Some people have been having problems with trust issues with dating or
meeting singles on jsh, and some have been hurt by people who talk to
them on the phone, and get really confortable, and when is time to meet,
they just stop calling and always someone get their feelings hurt,,,
Sometimes is because the person is not the same as the profile

if you want a real relationship and want it to work, maybe we should be
real, and if you have a fake pic, that is not you
maybe you should tell the person your talking to, and be honest your not
fooling no one but yourself.

And Im not saying this to no one in particular
just a suggestion,

if you not real here how do you think your going to find love and true
friendship?

And that is what this site is all about, believe me cuz I have lots of
friends and love in here,,

I'm so real it hurts does anyone wanna come pinch me to finda
out

**** Pinching Ms Txs,,, Yeppers she is real~~~~~

Im as real as real can get,,

Morena,, Great post you bring up some really good
points...

(((((((((((Txs)))))))) ((((((((((lamom))))))))))))

there are real people getting hurt by fake people and I dont think is
fare,. you guys know that some of us come to this site to find what we
don't have, and others come on here to play with peoples emotions, I
know of some who got hurt cuz they thought they where talking to who
really cared and just got hurt, so please if your here to play, be
careful, we have some sensitive human beings here who are really looking
for real love and real friends, some of us have found it, but we can't
forget those who haven't !!!

You bring up some good points there. I've been on here for about 6
months now. I mostly sit in the background and observe whats being said
in the forums and in my opinion alot of people aren't real on here. They
say what they think you want to hear and thats sad. When I reply to a
post I say what I mean and mean what I say.

Well Morena what is really sad is that when the ones we know are real
and they start fake profiles to mess with others then they whine about
getting done wrong shsssssssssssssh. All I can say to all that are
looking before you invest your heart ask questions and rhen ask more
until you are sure the one you are talking to is really them talk to
them on the phone use the webcam if there are doubts. Most likely if it
seems too good it is. You can never ask enough questions. If that
bothers them its a red flag watch out for the red flags the pop up and
most chose to ignore them. Be your own private eye. Hello there is a
cruel world out there better to be safe than sorry!!

you 3 ladys are REAL...thats a good thing..wish a few other on here
would learn from your examples.

Times have changed and we have now turned to the computer for dating and
meeting people,
Hell if you can not be real with yourself as to your wants wishes and
desire than who can you be real with, we all have baggage,, sharing that
baggage with someone makes you human
and leading someone on with false pretenses is just plain wrong, Do unto
others as you wish to be done to you,, Playing with someones emotions is
just wrong,, Always take caution in who you meet and who you are talking
to,,, thier is so much technology out thier,, in order to help you to
make the decision if someone is real or not...
Just my thoughts.....

((Newguy)))

hi lamom how r u

<---- is real

i agree with ya morena good topic!

hey button how r u today

<--------- ignoring TT he did not say hi to me pffffffffffff

im good, need to get to work soon waiting for pants to dry

you all have hit it on the head for me i have had alot of guys just
wanting to be sick pervs maybe I need to change my profile a bit. thanks
for the insight. much love and respect

<-----is real and really falling in love on JSH.. sure
hope hes real

hey button I am real

Good Morning TT, Its good to see ya

you too mom whats up

tall i know u are real