Topic: Can we try "Kindness"?
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Wed 07/16/08 05:06 PM
I am sure every religion teaches something about "Kindness" in their scriptures. I feel many don't actually practice it enough. I am even sure those who don't follow religion know the meaning of "kindness" yet also do not practice it enough. Try this for a change if you haven't already! Wake up and be kind to everyone regardless of what the outcome is. Do this until you go to bed that day. If you have done this please share your experience here on this thread.

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It is all about kindness. Many have difficulty in today's society to just be kind to each other. People fight for parking spots, cut in lines at a grocery store, scream at work, say things they don't mean to someone, threaten, or even use violence. I know there are many more reasons why people are like this, yet let us try to create a family here on this site and start by complimenting each other.

It doesn't matter if you don't know the person, just say a kind gesture or compliment to make that person feel better. Come on you can do it!

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In order to play this game one must give a compliment to the post or picture above you in this thread. I hope kindness becomes contagious and that this thread will survive forever.

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All the best and if you need someone to listen to you then always email me. I am a good listener.

John

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Wed 07/16/08 05:10 PM
I always treat everyone with kindness, it's the only way to get through this life with your sanity...harsh words should not be a part of our society...and yes...you do have beautiful blue eyesbigsmile

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Wed 07/16/08 05:21 PM

I always treat everyone with kindness, it's the only way to get through this life with your sanity...harsh words should not be a part of our society...and yes...you do have beautiful blue eyesbigsmile


Thank you! I hope more people will follow your example!:smile:

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Wed 07/16/08 05:22 PM
Edited by TravelArranger on Wed 07/16/08 05:23 PM
John 4:7-8: Beloved ones, let us continue loving one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born from God and gains the knowledge of God. He that does not love has not come to know God, because God is love.
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Wed 07/16/08 05:41 PM

John 4:7-8: Beloved ones, let us continue loving one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born from God and gains the knowledge of God. He that does not love has not come to know God, because God is love.
flowerforyou

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I agree! Now arrange me a travel to a place full of kindness and peacelaugh

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Wed 07/16/08 05:41 PM
BAH, HUMBUG!! flowerforyou

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Wed 07/16/08 05:46 PM
How are you today my friend? Isn't it a wonderful peaceful and most exhilirating day ever!happy

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Wed 07/16/08 05:57 PM


John 4:7-8: Beloved ones, let us continue loving one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born from God and gains the knowledge of God. He that does not love has not come to know God, because God is love.
flowerforyou

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I agree! Now arrange me a travel to a place full of kindness and peacelaugh



Is there such a place on earth? Even the most fantastic destinations tend to be stressful and hectic. bigsmile

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Wed 07/16/08 06:10 PM



John 4:7-8: Beloved ones, let us continue loving one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born from God and gains the knowledge of God. He that does not love has not come to know God, because God is love.
flowerforyou

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I agree! Now arrange me a travel to a place full of kindness and peacelaugh



Is there such a place on earth? Even the most fantastic destinations tend to be stressful and hectic. bigsmile



yes I see it everyday! If you go to the beach and just watch the ocean and the skies! So peaceful and no hectic. I experience it everyday! laugh

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Wed 07/16/08 06:14 PM
Ok I try everyday to be kind even when I have people yelling at the top of their lungs at me.

But I am telling you today was not the day and tomorrow does not look good either.

But you are right I do not live near an ocean but you know what brings me peace the look in my amazing 9 year old daughters eyes..........that is all I ever need to calm me down.flowerforyou

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Wed 07/16/08 07:33 PM

Ok I try everyday to be kind even when I have people yelling at the top of their lungs at me.

But I am telling you today was not the day and tomorrow does not look good either.

