People are afraid to admit they like it and want to have it with someone special. Have you taken the sex quiz? I find I am way behind in he partner department!!!!!! Guess I have been too picky over the years and not had sex just to have sex. Had to have some feelings there somewhere.

I found out that I'm very far behind with the partner issue, too. Same reason here, I've been very picky. But with all the diseases and venereal viruses now, why would someone want to have all those partners? I think picky is a good thing, sometimes.

I agree picky is a good thing. Haven't checked out the quiz yet. We have all these sexually transmitted diseases crazy not to be.

Yeah, we need to be picky these days. You know... men see it, they want it. Women are emotional, and need to feel that.

I don't agree with polls.
We all have different standards; different lives; different morales. How many people any of us have had sex with, does NOT matter to anyone but the person. Don't judge yourself by some poll. You have had sex with all the people you REALLY wanted to, or you would have done it more. I had a very unusual youth & had alot of sex during it; been married twice & widower 11 yrs. SO WHAT.
I do what I want, how I want, when I want.
Anything else is NOBODIES business.

I'm not afraid to say I want sex with someone special. I put long term realationship because I want them to know I want someone special. Really looking for the person to end up my life with. I'm a little bit of a romantic

The Bible says married people shouldn't withold sex from each other without a mutual agreement. God knows how important sexul relations are. That's why he formed the marriage bond. Sex is meant to enhance that, used in the confines of marriage. Outside that, it can be a destructive force. Anything can be, used in a way God didn't intend it to be. See the instruction manual for details.

And if you type a colon like so : and then the word smile and then another colon without any spaces between the whole thing, you'll get a smiley on your page.

Try it. It's fun!

But who ever heard of sex and smiling going together anyway.

Sex always puts a smile on MY face.
Or just plain intamacy, either way.
Sex is not necc. all the time.

My sign off allot of the times is smiles. Like it like to see people smile :)yes like that :)

So do you smile after sex???

Why doesn't it surprise me that you would disagree with a sex poll?

Polls try to say what is normal.
What is normal for me, may not work for you.
We are all different & polls just play with our thinking.
Who's business is it anyway.
If they lived my life, they would have done it same way, or it wouldn't be "MY LIFE."

Well I sure do lol anyone else smiles

you can smile during yes even talk &
during sex
OK Frank Sinatra " I did it my way

One of my favorite singers & song.
Those that really know me, would tell you, "fits him like a glove." "MY WAY"

Tell me someone in this new generation like him. Miss Frank. I like Fly me moon too. But of course My Way was Frank.

Frank was one of the great singers. I don't have a favorite because I really liked all of his songs.

Back to is sex important.
If you could trust someone to keep your secret, would you have sex, just for the enjoyment of it.

As in "friends w/benefits?"

I would rather have sex w/a good friend,than a total stranger.
Besides safety precautions can be discussed & you really know "who you have been with."

Posting on here isn't keeping a secret. It's broadcasting it to the world.

I do think it's important to know who you are with.