Topic: the nice ones
ladypegasus's photo
Thu 07/24/08 09:42 PM
It's dark here. Can I hunt lightning bugs instead?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/24/08 09:42 PM
I apologize to any ladies who may actually not think money is important. There may actually BE a few of you out there.

Myself, I don't really believe there are. Way too many experiences that indicate the opposite.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/24/08 09:43 PM

It's dark here. Can I hunt lightning bugs instead?


Sure...have fun with it....LMAO

Damn...I laughed in spite of myself at that one....

ladypegasus's photo
Thu 07/24/08 09:45 PM
Apology accepted.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 07/24/08 09:47 PM

oh come now guys...it is time we get ours as well...
that's exactly what the f*cking divorce lawyer says.

No1sLove's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:04 PM

I apologize to any ladies who may actually not think money is important. There may actually BE a few of you out there.

Myself, I don't really believe there are. Way too many experiences that indicate the opposite.
No foul here hon. I have a theory about how most of you fellas who feel this way ended up with money hungry gals...you were too blind by, looks-like love, to realize they were that way when you started dating them too. ohwell

Sorry guys! I know there are women out there who are all about the love and companionship. Don't let a bad experience in your life stop you from giving them a shot...you will recognize love better this time around for your past experiences. It's not just about trusting the gal, it's about trusting yourself to make a better choice too. IMHO flowerforyou

carolanne58's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:31 PM



you must be dreamig,,,wake up gurley,,,this is th real world,,,,,ok i was being a smart as*,,,,,u think there are a few women out there like that?????



yessssssssssssssss, there are out there i know that for a fact but they are all married:cry:


Not all of them are married.

The ones that aren't are the ones who get screwed, and not in the right way.



Wink,wink,smile for youjustaguy!

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:36 PM




you must be dreamig,,,wake up gurley,,,this is th real world,,,,,ok i was being a smart as*,,,,,u think there are a few women out there like that?????



yessssssssssssssss, there are out there i know that for a fact but they are all married:cry:


Not all of them are married.

The ones that aren't are the ones who get screwed, and not in the right way.



Wink,wink,smile for youjustaguy!


Well....at least being kinda bitter got me a wink and a smile. :-) flowerforyou

itsmetina's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:37 PM
oh darlings my dream is still alive.I'll have a :heart: that i can't wait to see everyday.A :heart: I can't wait to cook his favorite meal.A :heart: that I will think of special things to do for him everyday.A :heart: that I wake up with a smile with and greet the day with happiness.love love love love

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:40 PM


I apologize to any ladies who may actually not think money is important. There may actually BE a few of you out there.

Myself, I don't really believe there are. Way too many experiences that indicate the opposite.
No foul here hon. I have a theory about how most of you fellas who feel this way ended up with money hungry gals...you were too blind by, looks-like love, to realize they were that way when you started dating them too. ohwell

Sorry guys! I know there are women out there who are all about the love and companionship. Don't let a bad experience in your life stop you from giving them a shot...you will recognize love better this time around for your past experiences. It's not just about trusting the gal, it's about trusting yourself to make a better choice too. IMHO flowerforyou


I really wouldn't allow my past experiences to keep me from giving someone a shot...but DAMN...I am SO cautious now that most of the time ( if not ALL the time ) I wind up over analyzing things and screwing it up anyway.

Having your heart shattered on a few occasions tends to make a guy somewhat gunshy. It's not a good thing, but I just can't help it.

carolanne58's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:44 PM
Sounds to me like some of you guys have had bad experiences with woman.It makes me wonder why you are on this site?Is it just a bad nite? I am here hopeing to meet the right one for me but being a relatively new to this site and reading what I am tonite I am getting discouraged. frown

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:49 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Thu 07/24/08 10:52 PM

Sounds to me like some of you guys have had bad experiences with woman.It makes me wonder why you are on this site?Is it just a bad nite? I am here hopeing to meet the right one for me but being a relatively new to this site and reading what I am tonite I am getting discouraged. frown


Well..some of us have had bad experiences. Some more than others.

That doesn't mean I am going to give up. Maybe I'll get lucky and find someone who actually turns out to be a GOOD experience.

But...if someone decides to have some interest in me...I think posting what I do here will help let them know why I am as cautious as I am.

Don't get discouraged. Most of the guys here ( I think ) aren't quite as bitter as I am...lol

It's not even being bitter, really. I guess it's more like...oh hell...I dunno. Bitter = angry about something...I'm not p*ssed off at any of my ex's.

: shrugs :

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:51 PM

oh darlings my dream is still alive.I'll have a :heart: that i can't wait to see everyday.A :heart: I can't wait to cook his favorite meal.A :heart: that I will think of special things to do for him everyday.A :heart: that I wake up with a smile with and greet the day with happiness.love love love love





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Thu 07/24/08 10:53 PM



I apologize to any ladies who may actually not think money is important. There may actually BE a few of you out there.

