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hi im looking for someone to be with someday and then help me raise my 3
kids with as if they where their own it to hard by my self and their mother is unfit to have them so if anybody would want to go out that would be great |
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Looking for someone to date when u r a single parent i find is hard i
have a 2 month old. and i am a single mom. just be patient and you will find the one |
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being a single dad my self raising 2 kids alone is a handful, it will
come some day that I will find that some one . you just have to keep your hopes up |
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keep your hopes up you all it took me 7 years to find the right guy. But
the whait was well worth it. I know its hard I got 5. hang in there and hope it takes you less time. |
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keith I have 3 kids and am a single parent my kids mother is truly
unfit I have my kids 24/7 365 days I'ts hard at times but the rewards outweigh it all. You can do it brother. |
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I think you folks that are raising your kids by yourselves are wonderful
people. I raised my daughter by myself (yeah, only one) but she has a borderline personality disorder, and man, could I tell you stories. Your kids are lucky to have you in their corner and taking care of them. It is hard work, but worth it. Take care. |
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Keith I totally understand what your going through. I want someone to be
in my life also and help me out with the kids. It's hard being mom and dad isn't? I respect all the single moms and dads out there that are holding it down while the other parent isn't anywhere to be found through out the tough times. I get through those tuff times with prayer and my love for them. I hope that you find someone who knows how to love your kids as if they were there own. I want the same thing. If you ever want to talk you know where I am JSH ALL THE WAY.... |
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Hang in there bro. Lots of us in the same boat. Welcome home...
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Hey Keith...i agree..welcome home..my kids are finally at a point where
they havent seen their real dad for about five years..hes been in and out of their lives..but wat they understand is that HE IS THEIR DAD...just the way he is and loves them even tho hes ..well..we dont need to go there..hahahaha..but...if a special person comes along and is able to care about them and make a good role model..thats a bonus...we are complete the four of us......took me along time..and alot of hurt to realize this! We are complete! but hey..always room for a hott guy...lol...Roxxx |
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Keith,
Yes, it is hard raising kids on your own, but in time I think everyone finds someone. Although, I am too still single, but I also want to be very sure that this someone will be the right person. I could not stand to see my kids hurt. I want to make sure they are fine with the idea that mommy is even looking and so far they freak out if I go out with friends. Hope you are successful in finding the right person. |
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just take you time and the right person is out there i am a single mom
and it not easy. you just have totake it slow. |
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Hi Keith, I'm a single mom 24/7 and I know it is hard. Please remember
for the sake of the kids to really get to know someone and make sure they could be the one before letting the kids meet her. My 9yr old (at the time) made a comment on the way home one day that she felt sorry for her cousin. I asked why and the reply was "Because he has so many daddy's and he don't know which one he gets to keep." Having different people walk in and play the role for a short period of time and then loose them is the worst thing for kids. |
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I'm a singale mother it is hard but you will find someone that will be
good to you and your kids as i will one day. |
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Just want to say keep your chins up and keep going forward. I have been
a single mom for 15 yrs now my kids are now grown. The only dad they knew was there real dad. Never remarried or had anyone live with me while raising my kids it was tough but that was my choice. All I can say is take the time with your kids no one is more important than they are. Never let a man or woman come between you and your kids. They will be there in the end. And like Fedman said the rewards far out weight the bad times or the hard time. Guys I dated never meet my kids for at least 2 months the whole time they were growing up until they got older they only meet two guys. My kids was my world and still are. For the way we are now I would do it all over again if I had to. Even if I did give up my life to a point it was well worth it they are happy we are very close and I still have time for me now. |
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I am also a single mom and have remained single for 8yrs. Theres nothing
wrong with being a single parent babydoll. You can always get a roll of duct tape...a hockey stick....a youngin...and you have a dandy door stop!!! |
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Keep the faith bro
There are women out there who Will love you and your kids If they don't ... i guess they Are not worth your time |
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being a single parent is hard.. and like violador said.. keep that
faith.. you will find someone who loves you and your kids.. if they dont love your kids.. then its pretty certain they dont love you just dont pick any woman that loves your kids cause if its not there for the two of you then the kids will be who suffers |
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To Dana
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Good luck on your search...I know its not easy
Mech P.S. Hi Luis and Dana! |
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