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Ladies, Just for $h!ts and giggles...  Do me the favor and please tell the men how it makes you feel when they blow you off for a game or some boxing, then, call you drunk. ...Is this attractive or acceptable for some? Would these actions keep your interest? I'm sure to get mixed reviews. I had to ask because some guys just DON'T get it...   well my BF doesn't blow me off for it, but he does go to shoot pool and gets black out drunk sometimes. calls me and says a whole lotta stuff I do NOT wanna hear. Next time he does it ......... he can hit the road Jack .. 
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I personally think... A man should have time with his friends and the "game". As long as it isnt every day and as long as they come home to me. Be thankful he called you and not some other woman!!! but... thats just me I agree. Everyone should have their own time with friends. The courteous phone call is admirable too  ...What if the "relationship" was new and this happened? He obviously contacted you because he was interested...but then, when you make the attempt to call, he blows you off cause of some sport?!? |
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40 is the Majic no. for men..
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They blew you off? Or told you that they were going with friends? If they had said they were going with friends...so be it, I'd make my own plans or just choose to stay in.. And as far as them calling me later.. if drunk? lol just means they had a good time, I'd tell them to be safe getting home and I'd talk to them tomorrow.  ...No! You were JUST getting to know them! Let's say it was the first time you would have ever spoken on the phone to someone and they text you asking if they could get back to you after the game... What would you think then? Well if it were the very first time I had ever spoken to them on the phone and "I" called them? Then I obviously interrupted plans that he previously had.. so for him to ask if he could get back to me? no problem. But then later if he called and was drunk, I'd probably laugh it off and insist we talk tomorrow when he can remember things. If things like this persisted on a regular basis, no I wouldnt want to get to know him. |
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As to watchin a game or whatever .. heck I might be the one to blow HIM off for a Packers game ..
 I totally understand that. Boys need time with boys and that's fine. I'll have my time with my chicas then too. It's just the drunk thing that's not workin for me anymore..it's called TTTH. |
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Uh oh, is that a code blue I hear or is that someone who wants to vent!
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maby bad investment,,,,,,,or could be your not taken care of your investment HA HA HA! What a cop out!  So... because someone doesn't know how to balance a relationship, the easiest thing to say is, the female isn't taking care of things at home?!? |
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40 is the Majic no. for men.. I gotta try it sometime!
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As to watchin a game or whatever .. heck I might be the one to blow HIM off for a Packers game .. I totally understand that. Boys need time with boys and that's fine. I'll have my time with my chicas then too. It's just the drunk thing that's not workin for me anymore..it's called TTTH. Packers game? Wow, you had me checking to see if you were here in the frozen tundra. What's this, Packer fans in Colorado? Alright! |
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There is a boxing match tonight, Hi Kevin 
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Uh oh, is that a code blue I hear or is that someone who wants to vent! No venting required! I find it funny as all heck! |
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I personally think... A man should have time with his friends and the "game". As long as it isnt every day and as long as they come home to me. Be thankful he called you and not some other woman!!! but... thats just me I have to agreee with Giggles with this one. |
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Edited by
Voluptuous
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Sun 07/20/08 01:33 PM
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I personally think... A man should have time with his friends and the "game". As long as it isnt every day and as long as they come home to me. Be thankful he called you and not some other woman!!! but... thats just me I have to agreee with Giggles with this one. I agreed as well but it would be foolish for one to assume you were the only one he called drunk!
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What is TTTH?
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They blew you off? Or told you that they were going with friends? If they had said they were going with friends...so be it, I'd make my own plans or just choose to stay in.. And as far as them calling me later.. if drunk? lol just means they had a good time, I'd tell them to be safe getting home and I'd talk to them tomorrow. ...No! You were JUST getting to know them! Let's say it was the first time you would have ever spoken on the phone to someone and they text you asking if they could get back to you after the game... What would you think then? Well, I see it like this If your just starting to get to know each other and no plans were made for that day, and if he is watching the game and says, "I will get back to you after the game"...Whats the big deal? Should he drop everything right then? |
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Uh oh, is that a code blue I hear or is that someone who wants to vent! No venting required! I find it funny as all heck! Both "code blue" and the term "venting" are currently in use by popular TV beer commercials when guys want to get together to tip a few! |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Sun 07/20/08 01:42 PM
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agreeing with Jim Even if your well into the relationship....and just because he calls you drunk dosen't mean ya have to listen to his drunkidness... "hey baby did your team win?? Thanks for calling me and letting me know your ok...now go get some sleep or catch a ride home so you can pass out on the bathroom floor and I'll talk to you tommarrow. |
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They blew you off? Or told you that they were going with friends? If they had said they were going with friends...so be it, I'd make my own plans or just choose to stay in.. And as far as them calling me later.. if drunk? lol just means they had a good time, I'd tell them to be safe getting home and I'd talk to them tomorrow. Ireally like your advice b/c maybe possibly the guy wasn't a hopeless jerk(but one has to wonder) |
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They blew you off? Or told you that they were going with friends? If they had said they were going with friends...so be it, I'd make my own plans or just choose to stay in.. And as far as them calling me later.. if drunk? lol just means they had a good time, I'd tell them to be safe getting home and I'd talk to them tomorrow. ...No! You were JUST getting to know them! Let's say it was the first time you would have ever spoken on the phone to someone and they text you asking if they could get back to you after the game... What would you think then? Well, I see it like this If your just starting to get to know each other and no plans were made for that day, and if he is watching the game and says, "I will get back to you after the game"...Whats the big deal? Should he drop everything right then? Not as long as you would be ok receiving the same treatment. So, are you saying a sheduled time slot needs to be made for a phone call...? I mean, we are all busy with our lives right? Kids, pedicures, doctors appointments, friends, games ect... I just find it humorous |
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I personally think... A man should have time with his friends and the "game". As long as it isnt every day and as long as they come home to me. Be thankful he called you and not some other woman!!! but... thats just me I agree. Everyone should have their own time with friends. The courteous phone call is admirable too ...What if the "relationship" was new and this happened? He obviously contacted you because he was interested...but then, when you make the attempt to call, he blows you off cause of some sport?!? your saying he blew you off... maybe he had this already planned with his friends?????? |
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