Myself, I don't really believe there are. Way too many experiences that indicate the opposite.
No foul here hon. I have a theory about how most of you fellas who feel this way ended up with money hungry gals...you were too blind by, looks-like love, to realize they were that way when you started dating them too. ohwell

Sorry guys! I know there are women out there who are all about the love and companionship. Don't let a bad experience in your life stop you from giving them a shot...you will recognize love better this time around for your past experiences. It's not just about trusting the gal, it's about trusting yourself to make a better choice too. IMHO flowerforyou


I really wouldn't allow my past experiences to keep me from giving someone a shot...but DAMN...I am SO cautious now that most of the time ( if not ALL the time ) I wind up over analyzing things and screwing it up anyway.

Having your heart shattered on a few occasions tends to make a guy somewhat gunshy. It's not a good thing, but I just can't help it.

I've had not only my heart shattered, but my home, family & credit too. I have worked too long & hard alone to risk losing everthing again. I am not going to date any more deadbeats. That being said, I realize that there are many ways to contribute besides a traditional paycheck.

no photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:55 PM

The trouble is, women are attracted to guys who are super macho and those guys are not sensitive and caring....


Not me.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:57 PM




I apologize to any ladies who may actually not think money is important. There may actually BE a few of you out there.

Myself, I don't really believe there are. Way too many experiences that indicate the opposite.
No foul here hon. I have a theory about how most of you fellas who feel this way ended up with money hungry gals...you were too blind by, looks-like love, to realize they were that way when you started dating them too. ohwell

Sorry guys! I know there are women out there who are all about the love and companionship. Don't let a bad experience in your life stop you from giving them a shot...you will recognize love better this time around for your past experiences. It's not just about trusting the gal, it's about trusting yourself to make a better choice too. IMHO flowerforyou


I really wouldn't allow my past experiences to keep me from giving someone a shot...but DAMN...I am SO cautious now that most of the time ( if not ALL the time ) I wind up over analyzing things and screwing it up anyway.

Having your heart shattered on a few occasions tends to make a guy somewhat gunshy. It's not a good thing, but I just can't help it.

I've had not only my heart shattered, but my home, family & credit too. I have worked too long & hard alone to risk losing everthing again. I am not going to date any more deadbeats. That being said, I realize that there are many ways to contribute besides a traditional paycheck.


Well..I'm not referring to the jobless losers who want someone to support them. Those guys are idiots.

I'll put it this way....if someone in California ( just about ANYWHERE in Cali ) saw what I make a year, that person would think that I am dead broke and always scraping by. What they wouldn't realize is that, for the area I live in, what I make is actually pretty good money because other than gas and groceries, the cost of living is pretty low.

The problem is, most of the time, the income level itself is the consideration, rather than the area in which that income level is being made.

no photo
Thu 07/24/08 10:57 PM
I work hard & I love to cook & pamper a guy, but I am overwieght & not beautiful. Guys would rather be abused by eye candy.

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Thu 07/24/08 11:00 PM





I apologize to any ladies who may actually not think money is important. There may actually BE a few of you out there.

Myself, I don't really believe there are. Way too many experiences that indicate the opposite.
No foul here hon. I have a theory about how most of you fellas who feel this way ended up with money hungry gals...you were too blind by, looks-like love, to realize they were that way when you started dating them too. ohwell

Sorry guys! I know there are women out there who are all about the love and companionship. Don't let a bad experience in your life stop you from giving them a shot...you will recognize love better this time around for your past experiences. It's not just about trusting the gal, it's about trusting yourself to make a better choice too. IMHO flowerforyou


I really wouldn't allow my past experiences to keep me from giving someone a shot...but DAMN...I am SO cautious now that most of the time ( if not ALL the time ) I wind up over analyzing things and screwing it up anyway.

Having your heart shattered on a few occasions tends to make a guy somewhat gunshy. It's not a good thing, but I just can't help it.

I've had not only my heart shattered, but my home, family & credit too. I have worked too long & hard alone to risk losing everthing again. I am not going to date any more deadbeats. That being said, I realize that there are many ways to contribute besides a traditional paycheck.


Well..I'm not referring to the jobless losers who want someone to support them. Those guys are idiots.

I'll put it this way....if someone in California ( just about ANYWHERE in Cali ) saw what I make a year, that person would think that I am dead broke and always scraping by. What they wouldn't realize is that, for the area I live in, what I make is actually pretty good money because other than gas and groceries, the cost of living is pretty low.

The problem is, most of the time, the income level itself is the consideration, rather than the area in which that income level is being made.


I don't make much either, but I am doing ok on what I make. I am not a typical consumer.

itsmetina's photo
Thu 07/24/08 11:02 PM


oh darlings my dream is still alive.I'll have a :heart: that i can't wait to see everyday.A :heart: I can't wait to cook his favorite meal.A :heart: that I will think of special things to do for him everyday.A :heart: that I wake up with a smile with and greet the day with happiness.love love love love





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back at you my dearflowers flowers flowers

carolanne58's photo
Thu 07/24/08 11:02 PM
I hope you can see past your bitterness (as you called it)And maybe see the butterflies, smile.

I'm pretty sure most of us here have had our hearts broken and stomped on too and probably broke a few as well. I don't give up easily and am in no rush.I believe in fate but sometimes fate needs a hand that's why I am keeping an open mind and less of a gaurd up.smile