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Topic: I See Him Posting
Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 07/14/08 04:21 AM
You talk to somebody via e-mail for awhile and all of a sudden they stop. You follow up asking if everything is OK, and no response. You see them posting, you know they have read it, but still no response. How can you talk to somebody for so long and not give an explanation as to why they do not want to talk to you anymore? I just do not understand it. Really I don't. And men say that they can not figure us women out. You all need to read the book: "He's Just NOT that into you" Guys (in a nutshell) hate confrontation and if telling you (instead of being silent) would be easier? it's the road more taken. Simple. Easy. Let it go or it'll kill ya. I know.

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Mon 07/14/08 04:58 AM
Have the book and it's darn near illegible from so many reads ... wish I could say I'm wiser and less affected when someone new goes poof into thin air, but it's never something that just rolls off my back - yet, anyway.

snowangel2 Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 3798	Mon 07/14/08 05:24 AM
He's a punk if he cant at the very LEAST email you and tell you why he chooses not to associate with you anymore. MY OPINION!!! I agree with ya,in my opinion there jerks if they can't be man/woman enough to be honest with ya

snowangel2 Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 3798	Mon 07/14/08 05:27 AM Edited by snowangel2 on Mon 07/14/08 05:28 AM
You talk to somebody via e-mail for awhile and all of a sudden they stop. You follow up asking if everything is OK, and no response. You see them posting, you know they have read it, but still no response. How can you talk to somebody for so long and not give an explanation as to why they do not want to talk to you anymore? I just do not understand it. Really I don't. And men say that they can not figure us women out. You all need to read the book: "He's Just NOT that into you" Guys (in a nutshell) hate confrontation and if telling you (instead of being silent) would be easier? it's the road more taken. Simple. Easy. Let it go or it'll kill ya. I know. I know that now too,thats a lesson I have just recently learned. It will destroy ya if ya let it,I just about let it get me.

egoodrich Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 7140	Mon 07/14/08 05:27 AM
some people are just too big of assheads to actually tell the person that they're not into them anymore, and decide to completely cut off contact with the person in order to just stop the situation all together.

muzikmaker Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 98	Mon 07/14/08 05:41 AM
You talk to somebody via e-mail for awhile and all of a sudden they stop. You follow up asking if everything is OK, and no response. You see them posting, you know they have read it, but still no response. How can you talk to somebody for so long and not give an explanation as to why they do not want to talk to you anymore? I just do not understand it. Really I don't. And men say that they can not figure us women out. You all need to read the book: "He's Just NOT that into you" Guys (in a nutshell) hate confrontation and if telling you (instead of being silent) would be easier? it's the road more taken. Simple. Easy. Let it go or it'll kill ya. I know. I've got the book, too, sure made a difference in my responses!!

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Mon 07/14/08 05:43 AM
I understand from a romantic viewpoint - if he's not feeling it anymore - but what about when you're supposed to be FRIENDS with someone ... do the same rules apply? Do friends just go AWOL from other friends for no good reason?!

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Mon 07/14/08 08:30 AM
You talk to somebody via e-mail for awhile and all of a sudden they stop. You follow up asking if everything is OK, and no response. You see them posting, you know they have read it, but still no response. How can you talk to somebody for so long and not give an explanation as to why they do not want to talk to you anymore? I just do not understand it. Really I don't. And men say that they can not figure us women out. we living parallel lives Whisper???

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Mon 07/14/08 08:33 AM
He's a punk if he cant at the very LEAST email you and tell you why he chooses not to associate with you anymore. MY OPINION!!! I agree with ya,in my opinion there jerks if they can't be man/woman enough to be honest with ya I agree with both of you 100%

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 07/14/08 08:42 AM
It is time for me to let go I know. But I cherish my friends, both near and far. But hey his lost. If that is how he wants to treat his friends, then I say F*CK HIM! If this is how he treats everybody, then he will be the one left old and alone NOT me.