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Topic: When in public
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Sun 07/06/08 09:57 PM
PDA is a touchy subject. A little is okay, but it should be kept discreet for a few reasons:
1. it only angers those who have no one
2. it's just considered bad etiquette
3. it makes it a bit more special when you pull him or her into a back corner or room of a public place and plant a quick one on them, or when you're in a darkened theater or concert hall, you slide you hand into theirs.

Nova86's photo
Sun 07/06/08 10:05 PM

PDA is cool, but I hate when people are in shopping malls and the guy is behind his girl. Holding her and doing that stupid waddle that slows up mall traffic. Makes me want to kick the $#!T out of them on the spot!


Or when people need to get a room... Things can go to far. I would kick the $#!T out of them too, on the spot. Do I seem like an angry person? Nah, of course not.


THE "waddle" is funny to me...but yeah, pretty aggrivating.

Nothing wrong with PDA within reason....why should you care about what others think about what you do with your partner??

Voluptuous's photo
Sun 07/06/08 10:21 PM
I LOVE PDAsmooched smitten


Blaze1978's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:08 AM
Edited by Blaze1978 on Mon 07/07/08 12:12 AM

:smile: Do you feel its OK to show your Love or Feelings toward you significant other when in public; holding hands, kissing, hugging ,snuggling,etc..?:smile: If not do you find it unsettling of those that do? :smile:


This brings up the worst inner torment imaginable.

However, I cannot honestly say that I would not indulge in the same behavior given the opportunity.

But to me, it is an insult. The guy is telling you, without words, haha, I'm happy and you're not. And when they actually make eye contact with you before a display...

Makes me wanna stick a carrot peeler in the guy's left nostril and turn it counter-clockwise...or maybe take a pair of scissors and snip the piece of tissue connecting the lips to the gums...:laughing:

crazysillygirl's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:18 AM
I THINK ITS MANDATORY....lmaolaugh laugh laugh laugh

Amathyst2's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:26 AM
Public affection is merely just an outward show of an inward emotion. I see no problem with it. Just as long as the emotion isn't "I want to jump your bones right now!"

907daydreamer's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:38 AM
I don't mind the occasional touch or hand holding but I draw the line there. I see it as disrespectful to your partner....for kind of the same reason I don't run out and tell my girlfriends no matter how *amazing* a boyfriend may be in bed...what's it gonna do but make em want some? I don't want everyone to see how my lover touches me, and I don't need the validation. If it goes too far it usually comes off as an insecurity to me...

EtherealEmbers's photo
Mon 07/07/08 01:25 AM
I think it's fine to an extent. If their faces look permanently attached like sucker fish, it's time to take it behind closed doors.

auburngirl's photo
Mon 07/07/08 05:16 AM
yawn

TheCaptain's photo
Mon 07/07/08 07:47 AM
Edited by TheCaptain on Mon 07/07/08 07:47 AM
Is making love on the luggage carosel in the airport going over the line?????
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feistybaby's photo
Mon 07/07/08 07:54 AM
Pda is a MUST~ I think it should be respectful of those around you but if my guy isn't proud to be with me or is ashamed to show he cares for me he won't be my guy long....affection is like sun on flowers without it I shrivel up~

Puffins1958's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:00 AM
I think hand holding can be sensual as it is. He happens to love my hands and my nails. I never get to hold his hand enough. As far as kissing in public, that's fine as long as your tongue is not down his throat....

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Mon 07/07/08 08:02 AM
depends where you live....PDA'a in Manhattan, NY are expected and obvious...(no place to hide)

Manahatten, KS......not so much :smile:

s1owhand's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:06 AM

PDA is cool, but I hate when people are in shopping malls and the guy is behind his girl. Holding her and doing that stupid waddle that slows up mall traffic. Makes me want to kick the $#!T out of them on the spot!


Or when people need to get a room... Things can go to far. I would kick the $#!T out of them too, on the spot. Do I seem like an angry person? Nah, of course not.


freakin in public! laugh i don't see that as PDA actually...
but it is happening a lot these days. makes me laugh.


TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:18 AM
Anything goes as long as others don't feel its time for a motel room lol bigsmile

mcattygarnett's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:32 AM

PDA is fine unless it gets too out of hand...it is uncomfortable for me when its to the point they need to get a room...

I agree with you on thishappy

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:34 AM

:smile: Do you feel its OK to show your Love or Feelings toward you significant other when in public; holding hands, kissing, hugging ,snuggling,etc..?:smile: If not do you find it unsettling of those that do? :smile:
yep its cool as long as its not OTTbigsmile

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