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Topic: First Move
Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 07/08/08 04:40 PM
They need to make it clear to me to make that move. Do they need to put it in writing?

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Tue 07/08/08 04:42 PM
They need to make it clear to me to make that move. Do they need to put it in writing? I think you just did!!!!!

ndragon Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 144	Tue 07/08/08 04:44 PM
I ask my ex-hubby out and I was the one to propose to him. It's about 75/25 for me. If I'm really interested...I ask.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/08/08 04:45 PM
It's sad for some of the people that don't make a first move and alot will never do it. lokking at that, there going to be waiting for half there life just wating for someone to make a move... I've never really had the opportunity to make it really. I've been lucky that most of the guys who have asked me out would have been the ones I would have wanted to ask. I don't know if that makes me lucky, or made me miss out on a good experience. I assume I would be too nervous...but how would I ever know?

wily Joined Tue 07/01/08 Posts: 56	Tue 07/08/08 05:07 PM
I have not made the first move. Always believing that everyone is good hearted, I've been a fool twice. Now that I'm single, how do you know if someone is interested?

ndragon Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 144	Tue 07/08/08 05:10 PM
I have not made the first move. Always believing that everyone is good hearted, I've been a fool twice. Now that I'm single, how do you know if someone is interested? Most of the time its just a guess.. unless they make it obvious. It's worth the try cause you never know what just a few words can do. If they say no..at least your showing interest which makes most people happier.

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Tue 07/08/08 05:30 PM
Whenever there's someone I'm interested in, it seems like I ALWAYS have to make the first move. So I guess the answer to "who has never made the first move?" would be all my ex-boyfriends. Sorry to hear it hon! Don't worry about it. If I'm interested in someone, I just don't have the patience to wait for them to make the first move.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 07/08/08 08:42 PM
It's sad for some of the people that don't make a first move and alot will never do it. lokking at that, there going to be waiting for half there life just wating for someone to make a move... I've never really had the opportunity to make it really. I've been lucky that most of the guys who have asked me out would have been the ones I would have wanted to ask. I don't know if that makes me lucky, or made me miss out on a good experience. I assume I would be too nervous...but how would I ever know? I know what you mean, Love. I've been lucky that way too.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/08/08 09:40 PM
It's sad for some of the people that don't make a first move and alot will never do it. lokking at that, there going to be waiting for half there life just wating for someone to make a move... I've never really had the opportunity to make it really. I've been lucky that most of the guys who have asked me out would have been the ones I would have wanted to ask. I don't know if that makes me lucky, or made me miss out on a good experience. I assume I would be too nervous...but how would I ever know? I know what you mean, Love. I've been lucky that way too. Gotta like that...I really don't know if I'd be able to. HA! I'm pretty good at giving the why don't you ask me out look I guess.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 07/08/08 09:40 PM
Has anyone here never made the first move? Who has never asked someone out on a date? Anyone? Anyone? A few times, one regrettable...the other two? Meh.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Tue 07/08/08 09:43 PM
iv e made the first move before... but im not doing it again

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Tue 07/08/08 09:44 PM
I have to say i have never had to ask for a date.............and if that were to happen that i had to why not...........

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 07/08/08 11:44 PM
It's sad for some of the people that don't make a first move and alot will never do it. lokking at that, there going to be waiting for half there life just wating for someone to make a move... I've never really had the opportunity to make it really. I've been lucky that most of the guys who have asked me out would have been the ones I would have wanted to ask. I don't know if that makes me lucky, or made me miss out on a good experience. I assume I would be too nervous...but how would I ever know? I know what you mean, Love. I've been lucky that way too. Gotta like that...I really don't know if I'd be able to. HA! I'm pretty good at giving the why don't you ask me out look I guess. If I remember correctly , aren't you good at hypnotizing?