Topic: I have a question
jarette89's photo
Wed 03/07/07 02:45 PM
I'm talking to someone one one of these dating websites who is about to
have a baby, and i am totally fine with that, i just need some advice on
telling her that i am ok with that and that i will support her in any
way that i can.

BigGlenn's photo
Wed 03/07/07 02:46 PM
Tell her that. it's just that simple.

tallandtttanned's photo
Wed 03/07/07 02:47 PM
does she fine you interesting
do you guys get along when you talk?
just open up your heart and tell her how you feel about her okay

let me know how you make out okay man

whispertoascream's photo
Wed 03/07/07 02:48 PM
You just answered your own question there. Don't try to make is
complicated. The old K.I.S.S. rule is great.

no photo
Wed 03/07/07 02:50 PM
You should just come out and tell her. You have nothing to loose and so
much to gain. Be honest with her. Good Luck.

jarette89's photo
Wed 03/07/07 02:52 PM
yea but i just dont wanna sound like thats all im focused on because we
get along sooo well

BillRoot's photo
Wed 03/07/07 02:56 PM
Just come out and tell her.Lots of single girls with kids think no guy
would be interested in them.Think that would be multiplied if she were
pregnat.You better be damn sure tho.You dont get involved with her then
back out of it.

no photo
Wed 03/07/07 02:58 PM
You could just toss it out there, in a casual way, if you think that
would work better. "On, by the way, in case you were wondering, I have
no problems whatsoever with the fact that you're having a baby. I know
some guys get all freaked out about stuff like that, and I don't want
you to think I'm like that." And then drop it. If she wants to do some
followup, she will, and you won't look like your focusing entirely on
one issue.

no photo
Wed 03/07/07 03:01 PM
I agree with all replies. Right now she could use a best friend who has
proven his loyalty to her in any way that will make her feel more secure
about herself as well.....

Morena350's photo
Wed 03/07/07 03:05 PM
talk to her about it, and first see how she feel about that idea

ISLANDKING's photo
Wed 03/07/07 03:07 PM
tell her like it is bruddah...but know you not gon have 1 but 2
loves....acceptance and understanding is key....and avoid askin her bout
her past....

piffs's photo
Wed 03/07/07 03:11 PM
I don't think you have to say a thing, just act accordingly. I'm sure it
has and will come up in conversation the pregnancy and the baby, so if
you're looking forward to the birth of that baby, then show her that in
a natural way not in a way that might be exaggerated. When the time
comes when she needs to know, she can ask if she is not sure of the
answer yet. And if you get to know her in person and you happen to be
around when that baby comes, you will have a sublime oportunity to show
her your true intentions if you haven't made them clear by then.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 03/07/07 03:15 PM
Sounds as if you have gotton great advice here go for it be yourself and
just be real.flowerforyou

Tneal's photo
Wed 03/07/07 03:36 PM
good advice givin here. Keep us informed k?

no photo
Wed 03/07/07 03:36 PM


I think every one is right and your so sweet to care about her and her
fillings at this time.May the best be with you both.

no photo
Wed 03/07/07 03:40 PM
I'd say be careful with this situation. noway noway noway If she
is having a baby and it is not yours....There may be some baby-daddy
drama when she drops the load.devil devil devil Is she really done
with him or could it be her harmones acting up?

Please be careful and let us know how things work out....flowerforyou
flowerforyou flowerforyou

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 03/07/07 05:35 PM
i agree with piffs

Redykeulous's photo
Wed 03/07/07 05:42 PM
I think I agree more with QueenB, you need to be careful. There's a
difference in someone who has kids established in their lives and
someone on the edge. Though as far as friendship goes, I also agree
with the others, who say to communicate what you think. You can bring
it up out of the blue if you like, just by saying something like - ya
know, I admire your strength to go through with all this. Or
something like that, to break into it.

AutumnLee21's photo
Wed 03/07/07 06:04 PM
Hey Jarette just act like your normal self when you talk to her, if you
guys are getting along great than thats awesome. when i was pregant and
my ex and i broke up when i was three months no guy wanted anything to
do with me lol. Just be there for her when she needs ya, that will show
her that you care the most :smile: :smile:

crashhere's photo
Wed 03/07/07 06:09 PM
Just sit down.Open a beer and tell her.If that don't work open two
beers.If that don't open three beer.I think you get the pitcher.