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Ry42009 Joined Tue 07/22/08 Posts: 7	Wed 07/23/08 04:05 PM
ok soo i put 2 yrs into a relationship and my companion always said he loved me and he couldn't see himself with anyone else but at the end of the relationship he asked me if i would hook him up with one of my friends what happened we were soo happy and then he dropped that bomb?

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 07/23/08 04:06 PM
that sucks sorry

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 07/23/08 04:07 PM
look if your single then your confused. if not then dont worry about it.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Wed 07/23/08 04:08 PM
ok soo i put 2 yrs into a relationship and my companion always said he loved me and he couldn't see himself with anyone else but at the end of the relationship he asked me if i would hook him up with one of my friends what happened we were soo happy and then he dropped that bomb? boys are stupid, throw rocks at them...

jadedyasmine Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 212	Wed 07/23/08 04:08 PM
ok soo i put 2 yrs into a relationship and my companion always said he loved me and he couldn't see himself with anyone else but at the end of the relationship he asked me if i would hook him up with one of my friends what happened we were soo happy and then he dropped that bomb? boys are stupid, throw rocks at them... and rotten spam

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Wed 07/23/08 04:11 PM
ok soo i put 2 yrs into a relationship and my companion always said he loved me and he couldn't see himself with anyone else but at the end of the relationship he asked me if i would hook him up with one of my friends what happened we were soo happy and then he dropped that bomb? boys are stupid, throw rocks at them... GREAT BIG ROCKS

ahuhalicious Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 995	Wed 07/23/08 04:12 PM
sorry to here that

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Wed 07/23/08 04:13 PM
Wow, not just a lie, but a dig!!! Laugh at him!! What a turkey butt!!!

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Wed 07/23/08 04:15 PM
Be glad you found out now before you invested more than 2 yrs and/or got married.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Wed 07/23/08 04:21 PM
ok soo i put 2 yrs into a relationship and my companion always said he loved me and he couldn't see himself with anyone else but at the end of the relationship he asked me if i would hook him up with one of my friends what happened we were soo happy and then he dropped that bomb? I hope you told him to hook himself!

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Wed 07/23/08 04:23 PM
I am sorry that happened to you, but be glad that you found out now and not a few more years into the relationship.

Martec Joined Fri 07/11/08 Posts: 249	Wed 07/23/08 04:24 PM
get uglier friends! j/k

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 07/23/08 04:26 PM
ok soo i put 2 yrs into a relationship and my companion always said he loved me and he couldn't see himself with anyone else but at the end of the relationship he asked me if i would hook him up with one of my friends what happened we were soo happy and then he dropped that bomb? He asked if you could hook him up. Um, WTH is that. Hope you told him to get a life

iwsteel Joined Fri 11/16/07 Posts: 909	Wed 07/23/08 04:26 PM
guys like that ruin it for the good ones

iwsteel Joined Fri 11/16/07 Posts: 909	Wed 07/23/08 04:27 PM
ya sure he didnt mean like a 3way?

Martec Joined Fri 07/11/08 Posts: 249	Wed 07/23/08 04:28 PM
ya sure he didnt mean like a 3way? Probably

Lord_Psycho Joined Thu 06/26/08 Posts: 14878	Thu 07/24/08 08:58 AM
u shouldve told him that they are lesbians n they dont like being near men!!!

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 07/24/08 08:59 AM
Did he ask you this after you broke up?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 07/24/08 10:09 AM
ok soo i put 2 yrs into a relationship and my companion always said he loved me and he couldn't see himself with anyone else but at the end of the relationship he asked me if i would hook him up with one of my friends what happened we were soo happy and then he dropped that bomb? Well, men and women say that line of "I'm happy with you and I cannot see myself with anyone else but you...yada, yada, yada." and don't mean it. It's as common as saying "I Love You!" and not really meaning it. See, in today's world we have forgotten what it means to say what you really feel and mean what you say. It's easier for us to just say the "right thing at the right time." We may lie, but we don't see it this way. We figure it is for the greater good, or that we do mean it...just not 100%. Also, we lose interest in others more quickly cause once things change we don't like it. You start out happy in a relationship and for the first 6-8 months or so, all is well. Then, things change. Could be anything. Maybe the sex isn't as great. Or maybe you aren't communicating as much as you did. Could be anything. You still care about that person, but you soon find yourself looking at other men or women. In your case, I will assume he knew your friend, had spoken to her on several occassions, and developed this interest in her. Once things changed for him (as pertaining to you guys' relationship) he started thinking about getting with your friend. Not saying this is what happened, but it could be. Anyways, now you know. And, while it does hurt/suck/bites the big one that two years invested with him are now gone, on the plus side of things is that once you feel ready you can meet someone...someday...who is much better than him.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 07/24/08 10:38 AM
ok soo i put 2 yrs into a relationship and my companion always said he loved me and he couldn't see himself with anyone else but at the end of the relationship he asked me if i would hook him up with one of my friends what happened we were soo happy and then he dropped that bomb? Well, men and women say that line of "I'm happy with you and I cannot see myself with anyone else but you...yada, yada, yada." and don't mean it. It's as common as saying "I Love You!" and not really meaning it. See, in today's world we have forgotten what it means to say what you really feel and mean what you say. It's easier for us to just say the "right thing at the right time." We may lie, but we don't see it this way. We figure it is for the greater good, or that we do mean it...just not 100%. Also, we lose interest in others more quickly cause once things change we don't like it. You start out happy in a relationship and for the first 6-8 months or so, all is well. Then, things change. Could be anything. Maybe the sex isn't as great. Or maybe you aren't communicating as much as you did. Could be anything. You still care about that person, but you soon find yourself looking at other men or women. In your case, I will assume he knew your friend, had spoken to her on several occassions, and developed this interest in her. Once things changed for him (as pertaining to you guys' relationship) he started thinking about getting with your friend. Not saying this is what happened, but it could be. Anyways, now you know. And, while it does hurt/suck/bites the big one that two years invested with him are now gone, on the plus side of things is that once you feel ready you can meet someone...someday...who is much better than him. Bollox! That was wise. Bloody good man!