Topic: Men and Friendship!!??
lilfairy82's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:39 PM
Hey There Everyone!!! My questionable Topic is open to anyone whom may have a comment let alone an opinion!! I'm sure it's usually a question for us females, but open to a mans opinion as well!

I used to feel that a man can become a best friend and no strings attached!! no friends with benefits and no...ohhh! we used to date, but now we're just really good friends! I've seen it in the movies and heard about it with Christina Aguilera and her husband, but is it true!??? or is there more we don't know or hear about!glasses

I Mean DOES ANYONE FEEL THAT A MAN CAN JUST GET TO KNOW A WOMAN AND RESPECT HER AND LISTEN TO HER AND BE THERE FOR HER AND JUST BE REALLY BEST FRIENDS AND NOTHING???? PLEAZZZE REPLY!!!huh

mcattygarnett's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:42 PM
Yes, it is possible, but I do have to say that my best friend is my ex boyfriend, it didnt happen over night, it took us years to get to this point.

crazysillygirl's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:42 PM
yes i believe so......i have male friends that are nothing but that....and they are good friends...call to ask how i am and see if my day is going good....flowerforyou

Messerschmitts's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:43 PM
Sure, they can be friends if they're not attracted to each other romantically or sexually. I'm not attracted to every woman I meet, and women are not attracted to most men they meet. It's only a problem if someone secretly desires the other.

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:44 PM

Hey There Everyone!!! My questionable Topic is open to anyone whom may have a comment let alone an opinion!! I'm sure it's usually a question for us females, but open to a mans opinion as well!

I used to feel that a man can become a best friend and no strings attached!! no friends with benefits and no...ohhh! we used to date, but now we're just really good friends! I've seen it in the movies and heard about it with Christina Aguilera and her husband, but is it true!??? or is there more we don't know or hear about!glasses

I Mean DOES ANYONE FEEL THAT A MAN CAN JUST GET TO KNOW A WOMAN AND RESPECT HER AND LISTEN TO HER AND BE THERE FOR HER AND JUST BE REALLY BEST FRIENDS AND NOTHING???? PLEAZZZE REPLY!!!huh
yup, if he's gay !laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:45 PM
I have plenty of female friends that I have had for years & they are like family to me.

willy_cents's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:45 PM
sure is possible. My bet friend is female, we do stuff for each other, listen to each other and everything, but, no sexual attraction, nothing romantic ....just bestest of friends, I thinkhuh

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:46 PM
i joke, yes men and women can be friend's ! i have alot of women as friends and that's it !

guyguy1225's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:49 PM
slaphead of course !! all stereotyping to the side yes it happens

Nursekimmie09's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:50 PM
Definitely...I have lots of them bigsmile

no photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:59 PM
i'm still very close friends with my Jr. high school sweetheart, we see each other often, and help each other if one needs it. but we;re just good friends now. 37 yearsdrinker

iamherefornow's photo
Sun 07/13/08 07:01 PM
I have several male friends with no strings attached. And absoluetly no action is going on. I love knowing that they are there if I need help with something, if I have problem, a male to talk to or get advice from, or if I just want to take a roadtrip and want someone along for safety. Believe it or not my two closest friends are guys and neither of them is gay. The biggest problem that I have encountered is jealousy when they have a girlfriend or wife that is insecure. I would love to just tell the females that have a problem with male/female friendships "I am sorry that you are so insecure with yourself and your relationship."