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I'm talking to someone one one of these dating websites who is about to
have a baby, and i am totally fine with that, i just need some advice on telling her that i am ok with that and that i will support her in any way that i can. |
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Tell her that. it's just that simple.
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does she fine you interesting
do you guys get along when you talk? just open up your heart and tell her how you feel about her okay let me know how you make out okay man |
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You just answered your own question there. Don't try to make is
complicated. The old K.I.S.S. rule is great. |
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You should just come out and tell her. You have nothing to loose and so
much to gain. Be honest with her. Good Luck. |
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yea but i just dont wanna sound like thats all im focused on because we
get along sooo well |
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Just come out and tell her.Lots of single girls with kids think no guy
would be interested in them.Think that would be multiplied if she were pregnat.You better be damn sure tho.You dont get involved with her then back out of it. |
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You could just toss it out there, in a casual way, if you think that
would work better. "On, by the way, in case you were wondering, I have no problems whatsoever with the fact that you're having a baby. I know some guys get all freaked out about stuff like that, and I don't want you to think I'm like that." And then drop it. If she wants to do some followup, she will, and you won't look like your focusing entirely on one issue. |
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I agree with all replies. Right now she could use a best friend who has
proven his loyalty to her in any way that will make her feel more secure about herself as well..... |
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talk to her about it, and first see how she feel about that idea
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tell her like it is bruddah...but know you not gon have 1 but 2
loves....acceptance and understanding is key....and avoid askin her bout her past.... |
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I don't think you have to say a thing, just act accordingly. I'm sure it
has and will come up in conversation the pregnancy and the baby, so if you're looking forward to the birth of that baby, then show her that in a natural way not in a way that might be exaggerated. When the time comes when she needs to know, she can ask if she is not sure of the answer yet. And if you get to know her in person and you happen to be around when that baby comes, you will have a sublime oportunity to show her your true intentions if you haven't made them clear by then. |
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Sounds as if you have gotton great advice here go for it be yourself and
just be real. |
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good advice givin here. Keep us informed k?
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I think every one is right and your so sweet to care about her and her fillings at this time.May the best be with you both. |
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I'd say be careful with this situation. If she
is having a baby and it is not yours....There may be some baby-daddy drama when she drops the load. Is she really done with him or could it be her harmones acting up? Please be careful and let us know how things work out.... |
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i agree with piffs
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I think I agree more with QueenB, you need to be careful. There's a
difference in someone who has kids established in their lives and someone on the edge. Though as far as friendship goes, I also agree with the others, who say to communicate what you think. You can bring it up out of the blue if you like, just by saying something like - ya know, I admire your strength to go through with all this. Or something like that, to break into it. |
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Hey Jarette just act like your normal self when you talk to her, if you
guys are getting along great than thats awesome. when i was pregant and my ex and i broke up when i was three months no guy wanted anything to do with me lol. Just be there for her when she needs ya, that will show her that you care the most |
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Just sit down.Open a beer and tell her.If that don't work open two
beers.If that don't open three beer.I think you get the pitcher. |
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