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Topic: bbw
sandra0607 Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 250	Mon 07/07/08 11:15 AM
biggwest shame is seeing young 20 somethings huge and killing their selves im not killing myself..ive made mistakes in the past with food but im working to get to be healthy..i never looked at it like killing myself..some people dont no how hard it is..

Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Mon 07/07/08 11:21 AM Edited by Voluptuous on Mon 07/07/08 11:24 AM
Well by no means should you consider being large an "excuse", that just because you're big you should have to force yourself to be comfortable with your appearance. Shoot for whatever you think would make you look beautiful, and when you get there, anyone who tells you otherwise can go to hell. Case in point: f**k the gym, that's probably causing half your emotional distress right there. Exercise at home, go for walks or ride a bike. Gyms suck, sit on some gizmo staring at a wall for hours on end surrounded by people that probably don't even need to be there. Take it from me, I know what you've been through. Us sticks got it just as bad growing up ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I actually like the gym. Those ladies help me accomplish my goals. Growing up, I was a competitive swimmer so I have ALWAYS had the power thighs and the HUGE back. To look at me now, most don't think I weigh 200 pounds but I graduated from Boot camp weighing 157 pounds! That was the fittest I ever was in my life. I'm just not built to be a "little" girl. I don't look like a weight lifter either

sandra0607 Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 250	Mon 07/07/08 11:26 AM
i love going to the gym..looking at people in shape help me realize how much id love to look like that..i don want to be barbie but i do want to be comfortable in my body..hopefully one day

TheMissile Joined Wed 07/02/08 Posts: 395	Mon 07/07/08 11:29 AM
i love going to the gym..looking at people in shape help me realize how much id love to look like that.. ehh, ok so maybe it's a double-edged sword...when that goes from "I'd love to" to "I HAVE to!", then you've got a problem.

sandra0607 Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 250	Mon 07/07/08 11:34 AM
every once in awhile you need that extra boost..i dont see a problem in it..like i said its not like i want to be barbie or some weight lifter..just healthy..

jesastar Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 89	Mon 07/07/08 01:08 PM
im kind of feeling like this is turning into people trying to talk bigger people to be confident in themselves and if some people have a problem with that then its good for them to talk about these things but i am happy with me not saying i never have self doubt because i do but more than that i believe i am beautiful and i know i deserve good things and i have good things to offer ... yes im big but i have fun and live life to its fullest

SuperMom30 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 469	Mon 07/07/08 01:11 PM
I have plenty of men chasing after me. I never had a problem. I am one sexy ***ch!!!!

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Mon 07/07/08 01:27 PM
I've always thought that the term BBW was kind of vain. Because to be beautiful, there are a lot of factors that must be considered besides physical appearance. So I prefer BSW or Big Sexy Women. Now me, I've said "wow, look at her" about all different sized women. Shoot, some of those curvy girls you see at car shows are a lot better looking than those pixie sticks that victoria secret parades around.

Heather70 Joined Tue 06/17/08 Posts: 73	Mon 07/07/08 02:17 PM
As one of those BBW's or BSW's, let me just add this... It took me well over 20 years to get comfortable with my looks and my body. I may be larger than average, but I'm healthy, and that's what matters. As TheMissle said, it is like hugging a pillow. Comfortable, close, warm, and nice. It's really not a matter of looks, but of attitude. SuperMom30 has the right attitude!

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Mon 07/07/08 02:51 PM
As a bbw my personal opinion is that I had more love inside myself than my skinny self could hold so my body expanded to make room for it all... yeah...i think that's what happened to me...nope it was too many trips to rally's....so now when we go i just get a kid's meal...and not too often...and am walking alot more i'm pretty fit and flexible for a tubby...

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Mon 07/07/08 06:21 PM
BBW.......... I am open minded, I can be with one, although I do have my limits. I would would still like to be that dominating male.

noblenan Joined Sat 10/06/07 Posts: 935	Mon 07/07/08 06:30 PM
Holding my BBW girlfriend was like hugging a big warm soft pillow, very nice Kinda miss it actually... I have yet to experience it. I kinda have to think I felt like a piece of string to her though 5'11" and 130lb, challenges the definition of "cuddling" a bit Sounds like me and my ex-husband. Trust me, it felt fine.