If you could list 5 things to "ALWAYS" do when in a relationship
to show everyone what you DO, or would LIKE another to DO for
you,,,,,What would the five things be to do?????




Mine will fall here later,,,,,lol I want to see your first!!lol

#1. reg. daily sex
#2. No spitting fire
#3. compliments
#4. outings more often
#5. flowers

1-tell or show everyday what that person means to you
2-we time
3-talk, talk, talk
4-hold hands
5-laugh

Interesting T....

1 - Random acts of kindness that show you care (such as picking
something up at the market or store that one knows the other would like,
making out of the way trips or visits to get something for them that you
know they'll like or just setting up a night or weekend for the two of
you). Little things like this means so much more than someone just
saying "I love you" with no actions behind them.....

2 - Daily affection (Kisses Hi & Bye are manditory)


I'll come up with 3 more later, but those are the big ones for me:
because the rest takes care of itself if these are done...

Those listed so far sound good, but really like Sluggo's #1- I already
do that for friends of mine - if I know they like certain things and try
to buy them little gifts when I can, or bake them treats, especially if
they are going through a hard time.

The rest of them are great, hard to come up with just 5 I guess too.

#1 Regular sex
#2 Compliment that person in front of your friends
#3 Touch them when you pass by or tell them how special they are
#4 Leave them random little sexy notes to find or on their text
#5 COMMUNICATE

1. Listen
2. Don't like what I like just cause I like it. It's ok to be yourself.
3. A hug a day to keep the badness away
4. Be there when your needed!! cause you will be.
5. R.E.S.P.E.C.T

#1 No matter what the day holds,disagreement or other,always sleep
together at night and let your partner know you love them.Unless work
inhibits.
#2 Always let your partner know you love them when you leave for
work.Can not be 100% positive you will see them again.
#3 Do the cooking and dishes part of the time.
#4 Do things together,walk the park,mall,fly a kite,go to dinner and a
movie.
#5 Always remember birthdays and anniversaries.

#1 Never go to bed mad at each other,
Tomorrow is not promised to us.

#2 Saying I Love You are only words,,, Expressing
this love whether it be my Email, Simple phone
conversation,,, Just a simple glance across the
room,,, Actions speak louder than words..

#3 Respect,,, For each others feelings, needs, desires

#4 We time, walks, talks, cuddling, Time for the
Souls to reconnect,,,

#5 Agree to disagree,

1. Always tell eachother I love you & mean it

2. Always talk & tell the truth

3. Don't let the battle for success cloud what's really
important.

4. Never let anyone come between you, ie..kids, relations

5. Live like each day maybe your last. NEVER KNOW.

Ahhh, LOVE YA BABE!!


MINE,
1. Always be up for your other, (hi sprited), and WARM, always.
to start each new day with a NEW KISS, and never go to sleep without
giving the LAST KISS OF THAT DAY TO EACH OTHER!

2. To always be open to discuss ANY problems, ANYTIME!!

3. Little things ALWAYS!!! Any small tokens of ones heart, from a kiss
anytime, or a (out-of-the-blue) HUG, to small gifts, and small notes,
cards, a single flower to two dozen!!

4. To share LIFE as a JOINT VENTURE, each help the other in ALL ASPECTS,
daily chores, to cooking to running errands, to just ALWAYS ASKING AND
SHOWING YOUR CONCERN!!!!

5. To ALWAYS and for sure each day of living,,,,to tell and show the
other my love, and respect for THEM "LOVING" ME!!!!
YOU can ALWAYS RELEASE ANYTHING THAT BOTHERS YOU,
BUT, KNOW THAT WE CAN ALWAYS TALK ANYTHING "THROUGH",
THEN BURY IT BEHIND US!!!



THIS IS ME AND THIS IS TRULLY MY HEART FOR LIFE, to
be in THIS KIND of LIFE IS MY EVERYDAY "LIFE"!!!
NEXT!!!

#1.Always be honest in all that you do with each other.
#2. Be there for each other through everything.
#3.Love each other with all of your heart. Show that love..
#4.Listen to each other.
#5. flowers are always great to get..

Good points here folks,,keep them coming,,,

Treat your lady like a child. I mean it - and here's what I mean:

1. Treat your lady with the kindness you would share with a child. You
would never speak cruely to a child, you would never command a child,
you would never be suspicous of a child.

2. Excpect to be treated as a child - for the same reasons.

3. Give the tenderness, forgiveness, acceptance as you would to a child.
Expect it in return. We have no problem being tender with a child,
forgiving a child, and accepting of a child - the love and commitment is
never questioned, so all other aspects just work themselves out.

4. Give the freedom as you would to a child. We dont question a child
'where were you', 'what were you doing', 'why didnt you answer me' -
without just cause. We should treat a lady in the same way. And expect
no less in return.

always say I love you and mean it
sex every other day
take time for our selfs
go out together often
communicate at all times


there those are my five!!!

All of you are so wonderful! To add more would probably be a repeat.
But I guess I will try. Hope you all find someone, or have someone to
practice your advise on, you all deserve that.

Never Love for the sake of it's return, but love unconditionally without
expectation of receiving

Share always, but keep one special friend to talk with when you don't
know how or what to say to your partner

Be considerate, showing you care without having to say so

Be a teacher and a learner and never shame or be ashamed of having to be
either in each other eyes

Speak only kind, and caring comments to others about your partner, even
when not in their presence

Some things need to come back,,,wink.

Not sure quite what you're looking for, but I would say the 5 essentials
would be (In no particular order):

1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Compromise
4. Intimacy
5. Love

IMHO 5 essentials to any good relationship:

1) Kindness
2) Understanding
3) Faithfulness
4) Loyalty
5) Willingness to compromise

I agree with you too SheNerd, though I think those first 4 should be
personal traits even before a relationship