That's a good point. :)

#3 - Would have to be good Communication (Mostly on crutial points).
Communication doesn't mean talking for endless hours where niether
person hears each other, it means discussing things and working them
out!

A side note, a lot of people listed RESPECT & TRUST as their key points
but if you don't have either of these what the hell are you doing in
that relationship?

Additionally some have mentioned Compromise but I believe the more a
couple has to Compromise the more it means that they just weren't meant
to be with each other long term. After all a couple is suppose to want
the same things not be forced into accepting the same things....

Accept- in entirety the individuality of the person

Respect- the person exactly as they are

Allow- the differences

Share- all and everything...honesty, resposibility, time, conversation,
patience, ideas.

Forgive- when momentary lapses of honour or integrity happen.

(Because whether we like it or not, we are all human)


No ego, no ownership....two people choosing to walk the same path, for
as long as they are meant to, exactly as they are.

Ive been reading all this advice and though it is all good, it makes me
wonder, that if we are all doing this stuff....then why are we all
single???? I think alot of it sounds great on
paper but we don't always do what we think we should do

I do this in every relationship I have...with my children, my family,
friends, co workers, all of them, every person I relate to.


Romantic relationships are no different, just the bindings we place on
them and the expectations.

Unconditional love,
Always be able to share what ever your feeling.
Never let others come between the bond.

make sure they understand what is going on in you..

ALWAYS show how much they mean to you

Until they leave the toilet seat up and you fall in it in the
dark

Good one!!! :)

1. Accept them for who they are, not who you want them 2 be
2. Little things are important, sometimes the best gesture is
remembering the type of candy, snack, etc. they like and getting it for
them-no reason needed
3. Respect them and thier beliefs, this does not mean you have to agree
with them-just accept them
4.Remember no one is perfect
5.love them unconditionally

I forgot that one. IMHO, unconditional love is the most important
component of any relationship. :)

#1. Regular sex

#2. Communication

#3. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to
call and say I love you.


#4. While she's in the shower or taking a bath, throw her towel in the
dryer for a few minutes. When she gets out, present her with the toasty
towel.

#5. Write a love letter or love note is an amazing thing, little effort
is required to write her one, and yet you can express so much. So I'd
write her a few creative, unique love notes and leave them in unexpected
places around the house.In the morning, tape one to the bathroom mirror
or to the coffee pot.

wow Crash nice gesture. i just took a bath...Where is my toasty towel
please.

1. Always be honest...Even if it might hurt!!!!

2. Be kind, compassionate and empathetic...It goes a long way!!!!!!

3. Do little things that say I love you everyday!!!!!!!!!!

4. If you argue and you are in the wrong....Apologize...Don't let ego
get in the way!!!!!!!!

5. Laugh, Laugh and more laughter...It's the best medicine!!!!


Ok maybe that was more than 5!!!!!!!!!

^^^^^Flit^^^^^

Yep....flitting was my 6th choice but we were only allowed 5!!!!!!

The five things I would choose have already been said.
1. Affection -hand holding, hugging, kissing, that look across the room
that says I love you.
2. Laughter, tears just being there for each other in good and bad
times.
3. The little things which are the big things the ones that you can't
put a price on.
4. Communication
5. Growing together while you strengthen your love for each other.

DAMN CRASH
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IM GETTING IN THE SHOWER NOW~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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