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Topic: Opposites Attract
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/10/08 08:25 PM
People say that opposites attract, but can you have a lifetime relationship with someone who is the complete opposite to you?

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Thu 07/10/08 08:29 PM
opposites attract, likeness endures

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/10/08 08:31 PM
opposites attract, likeness endures good point

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 07/10/08 08:31 PM
People say that opposites attract, but can you have a lifetime relationship with someone who is the complete opposite to you? I have no clue.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Thu 07/10/08 08:31 PM
opposites attract, likeness endures ditto.. its not about who your like or not like.. its about the "click factor"

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Thu 07/10/08 08:32 PM
People say that opposites attract, but can you have a lifetime relationship with someone who is the complete opposite to you? that was my marriage .. key word "WAS"

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 07/10/08 08:32 PM
I'm not sure about that

heartofgold321 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 957	Thu 07/10/08 08:33 PM
Opposites might keep two people interested in each other,The person I wouldn't last with is someone to much like myself.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/10/08 08:33 PM
People say that opposites attract, but can you have a lifetime relationship with someone who is the complete opposite to you? that was my marriage .. key word "WAS"

8ADW01F Joined Thu 07/10/08 Posts: 63	Thu 07/10/08 08:36 PM
Yes you can because they makeup for what you lack and visa versa a.k.a. you complete them

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Thu 07/10/08 08:43 PM
Yes you can because they makeup for what you lack and visa versa a.k.a. you complete them have to disagree...you should be whole to begin with, a relationship should be an addition on the house, not a job under construction. JMO

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/10/08 08:44 PM
Very good points

8ADW01F Joined Thu 07/10/08 Posts: 63	Thu 07/10/08 08:56 PM
have to disagree...you should be whole to begin with, a relationship should be an addition on the house, not a job under construction. JMO Yes but did the house not lack that addition at one time and has it not improved because of it? You cannot expect somone to be the Godly Mansion of the Steel tycoon Lakshmi N Mittal. Otherwise they would not need an addition in the firstplace.

brenlee1965 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 529	Thu 07/10/08 08:59 PM
I am almost always attracted to the "quiet man" very opposite of myself. Unless you have some common goals, ideals and other things that keep you bonded.....the answer is NO. I tried for 13 years.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/10/08 09:00 PM
I am almost always attracted to the "quiet man" very opposite of myself. Unless you have some common goals, ideals and other things that keep you bonded.....the answer is NO. I tried for 13 years.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Thu 07/10/08 09:03 PM
have to disagree...you should be whole to begin with, a relationship should be an addition on the house, not a job under construction. JMO Yes but did the house not lack that addition at one time and has it not improved because of it? You cannot expect somone to be the Godly Mansion of the Steel tycoon Lakshmi N Mittal. Otherwise they would not need an addition in the firstplace. ah,but...need is the key word. you shouldn't need an addition to be complete. we will have to agree to disagree

brenlee1965 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 529	Thu 07/10/08 09:04 PM
cute.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Thu 07/10/08 09:04 PM
similarites matter to me...at this point in life anyhow

Lakeman Joined Mon 04/30/07 Posts: 10261	Thu 07/10/08 09:08 PM
Opposites attract through curiosity of how the "other side lives". You need to have things in common for the long run.

justgettingby Joined Mon 05/19/08 Posts: 12	Fri 07/11/08 09:46 AM
NO!!! My marriage was like that and it had an impact in it.