Topic: To Rat or not to Rat...
Peccy's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:01 PM




You know what they do to rats in prison...just sayinglaugh laugh laugh


But with therapy you can get help, Etrain flowers flowers flowers
Nah, he's a good guy, you did the right thing!


Speak of the devil...I thought you were sleeping.bigsmile
The devil, this is not about me lol pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork

jfjfw's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:01 PM
I think you did the right thing, especially in a very difficult situation. I think the results speak for themselves. Good for you, discretion

Peccy's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:03 PM
I thought you were talking about yer dogs again! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

lilangel2's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:04 PM





You know what they do to rats in prison...just sayinglaugh laugh laugh


But with therapy you can get help, Etrain flowers flowers flowers
Nah, he's a good guy, you did the right thing!


Speak of the devil...I thought you were sleeping.bigsmile
The devil, this is not about me lol pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork


I know...you know who it's about. I had just posted another thread about you never be on here same time I am...then you popped on here! laugh

Peccy's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:07 PM






You know what they do to rats in prison...just sayinglaugh laugh laugh


But with therapy you can get help, Etrain flowers flowers flowers
Nah, he's a good guy, you did the right thing!


Speak of the devil...I thought you were sleeping.bigsmile
The devil, this is not about me lol pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork


I know...you know who it's about. I had just posted another thread about you never be on here same time I am...then you popped on here! laugh
I was in the shower

lilangel2's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:10 PM







You know what they do to rats in prison...just sayinglaugh laugh laugh


But with therapy you can get help, Etrain flowers flowers flowers
Nah, he's a good guy, you did the right thing!


Speak of the devil...I thought you were sleeping.bigsmile
The devil, this is not about me lol pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork


I know...you know who it's about. I had just posted another thread about you never be on here same time I am...then you popped on here! laugh
I was in the shower


Good, you were getting ripe! :laughing:

lilangel2's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:10 PM
oops offtopic :angry:

lilangel2's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:12 PM
back on topic...so, this can be viewed two ways...

You are either NOT a very loyal friend

Or you are a rat fink!

tears tears tears

I didn't wanna be put in this position!!! Ignorance is BLISS! bigsmile

Peccy's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:16 PM
I still thought this post was about those dogs :banana: :banana: :banana:

lilangel2's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:17 PM

I still thought this post was about those dogs :banana: :banana: :banana:


when you get here you will be the "leader of the pack" Vrrrrrommmmmmmmmmmmmmm! bigsmile

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:19 PM
Well now. This is interesting.

Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ?

lilangel2's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:21 PM
Edited by lilangel2 on Sat 07/19/08 02:23 PM

Well now. This is interesting.

Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ?


Well there is sometimes the need to use the art of being MUTE...not lying...but not participating in something unpleasant and harmful.

If his wife had of asked me, "Angel, is D--- cybering with a woman online?" then I could have said, "I am not sure"....cos in all reality...could have been a man HA!laugh laugh rofl

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:24 PM


Well now. This is interesting.

Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ?


Well there is sometimes the need to use the art of being MUTE...not lying...but not participating in something unpleasant and harmful.


I understand. Just thought I would point out that little twist. lol

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:25 PM


Well now. This is interesting.

Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ?


Well there is sometimes the need to use the art of being MUTE...not lying...but not participating in something unpleasant and harmful.

If his wife had of asked me, "Angel, is D--- cybering with a woman online?" then I could have said, "I am not sure"....cos in all reality...could have been a man HA!laugh laugh rofl


Yeah....that would be something that would be far better not gotten into....laugh

62easygoing's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:30 PM
it would not be my place to rat on any ; very simplewaving

no photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:31 PM
you did the right thing

Redshirt's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:37 PM
That is always a tough call. Obviously you knew more about them and their relationship. Think you did the right thing. Sometime when someone is aware that a mutual friend is on to them they straighten up and fly right.

How long before Peccy arrives? offtopic oops rofl

Peccy's photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:56 PM
25 days

plk1966's photo
Sat 07/19/08 03:03 PM



Well now. This is interesting.

Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ?


Well there is sometimes the need to use the art of being MUTE...not lying...but not participating in something unpleasant and harmful.


I understand. Just thought I would point out that little twist. lol


Being honest in a romantic relationship is completely different than hurting or crushing a friend's feelings. She was honest just didn't put herself in the middle.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 07/19/08 05:39 PM
Personally I think it's sad that most people are agreeing saying you "did the right thing." Would you want to stay with a husband for 20 yrs only to find out that a friend knew all along that he was cheating and didn't tell you?

Not telling your friend helped him cheat every day that nothing was said... how can one consider themselves a friend to the wife? Better yet, how can that be considered "the right thing?"

I stick by my answer in ratting the pig out. I don't care to help people do rotten things, and cheating is ROTTEN.