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Topic: now i am really confused
kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Tue 07/15/08 12:39 PM
littleike: 12) "Goodbye" and "I'm leaving" posts where a user is declaring that they are leaving the site are not allowed and will be deleted from the forums. You obviously are free to leave the site at any time, but if you wish to notify your friends that you are going, please do so using the private messaging system

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 07/15/08 12:39 PM
Topic: Forum Rules - PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING

kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Tue 07/15/08 12:40 PM
The following rules have been established to help maintain a civil and friendly environment, allowing everyone to enjoy the discussions found here. Please read this post completely in order to prevent any potential rules violations. FORUM RULES 1) Do not attack/slam/insult others. You can discuss the message or topic, but not the messenger - NO EXCEPTIONS. If you are attacked by another user, and you reciprocate, YOU will also be subject to the same consequences. Defending yourself, defending a friend, etc. are NOT excuses. Violations of this rule are taken very seriously and may result in being banned without warning! 2) Topics which are started with the intent to denigrate, belittle, or disparage another JustSayHi member, either directly named or through enough descriptive commentary to be possibly identified, are prohibited. Such topics will be instantly deleted and may result in the banning of the original poster. 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The only exception to this rule is the New Members Welcome Area where posters are permitted to introduce themselves to the community, and the Rate My Profile forum where you may ask for feedback about yourself and your profile. 6) For your safety, do not post personal information such as telephone numbers, emails, mailing addresses, instant messenger ids, etc 7) Do not post messages that violate federal, state/provincial, or local laws which include, but are not limited to, anything that violates a copyright, trademark, patent, trade secret or is bound by NDA (non-disclosure agreement) 8) Do not spam the boards with advertisements for other services, websites, etc. 9) Post topics in the appropriate forum. For example, chat topics like "I'm bored", or "Goodnight everyone" belong in the Chit Chat forum. Members who repeatedly post topics in the wrong forum could lose their posting privileges. 10) Multiple profiles are not allowed. You may only have 1 profile per user. Users who are found to have created multiple profiles will have all of their profiles deleted. 11) Please do NOT post suicide notes or threats (or posts which could be interpreted as such) on the forums. This can be incredibly damaging to members and the staff, and we are NOT trained in counseling to deal with such things. If you DO feel suicidal, please contact a real life counselor or support helpline. We do care about you, but we are not equipped to deal with such a situation. If you post such a note, it will be immediately deleted from the forums and your account will be removed from the site. 12) "Goodbye" and "I'm leaving" posts where a user is declaring that they are leaving the site are not allowed and will be deleted from the forums. You obviously are free to leave the site at any time, but if you wish to notify your friends that you are going, please do so using the private messaging system. 13) If you have concerns about another poster or wish to report a rule violation, the ONLY appropriate venue is to use the Report Abuse feature or to message Vanchau or Mike. You may NOT air such concerns on the message boards themselves. If you have a general concern that does not involve a specific member, you may post your question in a civil manner in the "Feedback" or "Help" forums. 14) Hijacking a topic by making posts which are off-topic and unrelated to the original post is considered rude. Please try to keep your posts pertinent to the topic at hand. We will allow some leeway in this area. However, members who continually hijack topics, especially after having been warned by a moderator, may have their posting privileges suspended. We ask all users to do their best to stay on-topic. 15) If you have concerns about another poster or wish to report a rule violation, the ONLY appropriate venue is to use the Report Abuse feature or to message Vanchau or Mike. You may NOT air such concerns on the message boards themselves. If you have a general concern that does not involve a specific member, you may post your question in a civil manner in the "Feedback" or "Help" forums. 16) Protesting a moderator or admin action is not allowed on the forums at any time. Anyone that creates or participates in a protest topic, outlines any protest in their profile, posts any negative commentary with regards to moderation or administration, or discusses emails/actions between moderators/admins and themselves in their profiles or in the forums will have their posting privileges suspended or may even be permanently banned from the site. The forums or other public venues are not the appropriate place to lodge a complaint. If you have a question or concern about a moderator or admin action, you should email one of the moderators or an admin with your concern and we will investigate the matter promptly. Thanks for your cooperation and we hope you are enjoying the site!

