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You know what they do to rats in prison...just saying
But with therapy you can get help, Etrain
Speak of the devil...I thought you were sleeping.
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I think you did the right thing, especially in a very difficult situation. I think the results speak for themselves. Good for you, discretion
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I thought you were talking about yer dogs again!
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You know what they do to rats in prison...just saying
But with therapy you can get help, Etrain
Speak of the devil...I thought you were sleeping.
I know...you know who it's about. I had just posted another thread about you never be on here same time I am...then you popped on here!
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You know what they do to rats in prison...just saying
But with therapy you can get help, Etrain
Speak of the devil...I thought you were sleeping.
I know...you know who it's about. I had just posted another thread about you never be on here same time I am...then you popped on here!
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You know what they do to rats in prison...just saying
But with therapy you can get help, Etrain
Speak of the devil...I thought you were sleeping.
I know...you know who it's about. I had just posted another thread about you never be on here same time I am...then you popped on here!
Good, you were getting ripe!
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back on topic...so, this can be viewed two ways...
You are either NOT a very loyal friend Or you are a rat fink!
I didn't wanna be put in this position!!! Ignorance is BLISS!
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I still thought this post was about those dogs
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I still thought this post was about those dogs
when you get here you will be the "leader of the pack" Vrrrrrommmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
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Well now. This is interesting.
Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ? |
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Edited by
lilangel2
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Sat 07/19/08 02:23 PM
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Well now. This is interesting. Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ? Well there is sometimes the need to use the art of being MUTE...not lying...but not participating in something unpleasant and harmful. If his wife had of asked me, "Angel, is D--- cybering with a woman online?" then I could have said, "I am not sure"....cos in all reality...could have been a man HA!
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Well now. This is interesting. Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ? Well there is sometimes the need to use the art of being MUTE...not lying...but not participating in something unpleasant and harmful. I understand. Just thought I would point out that little twist. lol |
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Well now. This is interesting. Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ? Well there is sometimes the need to use the art of being MUTE...not lying...but not participating in something unpleasant and harmful. If his wife had of asked me, "Angel, is D--- cybering with a woman online?" then I could have said, "I am not sure"....cos in all reality...could have been a man HA!
Yeah....that would be something that would be far better not gotten into....
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it would not be my place to rat on any ; very simple
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you did the right thing
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That is always a tough call. Obviously you knew more about them and their relationship. Think you did the right thing. Sometime when someone is aware that a mutual friend is on to them they straighten up and fly right.
How long before Peccy arrives?
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25 days
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Well now. This is interesting. Could it be that all that " honesty " that women seem to want around here should be phrased " honesty...sometimes...just as long as I don't have to rat out a friend " ? Well there is sometimes the need to use the art of being MUTE...not lying...but not participating in something unpleasant and harmful. I understand. Just thought I would point out that little twist. lol Being honest in a romantic relationship is completely different than hurting or crushing a friend's feelings. She was honest just didn't put herself in the middle. |
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Personally I think it's sad that most people are agreeing saying you "did the right thing." Would you want to stay with a husband for 20 yrs only to find out that a friend knew all along that he was cheating and didn't tell you?
Not telling your friend helped him cheat every day that nothing was said... how can one consider themselves a friend to the wife? Better yet, how can that be considered "the right thing?" I stick by my answer in ratting the pig out. I don't care to help people do rotten things, and cheating is ROTTEN. |
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