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Topic: Why Do People
polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Thu 07/17/08 08:43 PM
To me sex is a factor in a relationship, not the center. If you build everything on sex, someday it all will slow down ALOT. Greer, like riding a bike, it will all come back. I agree with you sage,If so much focus is put on sex I think you are setting yourself up for disappointment.Life happens, when my husband was ill sex was farthest from my mind. But affection and tenderness were still there.Three yrs without didn't kill me.I don't want a relationship were a great sex life is the deal breaker because I would question were you would be if were injured or dieing.Only my opinion. Well said carolann... Some of the best of times were the tenderness...looking at him when he was sleeping...stroking his beautful smooth skin, touching his hair when he was sleeping.. good sex yes yes...but let it be with a caring person...a person who means something to you

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Thu 07/17/08 09:04 PM
To me sex is a factor in a relationship, not the center. If you build everything on sex, someday it all will slow down ALOT. Greer, like riding a bike, it will all come back. I agree with you sage,If so much focus is put on sex I think you are setting yourself up for disappointment.Life happens, when my husband was ill sex was farthest from my mind. But affection and tenderness were still there.Three yrs without didn't kill me.I don't want a relationship were a great sex life is the deal breaker because I would question were you would be if were injured or dieing. quote Well said carolann... Some of the best of times were the tenderness...looking at him when he was sleeping...stroking his beautful smooth skin, touching his hair when he was sleeping.. good sex yes yes...but let it be with a caring person...a person who means something to you Hello poly,How are you tonite? I have to question how can a relationship last just because you have a great sex life? I can't say I would be to interested In sex if the other parts that make up the relationship were in the toliet.

polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Thu 07/17/08 10:14 PM
Aloha Carolann... Doing ok...trying to get my warm fuzzies when I can But yes if there are other issues like anger, honesty, appreciation.....no sex would not help. Hoe much make up sex could you stand Heading for higher ground.. Cheers and Aloha

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 07/18/08 03:51 AM
I preferr my all sex, lying down. Gets dangerous standing & not as good.

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Fri 07/18/08 05:14 PM
Why do people think that sex is so important?Would you leave your mate over it?Could be a health problem or old age.There are so many other ways to show and share your love and your life. Some like it and some do not . When it is necessary for one , it is hard to live without it . No wonder some cultures have more than one partner at one time . .

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Fri 07/18/08 05:46 PM
Aloha Carolann... Doing ok...trying to get my warm fuzzies when I can But yes if there are other issues like anger, honesty, appreciation.....no sex would not help. Hoe much make up sex could you stand Heading for higher ground.. Cheers and Aloha Higher ground what has that got to do with sex ?? lol

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Fri 07/18/08 07:24 PM
Things match a bit better!!