Topic: Would you still marry them?
Donnar's photo
Sat 07/12/08 01:42 AM
Dr X. Please don't marry her. You already said you want "flesh of your flesh". You will cheat on her and have a child and that will hurt her terribly. Let her find a man that really doesn't want children.
Please break off the engagement now. Better now than 15 yrs from now. imho

no photo
Sat 07/12/08 01:48 AM
yeah, sure i would.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 07/12/08 01:49 AM
flowerforyou Thanks for the insightflowerforyou

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Sat 07/12/08 01:52 AM
dude If I loved someone it would never matter if they could have kids or not . .love is love

Donnar's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:01 AM
yes, love is love. Some feel that the greatest way to show that love is to make a child from the two of you and help create another human being that is a part of you both. Love's fire may go out, but, you will always be connected with each other by the new life you created.
Some don't feel that way. You should really think about this because it is a serious connection.
My daughter does not see her adoptive father. He feels nothing for her and she feels nothing for him. She and I "bonded" when she was just days old. She's mine, whether there is blood there or not. Some men never feel that way about someone else's child.

brooke007's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:06 AM
babies are awesome.
i want two..more...lol

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:13 AM

yes, love is love. Some feel that the greatest way to show that love is to make a child from the two of you and help create another human being that is a part of you both. Love's fire may go out, but, you will always be connected with each other by the new life you created.
Some don't feel that way. You should really think about this because it is a serious connection.
My daughter does not see her adoptive father. He feels nothing for her and she feels nothing for him. She and I "bonded" when she was just days old. She's mine, whether there is blood there or not. Some men never feel that way about someone else's child.
flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

Nursienurse's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:23 AM

flowerforyou I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed.flowerforyou I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it.flowerforyou And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support.noway Thats my main fearlaugh


You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you...

Syggie's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:33 AM
Yes, I would.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:34 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Sat 07/12/08 02:35 AM


flowerforyou I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed.flowerforyou I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it.flowerforyou And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support.noway Thats my main fearlaugh


You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you...
flowerforyou Ive thought about itflowerforyou Thats a very real possibilityflowerforyou

Nursienurse's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:35 AM



flowerforyou I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed.flowerforyou I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it.flowerforyou And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support.noway Thats my main fearlaugh


You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you...
flowerforyou Ive thought about itflowerforyou Thats a very real possibilityflowerforyou


Thats a really serious decision....

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:36 AM




flowerforyou I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed.flowerforyou I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it.flowerforyou And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support.noway Thats my main fearlaugh


You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you...
flowerforyou Ive thought about itflowerforyou Thats a very real possibilityflowerforyou


Thats a really serious decision....
flowerforyou From what I understand its reversibleflowerforyou

Nursienurse's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:39 AM





flowerforyou I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed.flowerforyou I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it.flowerforyou And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support.noway Thats my main fearlaugh


You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you...
flowerforyou Ive thought about itflowerforyou Thats a very real possibilityflowerforyou


Thats a really serious decision....
flowerforyou From what I understand its reversibleflowerforyou


Yeah but not always

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:42 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Sat 07/12/08 02:43 AM






flowerforyou I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed.flowerforyou I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it.flowerforyou And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support.noway Thats my main fearlaugh


You could always get yourself fixed....that would fix things for you...
flowerforyou Ive thought about itflowerforyou Thats a very real possibilityflowerforyou


Thats a really serious decision....
flowerforyou From what I understand its reversibleflowerforyou


Yeah but not always
flowerforyou I think Id prefer not to have the docs doing any unneccesary cutting on me LOLlaugh Besides, there are lots of women my age and older that can no longer have kids and thats good enough for me.flowerforyou

Fuzzims's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:46 AM
If you loved her would it matter?

Donnar's photo
Sat 07/12/08 02:57 AM
um, Fuzzims, me thinks you did not read this entire post to come up with a question like that!! Time for me to go to bed on that one!!

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Sat 07/12/08 03:28 AM
yes, i believe I can do that. I will accept it as God telling me to humble myself and adopt if need be.

mcattygarnett's photo
Sat 07/12/08 03:30 AM
yes I would because that doesnt matter to me

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Sat 07/12/08 08:41 AM
:laughing: Yes...I have already had 4 children from a previous marriage. Did my part to keep the population going!

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 07/12/08 09:50 AM
yes i would