Coudldn't have said it any better than that!

Honesty is a big key to me.... as for belle, id say you look damn good. a perfect example of a few xtra. dont change a thing your hot.

ty

the same way about men saying they got big d!cks too!!

but you wouldnt be one of them..... are ya???????????

ty

Well thank you.. I don't lie about my weight and I say on my profile that I'm NOT a barbie doll .. so if that is what a man prefers then he can go look elsewhere.. and if I did ever change it would be for myself not for someone else...

OOps ok you changed this to belle after I replied.. LOL

Some guys appreciate the "curves" I havent had a problem being hit on, I just dont like me. But Im very honest about it.

Damn..thanks!

I agree

I couldn't have said it better....have been a senior caregiver for 3 years now, but before that, had over 400 foster kids in 15 years. Talk about stress!! One of them sexually assaulted my 5 year old daughter and another burned our dairy barn to the ground! And just about every other conceivable scenario in between. You live in crisis mode and don't realize how out of control your life is! And then your husband gets killed....don't talk to me about stress.....just pass the Alprazalam, haha

Though I would share this beautiful write:

She has no special talent
No special beauty mark
No invention with a patent
No voice of a comely lark

No hourglass physique
No sunbeam likened smile
No lingering mystique
No manicured nails to file

But what she had she flaunted
With the style of a fur- lined stole
With the chic of a runway model
She flashed her beautiful soul

B*tching about honesty and people not being honest is a valid post. But to bring in someones weight or size is just down right hurtful.

finally..I don't see any fighting here...

and me..I'm actually very calm...

i was looking at belles when i wrote you in profile but it applies to you also.

they open themselves up for it when they tell thier " fib" in my opinion.

I noticed you didnt reply to my "outing" you in your big fat lie... go figure.. typical

letting this POS thread die now

this is all rediculas... since i am considered "healthy and normal weight" in a bmi calculater for 5'4 i beleive it was ranged from 114 to 135 as normal or average as you want to call it..... however..... muscle mass weighs more than fat does... i once weighed 114 and my bodyfat was too low for me... cause im muscular.. i was too lean... and not healthy till i was 122..however the barbie doll figure can weigh the same as me there forth they would be actually about 15 lbs heavier than i since they have no muscle.....<in fat> i seen a gal that weighed 90 once yes she was about 5'1 and at the time i weighed 126 and im telling ya she had way more cottage cheese than i have to this day.. so because lets say a guy is a musclebuilder... and is 40 lbs over the weight as a so called average guy.. should he be putting on here "obese"?..

no he should say musclebuilder.

and what if he is naturaly muscular? and say 20 lbs over the limit?

mensa disagrees with you on that one so it doesent deserve further comment.

Exactly........when they lie. A lie in my opinion over rules the material that the lie was about. No need to chastise or compare anyone's physical features to unattractive objects. That's hurtful.