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Elsa...
One thing I have to say...after reading most of the replies... I would ONLY want to loose weight to make it easier for me. I've decided NOT to loose weight to look better for HIM. If he doesn't like what he's looking at he could always leave. Take me the way that I am...or don't. In the long run...it will be HIS loss. 
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Elsa... One thing I have to say...after reading most of the replies... I would ONLY want to loose weight to make it easier for me. I've decided NOT to loose weight to look better for HIM. If he doesn't like what he's looking at he could always leave. Take me the way that I am...or don't. In the long run...it will be HIS loss.
Brings to mind an old saying used by women that used to be around; "Never date a man with a butt smaller than your own." 
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Elsa... One thing I have to say...after reading most of the replies... I would ONLY want to loose weight to make it easier for me. I've decided NOT to loose weight to look better for HIM. If he doesn't like what he's looking at he could always leave. Take me the way that I am...or don't. In the long run...it will be HIS loss.
Brings to mind an old saying used by women that used to be around; "Never date a man with a butt smaller than your own."
It's funny I've never heard that. But in the long run...why would I want to do THIS for him, when I should want to do it for myself....true? |
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My grandmother use to tell me that noone can love you until you love yourself first. I think that applies here!
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Elsa... One thing I have to say...after reading most of the replies... I would ONLY want to loose weight to make it easier for me. I've decided NOT to loose weight to look better for HIM. If he doesn't like what he's looking at he could always leave. Take me the way that I am...or don't. In the long run...it will be HIS loss.
Brings to mind an old saying used by women that used to be around; "Never date a man with a butt smaller than your own."
It's funny I've never heard that. But in the long run...why would I want to do THIS for him, when I should want to do it for myself....true? Very true. Each and everyone of us has our own tastes when it comes to preferences in body shapes. The most important thing is that one is comfortable with being who they are.
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Elsa... One thing I have to say...after reading most of the replies... I would ONLY want to loose weight to make it easier for me. I've decided NOT to loose weight to look better for HIM. If he doesn't like what he's looking at he could always leave. Take me the way that I am...or don't. In the long run...it will be HIS loss.
Yeah, I agree. I'm doing it for myself. I told my boyfriend I wanted to lose weight and he said I was perfect and I shouldn't, but he respects that I want to exercise and take better care of myself. |
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Elsa... One thing I have to say...after reading most of the replies... I would ONLY want to loose weight to make it easier for me. I've decided NOT to loose weight to look better for HIM. If he doesn't like what he's looking at he could always leave. Take me the way that I am...or don't. In the long run...it will be HIS loss.
Brings to mind an old saying used by women that used to be around; "Never date a man with a butt smaller than your own."
I have a big butt because I'm Puerto Rican. My boy has almost no butt, but he adores my butt, so yay! 
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Edited by
Anton_k
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Wed 07/09/08 03:29 PM
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Glad to see you are still around (((plk))), CONGRATS on the weight loss...keep it up! 
2 yrs. ago I lost 250 lbs. ~~~~ 200 lbs. of it belonged to my former b/f  and the other 50 lbs. were mine. I have gained a few back recently and could stand to lose 10-15lbs. again.
nice weight loss shutter .. the only problem now is you gained another 220 lbs.. back .   .and i don't think you are going to loose it .. well maybe a few lbs.. but not much more than that.   
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I'd like to lose about 10 pounds that I put on over the winter and haven't managed to shake during the summer this year. Last year I had a huge yard to take care and that helped. This year I live in apartments where the lawn is taken care of. I still walk but I need to do more and learn to say NO! to chocolate!!
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If not how much do you want to lose/ gain? Why aren't you comfortable with it? I personally want to lose 15 pounds (I've already lost 5! yay!) because I think I'll look better. I need to gain some weight, which will happen as soon as I start to work out again...which will happen when.... |
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If not how much do you want to lose/ gain? Why aren't you comfortable with it? I personally want to lose 15 pounds (I've already lost 5! yay!) because I think I'll look better. |
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I need to gain about 15-20 pounds. Due to my rapid metabolism, this is a near impossibility.
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I need to gain about 15-20 pounds. Due to my rapid metabolism, this is a near impossibility.
I use to be the same way, but after I turned 50 my metabolism and ...everything else headed south!!
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I need to gain about 15-20 pounds. Due to my rapid metabolism, this is a near impossibility.
I use to be the same way, but after I turned 50 my metabolism and ...everything else headed south!!
I have heard from the medical community that it is people who are overweight that have rapid (faster) metabolisms. According to doctors, people who are overweight, their metabolisms have to run faster because of the additional weight. Hence, the greater risk of coronary, other organ failure, etc. |
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hell no, im not happy about my weight ! i need to lose 50 pound's !
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Im okay with my weight..although i wish i could lose maybe 10-20 lbs...
i just enjoy eating FOOD!! maybe if i give up soda pop then i will lose some weight and eat what i want |
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Nope. I've got scrawny down to a science, it's time to gain muscle.
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Im a work in progress.
Ive already lost 62 pounds since september. Now Im not so much into "losing weight" as I am "toning up". |
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i dont really ever check my weight... just make sure I "FEEL" like I'm in shape. If I feel good about that, I'm not too concerned about weight
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