Topic: 40s men
tjh2008's photo
Mon 06/30/08 01:50 AM
Are there any men in or around the southeast South Dakota area? Sure seems to be hard to meet anyone when a person isn't into the bar scene and doesn't work either.

ElaineSeekingJerry's photo
Mon 06/30/08 10:21 AM
Hmmm ... maybe you shouldn't stick your tongue out at 'em - they'll think you're being mean! :wink:

MLG40's photo
Wed 07/09/08 07:17 AM

Are there any men in or around the southeast South Dakota area? Sure seems to be hard to meet anyone when a person isn't into the bar scene and doesn't work either.


Well to ask, are you looking for someone who doesn't work? Most 40 year old men work for one reason or another. Thats were they be at; paying child support.

franshade's photo
Wed 07/09/08 07:18 AM

Hmmm ... maybe you shouldn't stick your tongue out at 'em - they'll think you're being mean! :wink:


elaine you read my mind :laughing:

tjh - hello and welcome; join the forums; make friends and have some fun!

no photo
Thu 07/10/08 06:10 AM

Are there any men in or around the southeast South Dakota area? Sure seems to be hard to meet anyone when a person isn't into the bar scene and doesn't work either.

Thank God I am thousands of miles awayrofl .

no photo
Thu 07/10/08 06:11 AM
southeastern south dakota...????

is there anyone there, at all?

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Sun 07/20/08 12:04 PM
i raised my son and the ex had to pay me child support

plk1966's photo
Mon 07/21/08 11:19 PM

i raised my son and the ex had to pay me child support


That is the way it should be,doesn't matter that you are male. Who every has custody the other parent should pay support.

PoeticMaster's photo
Thu 07/24/08 11:07 AM

i raised my son and the ex had to pay me child support



did he same! it was/is the greatest! Proud of my now 21 yr old who went into the woorld doing thhe fulltime school and work gig love

tony39h's photo
Fri 08/08/08 08:54 PM
no they all moved to oklahomalaugh laugh laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 08/08/08 09:49 PM
There's a lot of good looking men in their 40's in California. Of course, once you talk to them for 2 seconds you won't want to date them. laugh

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Fri 08/08/08 09:56 PM
you're looking in the wrong direction obviously

cflbikedog's photo
Sat 08/09/08 03:31 AM


i raised my son and the ex had to pay me child support


That is the way it should be,doesn't matter that you are male. Who every has custody the other parent should pay support.


My first ex owes me 16 years worth of back child support that I'll never see..... She'd have to get a job herself instead of finding really stupid men to pay her bills........

plk1966's photo
Sat 08/09/08 03:39 AM



i raised my son and the ex had to pay me child support


That is the way it should be,doesn't matter that you are male. Who every has custody the other parent should pay support.


My first ex owes me 16 years worth of back child support that I'll never see..... She'd have to get a job herself instead of finding really stupid men to pay her bills........


The sad part for either men or women is that you will never see all the money that you are due.

I don't understand why the parent that doesn't have custody think that the parent that does should foot the bill for raising the child. It is a joint venture and needs to be looked at that way.

vlpete's photo
Sat 08/09/08 11:04 AM




i raised my son and the ex had to pay me child support


That is the way it should be,doesn't matter that you are male. Who every has custody the other parent should pay support.


My first ex owes me 16 years worth of back child support that I'll never see..... She'd have to get a job herself instead of finding really stupid men to pay her bills........


The sad part for either men or women is that you will never see all the money that you are due.

I don't understand why the parent that doesn't have custody think that the parent that does should foot the bill for raising the child. It is a joint venture and needs to be looked at that way.

I raise my 2 middle ones by myself and my ex did everything she could to get out of paying.
i have 2 younger ones now that live with mom and i always pay the support.

tony39h's photo
Sat 08/09/08 07:37 PM

There's a lot of good looking men in their 40's in California. Of course, once you talk to them for 2 seconds you won't want to date them. laugh


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