Why would a 19 year old girl go for a 25 year old guy? Is it the age thing?

This is what happened, I was dating this girl for a little while then she dumped me and three days after she dumped me she is seeing this guy. I’m 21, more of her age group. I don’t really understand… the real funny thing is I treated her like a Queen. I try to be this nice caring guy but it’s getting me nowhere and now I lost the one girl I felt a really special connection with. Where is a miracle when you need one? It’s so hard right now because I still have feelings for her...

Its a connection thing.. Im 21 and I just left my fiance and he was 43... If they have more of a connection thats the reason.

19 and 25 is not that big of a distance...so sorry you are hurting

you don't know me but I gotta tell ya i'm deelen with the same issue right now... And quite honestly it sucks! i cant tell you why they do that to good people like us but all i can say is jus take it day by day. thats what i em doin

Sorry. Need to let go and move on.

I was 18 when I married my husband, He was 25.. We were in love and it lasted 17yrs and 4 beautiful children...

I was 19 once ... a million years ago, and I don't think her interest in the other guy has a whole lot to do with his age (unless she just has a 'thing' for older, more established men).

She could have just as easily dumped you for another 21 yr old - would that have made you question yourself any more deeply?

Don't dwell on the why's - she didn't want what you were offering, but that doesn't mean that there aren't 100 other women fantastic women out there who would be honoured to be with you -- go find them and don't look back!

I think every guy has been in your shoes one way or another......your still young,find yourself and Love will find you.

maybe he made the moves on her and swept her off her feet..

I dont think she was worth your love. Sorry to hear your hurting.

You have to move on So sorry

Don't worry about her anymore. She's old news. You will find a woman that appriciates your loving kindness

until then, enjoy the sigle life!

Yeah, I hope you all are right. The future is free and you never know what will happen until it comes.

All you can do is learn whatever there is to learn from it and get over it in your time. After you are totally ready, get back out there and start again.

I heard a great quote this morning, "The things you see change when you change the way you look at things".

i feel for you bro and to answer your question it's very simple if you think about it. If you ask a guy what his ideal girl would be looks aren't the immediate answer. we tend to describe what we'd like to see i a girl(sweet, funny, intelligent). don't get me wrong now women say the same things. however they are more visual and tend not to look at the inner person but someone who is financially stable and good looking. it's nothing against you bro but girls around that age tend to think that way.

my ex-wife and i are 9yrs apart and she left me for a younger guy.shes 22 now hes 19. so yeah its got to be a connection thing i have dated girls ranging from 19 to 36 as of late. im 31. i dont understand the mechanics of it i just accept it . it makes life a whole lot easier that way for me.



peace be with you



joshua