it's cuz 90% of women are only attracted to jerks... so a lot of guys just join the winning team... as they say, nice guys finish last.

Some guys are jerks....Not all.
Or
That's what I've heard anyway

Not all guys are jerks, there are good guys out there who know how to treat a woman right. I think the reason it seems like so many are jerks these days, is because of how guys have been trained to be in our society. The ideal that sex is a game basically, and women mere objects has been pushed by the media for so long, and the guys get the shaft for that, warranted or not.

at a gut instinctual level, women want jerks over nice guys, because typically jerks are dominant and powerful. they give off this alpha male vibe that women just are magnetically drawn to like moths to a light bulb. mentally, women think it's awful when a guy is a jerk... but instinctually they swoon and get weak in the knees.

of course, being a jerk could be replaced with just being powerful and dominant, leaving the asshole attributes behind. you can find people who give off that same powerful vibe while still being respectful... to put it in perspective, you've probably had an awesome boss like this before... or you may have met me before - that's when you get the best of both worlds.

Okay then...

i agree

the way i see it everyone has there moments.generally im nice person i treat others how i want to be treated.if im treated well by someone i respond in kind if im treated badly ill tell them to kiss my irish arse.whenever i see someone say how come all guys are jerks it makes me wonder if they gave off an attitude or just met the wrong guy on the wrong day cause we all have those bad days too were nothing goes right and when that last straw breaks the camels back the first person we run into ends up in the line of fire.just my opinion tho .

Lady made a post of apology, said having a bad day.

Good idea

Fongul!

Don't turn this into a nice guy thread.... lady was just venting.

Hmm, I would suggest it is the company you keep, and not all men.

And if a guy came on and vented something similar it would not irritate you? However, I do agree that the nice guy stuff is uncalled for

Wow! Yesterday my girlfriend said that 99.9% of guys are jerks....then looked at me and said, "But not you babe. You are in that elite .1 percent or whatever it is." I felt loved.

you just have to find the right one for you...

In my opinion not all guys are jerks. Don't let a couple bad apples spoil the whole bushel for ya, hun. Positive attitude works better than a negative one.
Can understand if ur just ventin, we all do it. Hope things get better for u!