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dont think there is such a thing as being too independent, either you are or you're not. JMO I dont have a problem sharing my life w/someone either; now as far as asking for help, that just makes us both "stubborn" 
 
Wouldn't we all!
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I gurarantee it. I know it may seem like a long time now...but believe me it is not! 
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Hmmmmmm Mr. Perfect... One can only hope!  
How about Mr. Perfect for me! |
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I'm trying to keep an open mind, but I am already finding myself not wanting to compromise or give up certain things just to be with someone.....
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I'm trying to keep an open mind, but I am already finding myself not wanting to compromise or give up certain things just to be with someone.....
w/you I will not settle 
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I'm trying to keep an open mind, but I am already finding myself not wanting to compromise or give up certain things just to be with someone.....
See, that's exactly what I am talking about. It's almost as if I've gotten so used to being alone that if I meet someone where I have to do that, then I don't even want to bother trying. But it's hard to change my way of thinking since I've been thinking this way for so long! Isn't that horrible!?! 
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I'm trying to keep an open mind, but I am already finding myself not wanting to compromise or give up certain things just to be with someone.....
See, that's exactly what I am talking about. It's almost as if I've gotten so used to being alone that if I meet someone where I have to do that, then I don't even want to bother trying. But it's hard to change my way of thinking since I've been thinking this way for so long! Isn't that horrible!?!
And I haven't even been single that long I'm afraid it'll just get worse. I don't want to settle, but maybe I'll settle for being the crazy cat lady
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im too set in my ways ! and too damn old to try to let another women in my life ?
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Even though I'm looking to be in a relationship, I got way to comfortable being single
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the longer im single,
the more picky I get
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the longer im single, the more picky I get
You start finding things wrong with people
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the longer im single, the more picky I get
You start finding things wrong with people
And it takes less and less time to find the "wrong" things.... 
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Edited by
MsCarmen
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Wed 07/09/08 01:37 PM
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the longer im single, the more picky I get
You start finding things wrong with people
And it takes less and less time to find the "wrong" things....
I agree totally. I'm starting to see a pattern here....  
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cause problems with starting or getting into a relationship? Could you be so used to it and set in your ways of being alone that it's difficult to "adjust" to their way of thinking and/or doing things different from you? Has it gotten to the point in your thinking that it's either "my way or the highway" and you aren't willing to change for anyone? For me, it's not really a matter of being set in my ways because despite being single more years than I have been attached, I am still pretty flexible. Rather, it is a question of whether or not I want to change my life once again, move and adapt. I have finally found a place that feels like home to me and I am happy with my life as it is, not sure I am willing to make the changes anymore. |
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been single for a while, but live with guys, i welcome a women amungst the sausage fest im in right now.
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cause problems with starting or getting into a relationship? Could you be so used to it and set in your ways of being alone that it's difficult to "adjust" to their way of thinking and/or doing things different from you? Has it gotten to the point in your thinking that it's either "my way or the highway" and you aren't willing to change for anyone? Yes, very much so. On the other hand, I've been single long enough that it's made me more likely to be empathetic to her needs when she does come along. When that happens, I believe I will be more appreciative of her presence when I find the right lady. Still, a lot of the time, it is quite difficult to even remotely picture what life would be like with a girl on my arm. Due to my inexperience, most of my knowledge on women is based on theory. There is a long road ahead. |
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Edited by
moonie77
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Wed 07/09/08 04:27 PM
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I agree that I find it hard to open up. But maybe it wouldnt be so hard if the right person came along. I guess we'll see when it/if it happens... I am very guarded with my feelings.
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dont think there is such a thing as being too independent, either you are or you're not. JMO I dont have a problem sharing my life w/someone either; now as far as asking for help, that just makes us both "stubborn"
Ok Ill volunteer to trim your bushes 
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me i would welcome a man in my life about now.been single too long and would like to talk about stuff other than pokemon.
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I'm sooooooooooo ready to have to put the seat down again
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