markecephus Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 13831	Tue 07/15/08 12:40 PM
First Amendment to the United States Constitution Freedom of speech is being able to speak freely without censorship. The right to freedom of speech is guaranteed under international law through numerous human-rights instruments, notably under Article 19 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and Article 10 of the European Convention on Human Rights, although implementation remains lacking in many countries. The synonymous term freedom of expression is sometimes preferred, since the right is not confined to verbal speech but is understood to protect any act of seeking, receiving and imparting information or ideas, regardless of the medium used. Freedom of speech, is not applicable on a privately owned website with rules. When those rules are broken, the site reserves the right to enforce those rules. It's all in terms of use.... I explained in personal email as to why the thread was removed. Let's please move forward, Thanks, Mark

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 07/15/08 12:41 PM
very Unamerican if you ask me your so right

LoveBone Joined Mon 07/14/08 Posts: 333	Tue 07/15/08 12:42 PM
First Amendment to the United States Constitution Freedom of speech is being able to speak freely without censorship. The right to freedom of speech is guaranteed under international law through numerous human-rights instruments, notably under Article 19 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and Article 10 of the European Convention on Human Rights, although implementation remains lacking in many countries. The synonymous term freedom of expression is sometimes preferred, since the right is not confined to verbal speech but is understood to protect any act of seeking, receiving and imparting information or ideas, regardless of the medium used. Freedom of speech, is not applicable on a privately owned website with rules. When those rules are broken, the site reserves the right to enforce those rules. It's all in terms of use.... I explained in personal email as to why the thread was removed. Let's please move forward, Thanks, Mark Thank you Mark...I will keep all this in mind

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 07/15/08 12:43 PM
First Amendment to the United States Constitution Freedom of speech is being able to speak freely without censorship. The right to freedom of speech is guaranteed under international law through numerous human-rights instruments, notably under Article 19 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and Article 10 of the European Convention on Human Rights, although implementation remains lacking in many countries. The synonymous term freedom of expression is sometimes preferred, since the right is not confined to verbal speech but is understood to protect any act of seeking, receiving and imparting information or ideas, regardless of the medium used. i posted something like that and this not being a comunist country and i got scolded and deleted by mods. you guys never even saw my post

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 07/15/08 12:47 PM
If folks would read the rules & remember them; there would be no need of Mods. so i would read them if i knew were they were, can you tell me were rules are/

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 07/15/08 12:48 PM
they were posted read up ike

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 07/15/08 12:49 PM
If folks would read the rules & remember them; there would be no need of Mods. so i would read them if i knew were they were, can you tell me were rules are/ so helpless open any forum the first few posts are rules and regulations... on all forums...

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 07/15/08 12:49 PM
they deleted my post cause i comented to them deleteing threads and the deleted my post cause it was stateing a fact not opinion and it was negative about them so they deleted it The first ammendment covers this...maybe its time to elect new mods we can do that? we can vote for mods?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 07/15/08 12:51 PM
they deleted my post cause i comented to them deleteing threads and the deleted my post cause it was stateing a fact not opinion and it was negative about them so they deleted it The first ammendment covers this...maybe its time to elect new mods we can do that? we can vote for mods? YOU MISSED THE VOTE

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Tue 07/15/08 12:51 PM
First Amendment to the United States Constitution Freedom of speech is being able to speak freely without censorship. The right to freedom of speech is guaranteed under international law through numerous human-rights instruments, notably under Article 19 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and Article 10 of the European Convention on Human Rights, although implementation remains lacking in many countries. The synonymous term freedom of expression is sometimes preferred, since the right is not confined to verbal speech but is understood to protect any act of seeking, receiving and imparting information or ideas, regardless of the medium used. I like that but unfortunately we are at war so the Patriot Act is in full implementation..............your not the only one I got a little scolding as well..............dont worry be happy I say to all......

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 07/15/08 12:52 PM
they are just doing their job.if you are on here then you have to follow rules. ok, but is it realy a job or is it just a way of getting control? who pays them? i bet you if you traced it down they dont get paid they just like control

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Tue 07/15/08 12:53 PM
If folks would read the rules & remember them; there would be no need of Mods. Well, if some folks werent thin skinned and could take some good natured ribbing, we wouldn't need them either. Kind of a circular arguement.