes, something like that I'd sure as hell wanna know about, but something like what I've got...? |
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health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. depends on what and why... if you approach endometriosis too early, explaining pregnancy complications, he may get concerned you are rushing him, or planning the old ball and chain bit. Personally NOTHING scares me, so I would be ok knowing, but some people only need to know what/when they need to know. If it is getting serious, maybe an explanation of the issue with a side order of not telling him because you did not want to rush him might be an order i didnt think about it like that, thankyou 
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Edited by
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health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. Define a "health problem", because I've been ADD my whole life and recently have been battling acute depression. I've been taking a knock-off form of Ritalin for the ADD since grade school and Lexapro for the depression. Neither one's a really big deal though, and it's not like I put effort into hiding the fact. yeah, I got diagnosed ADD too, I am in college online, taking no tutoring and pulling a 3.9... p.s. i am never late either. ADD can be dealt with, but it is no fun... |
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health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. Define a "health problem", because I've been ADD my whole life and recently have been battling acute depression. I've been taking a knock-off form of Ritalin for the ADD since grade school and Lexapro for the depression. Neither one's a really big deal though, and it's not like I put effort into hiding the fact. i suffer with depression and other related conditions to depression, it sucks, its just hard knowing when you should tell someone |
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I am up front and honest about my health.
If you don't like it, keep walking.  If you want to try it, here I am. 
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i believe when you're dating someone or wanna date someone , having health problems should be something to share little by little as the two get to know one another .. 
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I am up front and honest about my health. If you don't like it, keep walking. If you want to try it, here I am. thats how i feel
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i believe when you're dating someone or wanna date someone , having health problems should be something to share little by little as the two get to know one another .. lmao 
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i believe when you're dating someone or wanna date someone , having health problems should be something to share little by little as the two get to know one another .. I get the same issue, but it is usually brunettes for me... maybe it is another form of the same illness!! lmao |
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i believe when you're dating someone or wanna date someone , having health problems should be something to share little by little as the two get to know one another .. I get the same issue, but it is usually brunettes for me... maybe it is another form of the same illness!! lmao look out brunettes
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i believe when you're dating someone or wanna date someone , having health problems should be something to share little by little as the two get to know one another .. I get the same issue, but it is usually brunettes for me... maybe it is another form of the same illness!! lmao |
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I wouldnt tell him right away..might scare him off he might think you want to rush things with him. I have PCOS so its gonna be hard for me to have kids to but I dont tell him right away only if things get serious then I let them know it will be harder but its still possible to have kids. thats exactly what i say. Honestly as I am looking for someone who is marraige material who can have kids it would be important, but love knows no bounds, I have dated two women recently who couldnt... just use proper discretion... if he is acting like he wants the 'package deal' tell him, kids may not be as vital as they seem to him... |
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what about redheads
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health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. 
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debbie1980
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health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. i dont think endometriosis is classed as a disease as i can recall, but im not 100 percent about that
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I wouldnt tell him right away..might scare him off he might think you want to rush things with him. I have PCOS so its gonna be hard for me to have kids to but I dont tell him right away only if things get serious then I let them know it will be harder but its still possible to have kids. thats exactly what i say. Honestly as I am looking for someone who is marraige material who can have kids it would be important, but love knows no bounds, I have dated two women recently who couldnt... just use proper discretion... if he is acting like he wants the 'package deal' tell him, kids may not be as vital as they seem to him... and thats exactly why i tell him straight away, if im interested in him |
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what about redheads
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If it has anything to do with having children I tell him right away..I cant have children, not by choice but nonetheless.....
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If it has anything to do with having children I tell him right away..I cant have children, not by choice but nonetheless..... this is exactly what i mean missy, and thats why i tell him upfront. i feel the same as you on this matter |
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