I hope you can see past your bitterness (as you called it)And maybe see the butterflies, smile.

I'm pretty sure most of us here have had our hearts broken and stomped on too and probably broke a few as well. I don't give up easily and am in no rush.I believe in fate but sometimes fate needs a hand that's why I am keeping an open mind and less of a gaurd up.smile

I work hard & I love to cook & pamper a guy, but I am overwieght & not beautiful. Guys would rather be abused by eye candy.

Oh littleredhen don't put yourself down.You are such a good person you wouldn't want a guy that can't see past the eye candy.I don't know what you look like but you have a big heart I can tell by your emails smile Chin up girl!

Of course I don't want a shallow guy, but the only ones willing to look past my physical imperfections seem to think I should be grateful enough to put up with anything from them. I have just accepted the fact that I am going to be

































































single. I spoil my few freinds & my pets now.


Those so called guys who think you should be grateful for their attention ,are asses.I have in the last yr. kicked one to the curb.They are the ones who look for your most vulnerable point then use it to their advantage.You don't need to put up with crap like that believe me it is better to be alone then to be with someone who treats you with disrespect.your friend,