Alright, heres my thing, I met a guy on myspace about a month ago and he said he wanted to meet me and all, Ya fine ok, however, I told him we best talk for a bit online or over the phone before meeting. He seemed ok with that. Then one sunday I met him, my cousin and her fiancee was with me and again, he did not seem to mind. The four of us seemed to have a great time, and he ened the night with giving me a hug (his hands on my ass) and a kiss. I thought he really liked me. When I got home, we talked over myspaceIM for some time and again, I thought he really liked me, but over the course of the week, everytime I cought himonline, I would say hi and see when he wanted to hang out next, He would reply that he did not know that he was busy, which I assumed he was, fighting for cousity of his 3 year old daughter. So I shrugged it off, and wished him luck. He would say some sweet things to me as well, and I thought things were going to be alright. Then the next weekend I had invited him to a gathering I was going to, at first he did not responce, so i emailed him again asking him to please let me know. Then shortly after he replied back saying that he was not my type and that he had found my add on Creigslist, which I am not on, and that he wished me luck. I was pissed, first off, if he was going to say that to me, why did he lead me on and lie to me? Why did he say that he wanted to hang out again? Why couldn't he just simply tell me that i was not his type after he was dropped off, instead of hugging me and giving me a kiss. I'm tired of being played and led on.
So guys really think about this when you meet a girl for the first time, if you don't plan to see her again after the first date, don't lead her on, and don't play mind games with her. The guy is scum in my eyes and dishonorable jerks should be put in their places!!!

Do you want the real answer?

I have a few answers of my own.

Dont get all worked up over him.

MEN like the CHASE! We are hunters. Once you get a guys attention, and you see him in pursuit, play a little "hard to get". JMHO

Games huh? Well damn, guess I'll be one of those little old ladies with only her cats as her only company if 'games' is all thats in a man's mind. What, no one gives a rat's ass about respect, honesty, and honor anymore. call me old fastion, but I want nothing to do with guys that are going to lead me on and play me.

I stay clear of myspace, I don't like that site.

I agree with this to a point, I dont play hard to get usually, if I want to get rid of them fast. Makes it worse in my opinion, the keep "persuing" regardless of how "hard" u play to get.

question???? did you look on craigslist????

if I found out someone I was interested in was on craigslist lookin for a goodtime it would turn me off!!!
Im not sayin you put an add there, but that doesnt mean someone else didnt......

Well I did't find out about the whole craigslist thing until the badwords started to fly. Whatever happened to honesty?

The guy liked you well enough to meet you. He liked you well enough to kiss you goodbye.

He found some things he liked about you but when he had more time to think about it he had his doubts about you. The reason doesn't matter.

It's unreasonable to think that he should tell you that you won't be seeing him again at the end of the date.

This works both ways. I've dated women and thought things went really well only to find out the next day that she didn't want to see me again. (note: this is why I would never take a woman to an expensive restaurant for a first date). Those women never bothered to tell me at the end of the date I wouldn't be seeing them again.

Saying you were "played" is being immature. Get over it. It's the way things work in this world honey. I didn't make the rules but those are the rules. Move onto the next guy and see if things click better for you.

craigslist ? I don't follow. Is this another dating site?

I have to agree with this answer totally, I have had it happen to me also, I just move on and hope that one day the one will come along that is right for me.

Letting go and moving on is fine, but there is no excuse for his kind of behavior IMHO

Move on! the guys a jerk and gave you a cheap excuse! I get that from girls and from other people day in day out! Can anybody be real and not full of it! I believe in honest, respect and loyalty! and if they have a problem with that. they know they can email,call and talk about it with me anytime they want! I just dont it like it when they get my hopes up then after a few weeks nothin! Can we be real and just stop beiong lil babies about it!

Kinda' funny that he said that he "found your ad on Craig's List"....OK, what was HE doing looking on Craig's List...? Pot/Kettle....

Kinda' funny that he said that he "found your ad on Craig's List"....OK, what was HE doing looking on Craig's List...? Pot/Kettle....

Woooohooo..!! Must be 2 for 1 night..!!

all because of myspace,damn that site!!

werd x10000

This man speaks the truth. End thread and don't view this a play on your selfesteem.