Hey im not complaining but wtf! Why is it that all the women im interested in are so damn far from me it sucks.

Make the change. Make the move!!!!

im goin through the exact same thing my friend....u want advice...the NICEST ones are either in the Phillippines or Indonesia lol not kidding girls (and guys too) in USA r mean!
people call me ugly too

it does suck and idk what to do either

There is nice people and bad people everywhere.
Stick with it. Never lose hope. Watch the Shawshank redemption!!!

2 Possible answers: 1) They don't care how far away you are, but how far you will come to be with them. 2) They don't tell guys up close that they are hunks, period, but it's safer/easier to say that they are attracted at a distance.

Have you tried "Mutual Match"? This great feature will match you with people (possibly) in your area instantly! And it is free of charge with the site! What a fantastic deal!

i thought they charged you 3 cent per match ?

It'd be ok

No it is a dollar for matching...contact me for information on where to send your check.

lol

But seriously people, the online dating game in Ireland really sucks. Its the same faces. I think there is about 40 people on them and those same 40 appear on the 10 or so sites.
I know how the op feels. All the girls are at least 3,000 miles away from me. I don't think I will have much luck. Do you??

Dude. You are on a dating site and majority of the time, it just works out that way. Plus, look at it this way. If you decide to meet a girl who lives far from you, then you get a mini vacation, or a reason to get out of the house. And, if the meeting goes well, then "Score!". If not, then you still got to see another city.

Yeah, most of the guys I'm interested in live in NY (hint, hint), LOL

mmm irish accents

Ah, Thats why none of my M.M's haven't wrote me...

A friend and I had this discussion last night and I think it boils down to a couple questions you have to ask yourself:

How badly do I want to find love? What am I willing to sacrifice to find it? Am I OK with a LDR? Am I willing to relocate?

If you answer no to the above, then my guess is that you should put the online stuff on the back burner and focus the majority of your time and effort looking for new avenues to meet people in your own community. The scary part is that it means moving (far, possibly) out of your comfort zone - going places and trying things that are completely new and different (or you're likely to keep bumping into the same women you've already deemed unsuitable).

Sure, it's easier to scan the computer screen for new faces/possible matches, but generally speaking in life, the greater the risk/sacrifice you make for something you want to acquire, the greater the reward long term.

Hope that didn't sound trite or patronizing. If it's any consolation, I don't know even 1 single, straight male in my day-to-day life, so I understand that it's a tough go either way. Just have to stay open and positive to whatever comes along ...

I'm glad they all live so far away. It gives me a chance to describe to these lovely little honey's my 6 pack abs and my long blonde hair in a ponytail and my beautiful smile and how well I dance.

Of course when they meet me they realize I have 12 pack beer gut,damn near bald with three teeth and I look like I'm having a seizure when I dance.

I love long distance!

I think you should change your username to Fabio ... it's so much more fitting for you, MBD!