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If you can get the milk for free, why bother with buying the cow right?? If you let them do it. Then it's on you.
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a "FB" is a Fu(k Buddy
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I guess I can understand. I am so called talking to this guy. When he writes me or text me, I get excited. But if I write him or text him...no response. I feel like he isn't interested. I get so confused. Does he want me...does he not want me. I feel like looking else where but he seems to pull me back in. What else could I say?
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Is the whole I dea of a FB nothing more than a booty call? That's my understanding of it so when I was a FB I completely understood that I would be saved for a rainy day....Look on the bright side though, at least they'd rather spend time w/ you than giving themselves a hand.
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don't be someone's FB....you'll always be left hangin
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This is why I have never done the friends with benefits. To me, you get no respect!! Seriously, why would they give you any respect though? You are putting yourself out there for only sex, I mean..if you are alright with this, then thats great, but for me, its not the best situation.
If I am going to be in any type of a relationship, its going to be a relationship where I have everything. I just don't want to be someone that gets a phone call to hook up during his time of need, I want to be able to be there for everything!! I still think that someone always gets hurt and ends up feeling used when they have the friends with benefits relationship. I truly believe that most women are the ones that fall for the guy and ends up getting hurt and the guys end up getting most of the pleasure out of the relationship..JMO!! |
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"Friend w/Benefits" or "F'Buddy" I think "F'Buddy" sounds better than Friends w/benefits...it sounds more dirty....when I hear Friends w/benefits sounds like a Friend that is getting SSI or something... |
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why is it that people like to leave other people hanging it makes me feel like i am kept on the side for a rainy day! they act like they want you as a friend but then a FB then more then a FB it is nothing but a continious circle , from my experience it is so miserable you get happy again then they throw another curve ball and i know men and women both do it but why? Because your photo is orange and green. |
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What is a FB FB= Fck Buddy or Friend w/Benefits a field boot ?!  No serieslly what is it ? |
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thank you all for your input i really appreciate it really helps me put it all in to perspective
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boys are stupid...dont fck them, throw rocks at them instead...feels better...
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This is why I have never done the friends with benefits. To me, you get no respect!! Seriously, why would they give you any respect though? You are putting yourself out there for only sex, I mean..if you are alright with this, then thats great, but for me, its not the best situation. If I am going to be in any type of a relationship, its going to be a relationship where I have everything. I just don't want to be someone that gets a phone call to hook up during his time of need, I want to be able to be there for everything!! I still think that someone always gets hurt and ends up feeling used when they have the friends with benefits relationship. I truly believe that most women are the ones that fall for the guy and ends up getting hurt and the guys end up getting most of the pleasure out of the relationship..JMO!! I have done it but I was the one making the calls! I think we did have mutual respect because we were both 100% clear and honest about what we wanted from each other. Neither one of us wanted more. Why is that so wrong? I never felt empty or lonely or anything but incredibly satisfied when he left. |
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fb = fancy boy?
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I think an F-buddy is far more common and more healthy than a friend with benefits since F-Buddy implies that the relationship doesn't go beyond sex. So there is no real attachment to the person. However a friend that you also you sleep with could be awkward, or at least is likely to become awkward at some point.
As far as why do people go back and forth? Some people act that way because they have self esteem issues and have no real interest in you other than proving themselves. In essence they are thinking "I need to prove myself worthy of entering your body." So once they have accomplished that they have no reason to stay. This isn't always the case but it does explain some men's "F--k you then leave you" attitude. |
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I don't run FB fullback for anyone. I won't even be halfback or NB nickelback or even tightend either. I'm not much of a football dater.
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Edited by
Kleisto
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Mon 07/21/08 06:20 PM
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Are you related to George Foreman?
  Sorry I couldn't resist that one seeing the name. Being serious now, I think for a lot of people it's easier just to be with someone for sex, then it is to make a real commitment to a person. It's a sad reflection of how the world is with regards to sex today I think. If you want to see it change yourself, I think you need to change your standards. Make it clear what you want in someone (friend or otherwise), what you don't, and then don't settle for anything less. |
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