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Topic: To Avoid Falling In Love
lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 07/11/08 05:48 AM
No, I don't think that idea has occured to me. Then again, I struggle with meeting someone I even want to kiss, much less want to or think I might fall in love with!

glass_slipper Joined Wed 07/02/08 Posts: 45	Fri 07/11/08 04:42 PM
Hard to avoid someone your in love with, and I my experience, I cant tell Im going to feel that way until......I feel that way. I have however avoided someone I was in love with knowing they werent right for me.

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Fri 07/11/08 04:43 PM
Have you ever avoided someone just to avoid falling in love with them? What do you think of that idea? Wow ....Love....?. I want to fall in love tonight and not tomorrow .

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Fri 07/11/08 04:43 PM
Have you ever avoided someone just to avoid falling in love with them? What do you think of that idea? Wow ....Love....?. I want to fall in love tonight and not tomorrow .

sugarbunsss Joined Wed 12/26/07 Posts: 1410	Sat 07/12/08 11:16 AM
i forgot what its like to be in love

BruceRN63 Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 26	Sat 07/12/08 11:20 AM
Have you ever avoided someone just to avoid falling in love with them? What do you think of that idea? No... I thought we were all just trying to fall in love...

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Sat 07/12/08 11:22 AM
the question is WHY would you do that??? To avoid pain? agreed

BruceRN63 Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 26	Sat 07/12/08 11:26 AM
isn't pain just that feeling that fills in when love is missing...

Unique2468 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 964	Sat 07/12/08 01:34 PM
Have you ever avoided someone just to avoid falling in love with them? What do you think of that idea? I think as humans are biggest mistake is believing we can control love. Love can't be controled. It isnt good or bad, it just is. All you can do is make choices about our situation. Sure its scary to fall in love with someone, especially one that may not love you back, but freedom comes when you realize that your heart is big enough to love many people even at the same time.

Syggie Joined Mon 07/07/08 Posts: 180	Sat 07/12/08 02:11 PM
No. But I am currently avoding someone I did fell in love with.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 07/12/08 02:31 PM
Have you ever avoided someone just to avoid falling in love with them? What do you think of that idea? No....I fall in love often....and why would I avoid them??? Difference is you may perceive love as the fluffy pink Mills and Boon version... I don't. I fall in love with the Who of someone...doesn't mean I need or want anything from them... so I dont avoid love...EVER.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 07/12/08 02:37 PM
I'm pretty sure that's what I do everyday

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Sat 07/12/08 02:38 PM
((((Pats)))) You can run, but you can hide, sugar!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 07/12/08 02:40 PM
((((Pats)))) You can run, but you can hide, sugar! (((Montana)))

Donnar Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 874	Sat 07/12/08 02:46 PM
no. I have avoided some one I was in love with. Why torture myself?

GuideHenri Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 632	Sat 07/12/08 03:12 PM
No But I've avoided someone because they had fallen in love with me, Or were stalking me, Or I owed them money, Or they had my kid, Or ..

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Sat 07/12/08 03:57 PM
Have you ever avoided someone just to avoid falling in love with them? What do you think of that idea? I think I do that. I am too honest and I end up taking it too far and BAM! Still single baby! I think I do it on purpose knowing, I can't love this girl.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sat 07/12/08 06:15 PM
isn't pain just that feeling that fills in when love is missing... thats a real good way of seeing things.