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Dr X. Please don't marry her. You already said you want "flesh of your flesh". You will cheat on her and have a child and that will hurt her terribly. Let her find a man that really doesn't want children.
Please break off the engagement now. Better now than 15 yrs from now. imho |
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yeah, sure i would.
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Thanks for the insight
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dude If I loved someone it would never matter if they could have kids or not . .love is love
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yes, love is love. Some feel that the greatest way to show that love is to make a child from the two of you and help create another human being that is a part of you both. Love's fire may go out, but, you will always be connected with each other by the new life you created.
Some don't feel that way. You should really think about this because it is a serious connection. My daughter does not see her adoptive father. He feels nothing for her and she feels nothing for him. She and I "bonded" when she was just days old. She's mine, whether there is blood there or not. Some men never feel that way about someone else's child. |
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babies are awesome.
i want two..more...lol |
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yes, love is love. Some feel that the greatest way to show that love is to make a child from the two of you and help create another human being that is a part of you both. Love's fire may go out, but, you will always be connected with each other by the new life you created. Some don't feel that way. You should really think about this because it is a serious connection. My daughter does not see her adoptive father. He feels nothing for her and she feels nothing for him. She and I "bonded" when she was just days old. She's mine, whether there is blood there or not. Some men never feel that way about someone else's child.
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I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed. I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it. And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support. Thats my main fear
You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you... |
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Yes, I would.
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Edited by
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I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed. I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it. And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support. Thats my main fear
You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you... Ive thought about it Thats a very real possibility
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I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed. I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it. And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support. Thats my main fear
You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you... Ive thought about it Thats a very real possibility
Thats a really serious decision.... |
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I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed. I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it. And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support. Thats my main fear
You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you... Ive thought about it Thats a very real possibility
Thats a really serious decision.... From what I understand its reversible
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I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed. I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it. And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support. Thats my main fear
You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you... Ive thought about it Thats a very real possibility
Thats a really serious decision.... From what I understand its reversible
Yeah but not always |
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Edited by
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Sat 07/12/08 02:43 AM
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I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed. I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it. And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support. Thats my main fear
You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you... Ive thought about it Thats a very real possibility
Thats a really serious decision.... From what I understand its reversible
Yeah but not always I think Id prefer not to have the docs doing any unneccesary cutting on me LOL Besides, there are lots of women my age and older that can no longer have kids and thats good enough for me.
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If you loved her would it matter?
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um, Fuzzims, me thinks you did not read this entire post to come up with a question like that!! Time for me to go to bed on that one!!
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yes, i believe I can do that. I will accept it as God telling me to humble myself and adopt if need be.
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yes I would because that doesnt matter to me
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Yes...I have already had 4 children from a previous marriage. Did my part to keep the population going!
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yes i would
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Thanks for the insight
Thats my main fear
Yes...I have already had 4 children from a previous marriage. Did my part to keep the population going!