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Topic: Money
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Sun 07/20/08 08:11 AM



Do you think financial statues and the ability to handle money well play a big roll in who you or others choose as a partner?

Absolutely .
Money is happiness .
Money is life .




How sad but true..........I work for a bank so my partner always expected me to handle everything and pull it out my a$$ when we are short. But I guess that is why I never married and I am a single mom now.


WOW, ME TOO!!!!!!!!!

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Sun 07/20/08 08:13 AM
Absolutely, gotta pay bills. The rest is gravy. As long as there's enough to pay the bills.
My ex and I had decided, together, that I would quit my job and go to school full time and finish my degree. (About a year). As soon as the money got a little tight, he took off.

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Sun 07/20/08 11:19 AM
o poor rjr but at least you know it was time for a change..
just keep walking ..

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Sun 07/20/08 11:21 AM

Do you think financial statues and the ability to handle money well play a big roll in who you or others choose as a partner?
Yes...the ability to handle money is something I look at. Who wants to be with someone and you use their card and get to the check out and they blew the last of the money on pot????? This has happened to me!!grumble explode

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Sun 07/20/08 11:24 AM
my problem with money, is that I dont have any....so if my partner has some then Id say thats a plus...

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Sun 07/20/08 11:24 AM
Oh yeah, I am paying off debt from marraige.

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Sun 07/20/08 11:28 AM

Do you think financial statues and the ability to handle money well play a big roll in who you or others choose as a partner?


plays a big part
if the man can't handle money, then it's a big problem
I am very good at managing my finances and look for the same in any man I may consider getting involved with

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Sun 07/20/08 12:14 PM

Do you think financial statues and the ability to handle money well play a big roll in who you or others choose as a partner?


I dunno...what's a partner?huh

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Sun 07/20/08 05:24 PM

o poor rjr but at least you know it was time for a change..
just keep walking ..


Kinda funny now. I'm in better financial shape than him. He's also changed his mind, but I haven't!!laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 07/20/08 06:31 PM
Im rich and I dont care! If I have a gf she can do watever she wants with her money and not beg for it from me! She must earn the money! LOL

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Sun 07/20/08 06:33 PM

Do you think financial statues and the ability to handle money well play a big roll in who you or others choose as a partner?

Not the status but the ability to handle money is important.

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Sun 07/20/08 06:44 PM
Are you talking marriage type relationship or just long term dating? Because up to the marriage part money should be a back-burner issue.

Marriage is a legally binding contract and has less to do with love than it does with shared fiscal responsibilities and risks.

A lot of very pleasant relationships get ruined by ill conceived weddings, especially when one or the other is a bum and the more responsible party overlooks that fact.

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Sun 07/20/08 09:20 PM
My main reason for not wanting to get married again is the fact that I do NOT ever want to get involved with somebody financially.
Unless he's 105, has money and no family rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Sun 07/20/08 09:55 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Sun 07/20/08 09:58 PM
In my experience, it's a far more important issue for women than it is for men.


I see LOTS of women who say it isn't that important. Have even talked to some of them for a while. Once they find out that I only make about 25k a year ( even though the area I live in has a pretty low Cost of Living ), they quickly decide I'm not their " type ".

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Sun 07/20/08 10:53 PM
money

its a crime


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