But you are right I do not live near an ocean but you know what brings me peace the look in my amazing 9 year old daughters eyes..........that is all I ever need to calm me down.flowerforyou


A child's eyes is peace! I think it is great to have peace in the mind and heart. It leads to kindness on so many levels. I hope your days ahead will find better fortunes. flowerforyou

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Wed 07/16/08 08:24 PM



John 4:7-8: Beloved ones, let us continue loving one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born from God and gains the knowledge of God. He that does not love has not come to know God, because God is love.
flowerforyou

Always posts thoughtful, caring posts flowerforyou


I agree! Now arrange me a travel to a place full of kindness and peacelaugh



Is there such a place on earth? Even the most fantastic destinations tend to be stressful and hectic. bigsmile


I think my town has a lot of kind people. If you have some juicy gossip for them they will do anything for you to get it. LOL

No, really Springfield Colorado is like Maybery. Everybody in town knows your name and what ever gossip they heard about you. But over all I think there are a lot of very kind people here.

JB

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Wed 07/16/08 08:32 PM
Jeannie...because you are a Kind person, you will always see Kindness in othersflowerforyou

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Wed 07/16/08 08:34 PM
I think the bible says turn your cheek 7x70 (490) times..... i'm at 489!

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Wed 07/16/08 08:40 PM

Jeannie...because you are a Kind person, you will always see Kindness in othersflowerforyou


You too morningsong. flowerforyou

May the force be with you and may you keep using it! drinker

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Wed 07/16/08 08:49 PM
Edited by tribo on Wed 07/16/08 08:51 PM

How are you today my friend? Isn't it a wonderful peaceful and most exhilirating day ever!happy



dont pull that goody, goody, stuff on me black dragon, your just trying to lure the food into your cave so that you can enjoy a meal or two. I for one wont allow you to do so!! you, you, dragon you!!


outside of that i'm fine as usual. :smile: :tongue: bigsmile biggrin rofl smile2 :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: waving waving waving waving waving waving waving :angel: :angel:


the one above me is jellybean, hmmm???

do i wish her happiness? hmmmm?????

let me think on that one - hmmmmmmm?????






















ye ok, happiness on you miss G flowers

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Wed 07/16/08 08:57 PM
Edited by smiless on Wed 07/16/08 08:58 PM


How are you today my friend? Isn't it a wonderful peaceful and most exhilirating day ever!happy



dont pull that goody, goody, stuff on me black dragon, your just trying to lure the food into your cave so that you can enjoy a meal or two. I for one wont allow you to do so!! you, you, dragon you!!


outside of that i'm fine as usual. :smile: :tongue: bigsmile biggrin rofl smile2 :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: waving waving waving waving waving waving waving :angel: :angel:


the one above me is jellybean, hmmm???

do i wish her happiness? hmmmm?????

let me think on that one - hmmmmmmm?????






















ye ok, happiness on you miss G flowers



Stop telling everyone I am a black dragon!!!!! I am waiting until the population reaches 10 billion before I devour everyone. What a great meal that will be for me and my children!!:smile:

otherwise I am doing great and it is great to see you are doing fabulous!laugh laugh

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Wed 07/16/08 09:47 PM
Kindness is a wonderful tool. Just tonight it helped me with an angry alzheimer resident. She was throwing a fit because she wanted to get up for breakfast and it was 9 o'clock at night. She commanded me to get her pants and dress her. When I first started working where I do if an angry resident got angry with me I wanted to get angry right back with them. It was like they had some evil demon in them and that demon went right into me. I even thought since because of my religious upbringing that I should try to exorcise their demon. I thought dementia was some how related to demon possesion. Now I just try to be kind to them no matter kind of mood they are in. It works pretty good most of the time. I figure I have the choice in how I react to people no matter how they act towards me. It worked tonight because being kind to the angry resident after she threw her temper trantrum she apologized on her own accord and was just as sweet as pie as if nothing had happened. I just love working with alzheimer residents. They have been such a good tool in letting me progress in my own anger management. Thanks to my spiritual program I have learned if my day starts out bad that I have the choice to restart it. I don't have to buy into guilt or anger; I can just be kind towards others and it is good karma. Kind of like the scripture, "You reap what you sow.":smile:

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Thu 07/17/08 03:57 AM
WOW! RB Trout...you are a VERY Brave person.

I just read your profile.. it takes courage for you to come through. Keep the faith... :heart: